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Linda, 32
United States, Iowa, Charles City

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I'm an easy going, kind, talkative, honest, and caring kinda person. I'm a hopeless romantic, that being said I wouldn't say I have this image of someone sweeping me away...however that would be nice ;) (joke ppl) I love anything that relates to the ocean. I'm from an island so I think it's born into me to want to be near it.I love most music...not a big rap fan...I'm also pretty into the usual thing, such as going to movies, cooking, spending time w/ friends, family, and my pets.I am VERY happy doing what I do. Work is challenging but rewarding and even on the days that are hell... I love what I do.I'm looking for someone who is intelligent that can carry on a stimulating conversation. Thats not to say it always has to be serious, or intelligent because I think it's an important to laugh at everything you can...starting with yourself. ;) I laugh at myself on a regular basis :)Anyways if your a nice, honest, smart, handsome guy that knows what he wants and where he's going...I'd love to chat.What I'm looking for in a man...Compassion, goals, perfect imperfection ; Someone who isn't intimidated by my successes because they feel they have their own. Someone who wants a family someday. Someone who isn't playing the game, who is genuine, and means what they say. Someone that can communicate effectively... (not at easy as it sounds, just because you know how to use your words... Doesn't mean you know how to really use your words correctly) someone who knows I'm not perfect, I never will be, but that sees that I see that and enjoys it as that is the point to life... If you think you know it all you might as well be dead.I'm ok with kids, I actually love them, but I want my own someday so as long as its not a closed chapter we are cool!My flaws...Well... I talk too much... And I communicate on overdrive. I don't lie well and I want someone who wants the truth (tactfully handed to them)I don't have a big family and I don't see mine much :( this is something I wish we're different... I put too many ... :/ :) in all my messages... See.I have a bunch of pets... Vet tech and all so I have a "few" rescues in my home... My home is beautiful and clean though and I am def at Max capacity aka I'm not going to go get more pets. Not that you can't have your own pet... Cross that bridge if we come to it.I'm picky when it comes to a partner... I have self worthWhat I'm not looking for... Prob should have put this up front! Not looking to just get laid! Let's be clear here guys, I'm a woman and women can always just get laid... It's simple but it's sad and boring... I want someone who won't try to jump into the sac with me right away... Someone that if I slept with them quickly would be turned off... Yup cause lets be honest ur not gonna be like "hey mom! Oh yeah she's a keeper!" if we hook up fast... Plus we wouldn't know eachother and sex usually isn't as good (at least for most women) when you don't have a connection... Just being honest.I want you to have your own place and be an adult... I know! Crazy overly demanding women these days! Psh! No wonder I'm single! LolIf your full of yourself... Move on.If you don't like animals... Move on.If you don't want to find your best friend/ partner in crime (not real crime... Sadly I have to clarify) move on.If your profile says "don't be a fatty" ... Ur an ***hole, move on. ( side bar I'm not a fatty, but I'm not a twig... And yes ur still an ass)If your profile says "I want to go on vacation who wants to come?" ... Ur an idiot who is setting himself up for being used... Re-evaluate and also... Move on.I in no way am making fun of the above said people... They are free to do whatever they like, beautiful... I just don't want in.. Or the BS attached to it.I'm not trying to be a *** And I'm actually not even close to one.. But I am trying to be clear.. I've been single for a long time and am happy with my life and myself... I don't wish to be down on anyone else, I just don't wish to bother with it. I'm a soft heart and I do care about people's feelings... I've tried both ways of saying no thank you on this site and it never works... So if I do t answer, please don't take it personally and I will do the same :) somewhere to talk :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Caribbean French Italian Middle Eastern Martial Arts Music Social Networking
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