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Lila, 33
United States, Connecticut, Trumbull

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About Me

I am a 31 year old SWF (ouch - i still cant believe my age starts with a 3!), I'm educated, have a rewarding career and i'm independent. I have long dark hair, i am 5'10" and i like to wear high heels! I have a witty, fun, outgoing personality.I have the privilege of being the mother of a beautiful little girl. I am seeking a mature, educated, intelligent, tall(er than me), gentlemen.I dont have problem meeting people, i just dont get into situations where i can meet someone very often. My career and my child take a lot of my time, however i am sure i can find the time for someone who catches my eye ....So I just want to be upfront here about what my expectations are so that I do not waste anyone's time, and you do not waste mine. If there is one thing I have learned in my 30 years, its that if you dont ask for it, you dont get it :) -******** If you wish to contact me and receive a response please have a picture that actually shows your face and have something more to say than "Hi". I want to know who I am talking to and that you can actually carry a conversation :***I am not looking for a relationship that takes over my life. I guess in other words, I do not like clingy guys. I do not need to spend every single moment with someone, and I will not put up with someone who tries to make me feel bad for wanting some time to myself or tries to dictate what I can or cannot do. - My daughter is, and always will be, my #1 priority. If you are not good with kids, or do not want kids in your life, then I am not for you. - I need someone I can talk to. A man who can relate to the stress and challenges of having a professional career and be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. - I am a trustworthy, honest and loyal person. I do not want to be with someone who cannot trust me, who needs to know where I am at all times, or who is overly jealous. - You must have a sense of humor. My entire family does, and if you don't, you will not fit in. - The height thing is non- negotiable. Sorry. - Ok, so i am just going to come right out and say this ... i have a thing about teeth. They dont have to be perfect, but must be taken care of. Not trying to make anyone self-concious, but it's a deal breaker for me. - So if you have managed to read to the bottom of my profile *** just sending a message based on my picture, I will reiterate - it is highly unlikely I will respond to messages where no picture is provided, the picture doesnt show your face, or if the picture is taken from so far away that I can barely see you. Come on, if you have nothing to hide, then let me see you!!! :)Ok, so I will leave it at that. I know what I want. If you think you got it, then I look forward to hearing from you :)And for those of you who claim that there are a lot of women on here just looking for attention (and nothing more), I am not one of them. I dont need a bunch of *** people I do not know in order to boost my self-esteem. I dont need you to tell me I am great .... I already know I am ;-)And here is me just being honest and upfront - I am not really in to religion or the 'arts'. Nothing against them, but just to let you know that if you are big into either, that is not something you will have in common with me :) Ah, first date. How about we just hang out and see what happens ... First dates are intimidating. I would prefer to just meet a few times in a public place where I (or you, lol) can make a quick exit if need be ; )If after a few casual 'hanging out' meetings, if its right, lets go on a nice date ... get dressed up, go somewhere nice, have dinner and a few drinks and let things roll from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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