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United States, Iowa, Storm Lake

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my life is all about having a good time, being present in the moment, sharing conversation, giving love and seeing the humor in everything. i love coffee, writing, movies, reading, traveling and music. i have a great group of friends and i'm close with my family. i have a dark sense of art and humor, the more disturbing the better. i'll try anything once. i'm adventurous about food, sex and life. i love surprises and small kindnesses. i want someone who can reciprocate. i am never finished, i am always trying to learn more and see more. "" - my emotions all show on my face, which can make me seem intense. in truth i am lighthearted and easygoing, even when it rains. i've also been described as very emotionally articulate. i can explain how i'm feeling without being overcome with the feeling itself. i'm really logical and slow to react. i can count on one hand the times in my life i've raised my voice. INFJif you aren't sure whether you like your life, i'm not the girl for you. i want someone who is happy and who loves the person they have become. everything doesn't have to be perfect (when is life ever perfect?) but, i want an adult with the tools to take care of their own problems, the confidence to help others, and the willingness to accept love. i secretly love a sweet man with a dark side. **disclaimer: i occasionally smoke cloves, which some people really hate. i typically smoke in social environments or when i'm drinking. i do not need to smoke everyday and i can usually take it or leave it. i will date you if you smoke, but hopefully your style is like mine.** if you want to meet me for the first time, invite me out for a cider someplace low-key and quiet. i recently had a fantastic first date that was a kind of fancy lunch with very unique beverages. take me someplace i've never been and teach me something. i love interesting food, unusual music and people-watching. i'm a sucker for coffee and kindness. i like an excuse to dress up. i'm happy to stay in with a movie or sit outside and listen to the city. i'm comfortable with silence, but i love the narrowed eyes and furrowed brows of deeply philosophical conversations, especially those that dissolve into laughter. it's not what we do, but how we do. just don't forget a little something sweet.I may or may not be fairly well smitten with someone kind of interesting and wonderful at the moment. It would be a really amazing feat to win my time or attention these days. But I'm not spoken for yet, so if you're interested, give me your best shot. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Indonesian South American Spanish Crime Drama
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