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Chrystal, 53
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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I'm funny, smart, serious, spontaneous, and talented. I have done everything from community theatre plays, to creating a beautiful flower garden, to ziplining through the NC forests. I have done my share of traveling but want to find someone who is interested in going with me. I am adventurous and fearless and love to do things that gets the adrenaline coursing through my veins. I have a very good job, own my home, drive a nice car, am financially responsible, don't need anyone to take care of me, can converse with the best of them, and have a heart of gold. I treat people the way I want to be treated...with respect and dignity. I enjoy doing random acts of kindness. I treat the check-out person, or my waitress, as a divine creature since that's exactly what they are.There has to be someone out there who is compatible with me. I've been looking and looking. My match doesn't have to be wealthy in money but definitely needs to be rich in character. He doesn't have to be GQ handsome but must take care of himself physically, emotionally, intellectually and spiritually. He will love to laugh and joke around, hold my hand as we walk through the store, put his arm around me in the movie theatre, and tell me all his desires and wishes. He will not lie to me or cheat on me and vice versa. I will give my 100% and he will, too. Chemistry and physical attraction are definitely important, but there also needs to be intellectual and emotional compatibility with me, as well. He should feel comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt sitting on my deck, or dressed up for a night at the Civic Center. *** sitting at home on a weekend night, let's go bowling, or ride bikes, or go dancing! We all have past relationships and histories that come with old wounds. I am looking for someone who has learned from those past mistakes and doesn't want to make them again...just as I have learned from my past mistakes and will try my best to not bring them to our relationship.A relationship is not built on the length of time you spent together, it's based on the foundation you built together.Let's make these the best years of our lives! :) Actually, there has to be a "meet and greet" before a "date." I prefer meeting at a restaurant for a drink and spend an hour talking and figuring out whether there is any reason for that first date. We have all been on these meet and greets and know they can be awkward. And, we have all been rejected and had to reject. I don't take anything personally and hope the other person doesn't take it personally if there isn't a first date. It just happens that way sometimes. No obligation and no hard feelings. But, one of these days, I am going to meet that person who makes my heart flutter and he feels the same way about me. Then watch the sparks fly. :)I am the ever-hopeful optimist.Good luck fishing.P.S.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Well here we go: I am a warm weather girl! Summer is too short in WI! Love boating, beaches, bikes(harleys), etc. I love all types of festivals, , summerfest, statefair. Its is great when all the local bands start playing outside in summer! As you can see, in just the little bit i have typed, is that, I like "on-the-go" activities. Don't get me wrong' snowmobiling is just as fun! must make the best of WI in the winter here too. I am extremely extroverted, take charge gal. Just like to keep busy and have a good time when and wherever I go. My children are my priority. They grow up so fast. Anytime spent with them is precious! I love sports. Football basketball baseball. nascar,etc.My main hobby is working out! love it! hopefully you work out in some capacity.I am jumping around here with my thoughts. so bear with me. my taste of music is 80s, country, dance. Basically looking for a man that will treat me with respect. NO GAMES, I want to be that "IT" girl that he just adores, as i do him. I love to laugh and kid around. So if you are a man of honesty, personality. quick wit, just all around fun guy, you may want to look this way. Life is too short, we must enjoy what we have now cause you ever know.!!!!???? If you are a player don't even waste your time here. So don't need that!!!!!!!!!!!! I Well I am done rambling here. if you are interested give me a tex or message! hope to hear from that quality man! first chat on here get to know each other, talk on phone meet out and take it from there. If looking for that quick roll in the hay just keep looking! So better than that! just take it slow and see what evolves.

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  • Juana from Norwich | Woman | 53 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    My hobbies are decorative painting, running and working out, gardening,outdoor activities such as hiking, kayaking, and in the winter, cross country skiing, snow shoeing, antiques, and restoring old furniture.I am currently employed with an estate sale company and business is booming!Go figure. I generally like all types of music except for, perhaps, head banging heavy metal...!People consider me playful and fun. I love to laugh and have a good time, and am very loyal, honest, and trustworthy. I have a spontaneous side to me, but am definitely not impulsive. I do have a serious side to me so I'm not considered "silly". I am affectionate, touchy/feely, love to cuddle,and hold hands. Looking forward to enjoying the comforts and pleasures of a loving, caring, affectionate, and physical relationship. I would love to find my best friend and confidante; someone who will grow and learn with me by sharing life experiences together. Someone who I can connect with in an emotional and spiritual sense. I am searching for someone who is looking for exactly the same thing in their lives. I am also very active; my work outs include running, road races (half-marathons and 10Ks) and lifting weights, and hope to do more hiking and cycling in the future with someone who shares the same passions. Winter sports I enjoy include cross country skiing, snow shoeing and ice skating. I am looking for someone who really enjoys the outdoors and likes to take advantage of what life has to offer. It's out there!!Thanks for taking the time to read this, and I really appreciate your interest.PS-Please, if your age is listed inaccurately, or if your pictures are old and don't represent well what you look like currently, please don't contact me. Honesty and integrity are very important to me. This also includes no-picture profiles. Thank you. I think a first date idea that would be fun with no pressure- coffee on a late Sunday morning at a cozy cafe with piped in music.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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