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United States, Illinois, Bourbonnais

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I am very dedicated. If I say I'll do something, it gets done. I love my job. I wouldn't trade it for anything. My family and friends are the most important thing in the world to me. I can't be with someone who doesn't feel the same about their family and friends. I would love to meet someone who is self motivated and has appropriate morals and values. No halo required, and perfection not implied, but I'm looking for a man who realizes a woman is a partner and equal rather than a possession or a trophy, who is willing to dedicate himself to me 110%. I would prefer to find someone without children, and attachments to ex girlfriends/ wives, etc. I am a sucker for a man in uniform - PD, FD, Military. I also really love tattoos.. I prefer to IM/text ..not really a telephone person, until I get to know you a little - just meet for coffee or a drink and talk, in person. On a first date.. hmm.. something as simple as drinks would work. Not a movie though, that'd just be wierd..you're supposed to talk and get to know one another on a first date, right? The Movie Theatre doesn't seem to lend itself well to talking. The drive-in however would be a perfect 2nd date. Just a walk would be fine. I'm a sucker for sushi and martinis. There are actually more and more great local sushi places. I don't think the entire night needs to be planned out though. Dating should be fun and spontaneous - heck, LIFE should be fun and spontaneous.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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