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United States, Connecticut, Trumbull

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So much to say and defined to a small box, I don't do well with small boxes. Things to know about me:I have serious depth, I am an artist. I have a deep empathy for people, it is reflexive for me to think how another would feel if I were in their shoes (I can't always help but I will always put myself in your shoes first). I forget sometimes that others are not as empathetic as I am and therefore I sometimes confuse it for selfishness. This works for me and equally against me. I will always try to find beauty where ever I am or the people I'm with. It's better to see the good in people than the bad. This too works for me and against me.I have seriously dedicated friends that are very valued and know I will always be there for them.I get the giggles easily with the right goofy people.I am always working my ass off, in search of doing better, being better and voracious for knowledge. That can leave me exhausted and sometimes I like to nap sometimes on a Sunday afternoon :)If I love you, you will never have to question it. I will always have your back and never sell you down the river to save myself.I will pull your card if it needs pulling.I am not into superficial people, I don't like wearing my decoder ring with men to see what they want from me. My idea of a man, is one that has kindness and peace in his heart. One that doesn't speak down to anyone he loves, he values them to much to degrade them. Can grow a beard and wear a flannel. Stands for respect, honor and loyalty....this is important. Cherishes me, respects me and never stops looking at me like he won a prize.I will give the man I love everything I mentioned above because you treat people how you want to be treated.I will not stick around for abuse of any kind, drugs, alcoholism, disrespectful arguing, I will easily walk away from any of that at the very first sign.I'm looking for happiness with someone who isn't dependent on me for happiness and doesn't need me to complete them. I am looking for someone who I compliment and vise versa. I am an independent person who appreciates everything I have deeply because life has taught me that. My grandparents migrated from Sicily and I can knock lasagna outta the park! I can clean up just as good as I can get dirty. I can attend a black tie event and socialize with a crowd in the same weekend I can throw on a pair of leather boots and go to a dive bar with my friends (although I don't go drinking much anymore). I'm happy in both worlds and need the balance of both.I'm looking for someone who can see what others don't, who will always have my back and protect my heart. Selfishness is not attractive...ever. Being able to look in the mirror and grow is such an admirable and attractive quality, I can't even begin to describe. Owning your shit, that's sexy!*If you send me a message that only has "hi" or "hello", I will not respond, that's just plain lazy. If you are not looking for commitment or anything serious in your intent, I will hit block. I am aware some of what I say may come across as brash but I am confident the negative I mentioned, is not right for me and let's save each other some time :) Be different, suggest something interactive like the batting cages or a drunk nerf gun war :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Art Activities Cooking Canadian South American Action Adult Martial Arts
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