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Ruby, 51

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About Me

I am hoping to find someone that shares an interest in Christianity.Christianity is very important to me.I am not a holy roller (far from it)And a healthy life style.I am not looking for casual sex, not interested in "separated" or "just dating"I'll make a deal; dont try to use me for sex and I wont use you for money.I AM NOT INTERESTED IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPSIts pretty simple really, looking for someone close to my age within a reasonable distancedoesn't work nights (we would would rarely see each other)Clicking yes on the meet me option is nice, but sending a message is betterI am not a phone person, dont mind talking for a few minutes, but i am not into hanging on the phone. First date does not include the hour a person wants to hang on the phone to get to know me.For a first meeting i would like to go for coffee somewhere very public.I dont drink alcohol so meeting for a drink is not a good date for mereason being a healthy life styleI noticed that in this time of equality most men want the women to initiate first contact.At the risk of seeming uninterested I will not be that person. Once there is a friendship or possibility of connection then I have no problem initiating or asserting myself.Pls dont depend on me to request phone contact or a meeting.I think that it is something the gentleman should do.Also a first meeting should be in the female's area.These are little things to expect, if this is an issue from first contact then there doesn't seem any point in going any further.Sorry to seem uncompromising.There is plenty time for compromise in the future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Stacy

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    hey ya'll hows this going for you? im not to confident that I will ever find anyone in NC, I love music, and can be silly, looking for some one who likes to laugh, but is responsible, like has a J.O.B. too, I don't really like crowded places unless its an out door event with music of course, like to do some wood crafting, I am fairly mechanical, like old cars , and can hang in the garage, like to go riding in the woods , like fishing, exploring, I can drink, but it isn't a requirement, unless I need one lol, depends on what ya look like, I really miss seeing a band play, doesn't really matter what type of music as long as it's in tune. except I don't care for jazz, and rap, or polka music, please no! anyway, I am ultimately looking for someone who wants to give 50 % .if you think we might have fun let me know, good luck. and now im going to listen to neil young, coffee at waffle house.

  • Bettie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    First I would like to say, I have seen so many profiles on here where you guys are bashing women, saying they are liars, cheaters and many other things. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you are the reason for that? I mean after all I have been lied to by almost every single guy I have met and to beat it all they don't even have enough comman courtesy to say they don't want to see me anymore, they just disappear and I never hear from them again. And another thing, I have sent several messages to guys on here only to not even get a reply, weather if be "yes I would like to chat or sorry not interested" why is everybody such an ass on here? And YOU have the room to bash women.......I think not!!!!! Maybe you should take a good long look in the mirror and see the kind of person you are, then maybe you will see why women are the way they are!!!Now with that being said.........Seems most guys these days are looking for that little barbie doll.......Sorry but that's not me. I'm just me......I may not be the most beautiful woman but I do have a good heart and I am easy to get along with. I am very independent, so therefore I don't need a man to take care of me. I want a man who appreciates the fact that I am capable of taking care of myself. I don't want to be alone but I will NOT settle with just anyone that I don't care about or someone who just wants to be with me when they're bored and can't find anyone else, too many people just settle these days..........I like to have fun with my family and friends. I like to laugh and have fun, like for everyone around me to laugh. I am easy to get along with, and right about now you're thinking "yeah right" well why don't you climb down off of your hollier than thou pedestal and find out........I'm not the type that thinks I have to be out on the town every night, I enjoy cuddling watching a movie or just talking. I enjoy camping and sitting around a campfire with a nice cold beer listening to music. I am an honest person and would like the same in the person I'm with. Hate drama and game players. Why does everybody have to play games? Life is short, we need to make the most of it because unfortunately we only get one shot.......Oh and I prefer someone 6'1 or taller. Sorry just my preference. If there is anything else you would like to know.......just ask, also if I should send you a message I would greatly appreciate if you would be man enough to say you aren't interested in chatting with me *** either *** message or saying 1 thing back to me and never anything else....Smesh is that too damn much to ask for........I wish everyone the best of luck on here. Whatever we decide to do. Probably somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Rhonda

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a German girl that is good hearted, good looking, hardworking woman that loves to cook and loves to laugh. Love to walk on the beach, check out yard sales or antiquing. Love to be creative- ie: crafts, home decoration, whatever.. I love music, mostly new country, but will listen to most. Looking for LTR - not interested in a one night stand. I am loving, passionate and caring person and looking for the right man to share it with. Looking for someone to share good times and bad with. Love to ride on a motorcycle. First impressions are important. The first date should be a place that is public but low key. A place where we can talk and get to know one another. Maybe a light lunch or a cup of coffee.

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