Total users: 61,755,349 Online users: 222,355
Aurora, 32
United States, Connecticut, Trumbull

Online

About Me

So much to say and defined to a small box, I don't do well with small boxes. Things to know about me:I have serious depth, I am an artist. I have a deep empathy for people, it is reflexive for me to think how another would feel if I were in their shoes (I can't always help but I will always put myself in your shoes first). I forget sometimes that others are not as empathetic as I am and therefore I sometimes confuse it for selfishness. This works for me and equally against me. I will always try to find beauty where ever I am or the people I'm with. It's better to see the good in people than the bad. This too works for me and against me.I have seriously dedicated friends that are very valued and know I will always be there for them.I get the giggles easily with the right goofy people.I am always working my ass off, in search of doing better, being better and voracious for knowledge. That can leave me exhausted and sometimes I like to nap sometimes on a Sunday afternoon :)If I love you, you will never have to question it. I will always have your back and never sell you down the river to save myself.I will pull your card if it needs pulling.I am not into superficial people, I don't like wearing my decoder ring with men to see what they want from me. My idea of a man, is one that has kindness and peace in his heart. One that doesn't speak down to anyone he loves, he values them to much to degrade them. Can grow a beard and wear a flannel. Stands for respect, honor and loyalty....this is important. Cherishes me, respects me and never stops looking at me like he won a prize.I will give the man I love everything I mentioned above because you treat people how you want to be treated.I will not stick around for abuse of any kind, drugs, alcoholism, disrespectful arguing, I will easily walk away from any of that at the very first sign.I'm looking for happiness with someone who isn't dependent on me for happiness and doesn't need me to complete them. I am looking for someone who I compliment and vise versa. I am an independent person who appreciates everything I have deeply because life has taught me that. My grandparents migrated from Sicily and I can knock lasagna outta the park! I can clean up just as good as I can get dirty. I can attend a black tie event and socialize with a crowd in the same weekend I can throw on a pair of leather boots and go to a dive bar with my friends (although I don't go drinking much anymore). I'm happy in both worlds and need the balance of both.I'm looking for someone who can see what others don't, who will always have my back and protect my heart. Selfishness is not attractive...ever. Being able to look in the mirror and grow is such an admirable and attractive quality, I can't even begin to describe. Owning your shit, that's sexy!*If you send me a message that only has "hi" or "hello", I will not respond, that's just plain lazy. If you are not looking for commitment or anything serious in your intent, I will hit block. I am aware some of what I say may come across as brash but I am confident the negative I mentioned, is not right for me and let's save each other some time :) Be different, suggest something interactive like the batting cages or a drunk nerf gun war :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Art Activities Cooking Canadian South American Action Adult Martial Arts
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Paula from Trumbull | Woman | 32 years old | Aquarius
    Paula

    Online

    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I have nothing to lose, but so much to gain.I've endured some bumps & bruises in this thing called life but I wouldn't want to be anywhere else & I am beyond ready to find love!!!I'm very picky so if you can catch my eye you're doing really well! Then I need someone that's easy to talk to cause I'm all about being myself. I workout 5 to 6 times a week. I love everything about working out! The way I look, the way I feel mentally & physically. I'm most definitely looking for a partner that is physically fit & eats healthy. I work hard to look good & I do I want someone that's going to do the same. I don't drink anymore, that part of my life is over. I had a ton of fun partying & I did plenty of it but there's a lot more important things to me in life than drinking. Let's just say "It was fun while it lasted, but now I'm past it." I'm a bit of a tomboy. I love being outdoors. I also love dressing up in dresses & going to nice restaurants.I'm looking for a mate that is over the bar scene is looking to settle down, travel, have fun, likes to laugh & makes me laugh. I most definitely want kids. Sorry guys if you have kids I'm not interested. I'm all about having my own & I can't wait to have kids but I'm not willing to have a kid with just anybody. I don't want to compete with anyone for your attention & I definitely don't want to deal with any momma drama. With that being said I'm very upfront & I don't play games I know what I want & I want someone that is ready to be honest & loyal. If you're looking for A$$. You can keep looking, elsewhere. You need to be able to stimulate my mind before you try stimulating anything else. I'm looking for someone that is really wanting a relationship. I get everyone is busy & that's why you've turned to a dating site but when you really like someone you make time for them no matter what. I'm looking for someone that is going to make time for me, no matter how busy they just might be. A relationship is a lot of work so if you're ready to put in the time & commitment for me, I'll definitely make sure it's worth it. :-) I'm old school. So I'm not looking to be your e-mail buddy. Let's e-mail a few times on here if your someone that interests me. Let's exchange numbers & talk on the phone. I'm trying to get to know you & people can misconstrue things over text, so I'd rather talk to you. Chat with you soon. If I don't respond to your message it's my nice way of saying I'm not interested. On the first date keep it simple. I would like to go for coffee, ice cream or something quick to see if we hit it off. If we hit it off then we can setup another date or move on. I do like to go to sporting events, horse races, bowling, to the gun range or amusement parks, I do love surprises, so if you want to surprise me I'm up for that too. I like to be where the excitement & fun is cause I'm fun! It's great to go to dinner but I like taking the nervousness out of things.

    Chat
  • Karyn from Trumbull | Woman | 31 years old | Leo
    Karyn

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am a single girl looking for something more or less long term. I'm bout tired of wasting time, but then again also tired of wasting empty time not enjoying the time in between. I do not have any children yet. I would really like to think that I want children in the future, but really thats up in the air. I'm open on the matter. I know I'm satisfied not having any when there isn't anyone very serious in my life. The single mom thing is definately something I know I don't want. I'm a hard working independent person who is seeking the same. I like going to the movies, day trips to the beach, and even couch time with the TV. I like attending plays, concerts, and sporting events. I value my beliefs and want someone who feels the same.

    Chat
  • Dona from Trumbull | Woman | 34 years old | Gemini
    Dona

    Online

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    My glass is always half full, even when it is close to empty I'm just happy to have something to sip on! I surround myself with positive people, there is too much negativity in the world to willingly accept it into my life. I want to be happy so I will do everything in my power to be there!I love spending time with friends and family. I am most happy when I am making someone laugh.I enjoy being outside, whether it is sitting by the pool reading a book, hiking or playing tennis. I also like going out or staying home and watching a movie.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: