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Ruthie, 34

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Im not still not sure about this but I'll give it a try... First and most importantly I am a single mother of 2 boys who are my whole world and will always come first in my life so if you dont like the idea of a package deal, move on. My kids are around about 80% of the time.So now that that's out in the open, here it goes... I work full time, so between that and my kids its not easy to go out and meet people. And where would I go anyway? I like going out for a drink once and a while but I dont expect to meet Mr. Right in the bar down the street. And most of my friends are settled down too so even if I did want to find you in a bar I wouldn't go in by myself anyway! :)In my spare time I like to do all kinds of things. I could go on and on about me and what I like to do but we need stuff to talk about if I haven't bored you away yet! Sorry, I dont think Im very good at this.Im not high maintenance, not into drama, and not looking for a sugar daddy. I work and pay my own bills. I want to meet someone who is fun and family oriented. If you have kids too, great! But you have to at least accept that mine will be around. (Probably not on the first few dates though! Lol) I like to be outside, but wouldn't say no to chilling on the couch with some ice cream and a movie. Or The Walking Dead. Its almost the season premier!!! So hopefully I haven't scared you away and you think Im cute, send me a line. You never know... Somewhere fun like a carnival or outdoor concert. Dinner is a nice first date but come on guys. Lets shake things up a bit!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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