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Eloise, 55
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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Someone wholives out of the box and is very independent, a non conformist more or less. A Conservative or Libertarian would be perfect. Someone who knows how tosurvive when the power goes out. Someone who knows how to light a woodstove. You MUST really like dogs a lot or it will never work out. One guy saidhe liked dogs , but when my little pomeranian jumped on his lap he pushed the dog off and he would never pet my dogs. If you have a dog i will probablykneel down and kiss the dog before i kiss you! That's how much i love dogs. You must not be allergic to cats too cuz i have a couple. I am Italian/Polish.My hair was cut short ,but i may do them back in braids again. I love all kinds of music except rap and opera. Love Blues, Country, Jazz, Bluegrass,, etc.I am a movie buff. I like drama, sci fi, action, suspense. No gory ones!!! I rarely smoke, but when i do it's a little cigar. I live in the country and have asmall garden.My ideal man would be someone who is more or less Self sufficient, prepares for the futureof hard times, believes in living off the land, growing food and not wasting it, knows how to build a goodfire in the wood stove, knows how to survive when the electric and tv is off, someone who plans to "survive"in the future, and not be a sheep depending on the "system" to take care of him. I think you get the picture.In other words a true "Survivor" and not a wimpy sheep. Oh, one more thing...a man who is "handy" around thehouse, who knows how to fix simple things, not building, just fixing like electrical, plumbing,hole in wall,etc....well, that's an EXTRA PLUS !!! In other words mechanically inclined, good with a hammer is my kind ofman. Don't care about looks, want someone to care for me, keep me company, enjoy simple times with me, likesto stay home and cuddle on the couch watching a movie, or even going out for a fast food meal now and then...but i am more of a homebody type of person. I do go out more now but that's cuz it's lonely staying home. Ifi had the good company of a man i would stay home, cook a good meal, and cuddle.Hey - any of you guys know how to fix cars? I mean simple stuff like oil change, brakes, tune up, etc. That would be a PLUS ! I just got a grea tFord Ranger and want to keep it in good shape. Man, that's a KOOL little truck!!!Since most of you men think about "sex" a lot and wonder how the woman is....i'm not a prude at all. I am very good in bed. Altho i can only get"into it" when i have "feelings" for the guy. In other words i'm not into one nite stands. I don't need sex. I need "love" and if there are feelings, well.,i will tire you out so much that you won't even think about looking elsewhere. I don't hop into bed right away either. I need time to see if we really likeeach other and are compatible. I can be hot in bed with the right man. I can tell if i like a man by his "kisses". I like to have at least one or two kisseson our "date" to see if i like your kisses. If i like your kisses and there's chemistry i will see you again. Funny, one guy was a vegitarian and i didn't likehis kisses AT ALL . Another guy was a smoker and i liked his kisses! The faint smell of tobacco turned me on for some reason....he seemed more";.........enuf.....good luck! PS...looking for a guy between ages 45 to 60. If it's summer we can go for a ride in my comfy van, hang out in the park, picnicwith a great meal i cooked, go for a walk, listen to music in the van, have a goodconversation. If winter , cozy up on the couch to watch a movie,have a good homecooked meal, munch on popcorn, talk, listen to music. I don't know how to IM and i'm on dial upso computer can't do it anyway. So don't be offended if it's rejected. I have no other choice.Or we can stay in my garden and you can get your hands dirty digging in the dirt helping to plantthings...but i'd do most of it anyway and just tell ya to hand me the shovel or pick. Oh, i just read itagain - it said First Date! Ya don't wanna go digging in the dirt then i guess. I know a great little barthat's a hole in the wall, but great people and real comfy. We can have ONE drink there. I love going bythe water too so walking there would be great. I hate to go alone so i never go! Oh, i couldn't add moreabove so will do it here. I recently put my hair back in braids. NEW - i recently took a lot of pictures of me in June, but can't get them on here....so if we write i can *** You will love them. My hair is short now. I got the new pics on here now. I am looking for men aged 45 to 62. Hey, i have a friend who is on here and he found a girlfriend. They've been together 2 months now....they are realcompatible....and he's crippled in a wheel chair! She doesn't care. They get along great. So guys, don't give up. There's a woman out there for you and onewho doesn't care what your body looks like - just as long as you're a nice guy is all that counts! I'm so happy for my friend., and he found her right hereon meetville !

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Running / Jogging French Middle Eastern Vietnamese History Mystery War
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