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Alyssa, 55

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About Me

Please read my profile before you write. If you are a 'match' awesome, if not.. then please~ I am really looking for my best friend. I know what I like and seek the same in another. If I don't respond, it is only because we truly are not a match. just saving time, that is all~ It is NOT about looks, it is NOT about income.. it is about being a Match :) I love to play, visit and watch people. I can participate or observe~ I do love to travel, not for 'r&r', but the culture. I love people.. I believe in everything because I know nothing~ I see the good in everything, I continue to work within, creating a wonderful space inside... I have a lot of interests, some that I haven't even discovered~I meet my fears, I am the biggest chicken that I have ever known, but I meet myself, my fears and walk through them~ I am a woman of strength, and have always been able to do the most difficult and or painful stuff... I am blessed with grace in then end ..Now, this is all important because we are here to find someone.. so, I am looking for someone that has a deep insight to life, looking at life from many different angles, I love the 'free mind' and a humor as well. Seeking an, honest and caring guy... I don't need you to be rich, but not into financial drama~ I am an energy worker and spiritually connected.... I seek the same or someone that encourages me just to be me~ I will you :)I am looking for my best friend to play with in life. I also seek someone that questions life's stuff, but remember, the answers are only right at the right moments... Never want to argue over an opinion.. that is simply silly~~~~~~ I want the strength of a man, the comfort and protection of a man. I want a Real Man.. dignity, integrity, loving, gracious, generous, strong, handsome, you know... I want it all~~~~~ :) I tend to think of it as a first meet.. not a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carly

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I love life, and I love to be around people! I think laughter is very important. I enjoy being around others who also can find humor in situations and look at the positive. I very rarely let circumstances define me. I try to get the lesson out of mistakes and move forward.I enjoy being outdoors mostly whether it's hiking, camping, boating, cooking out with friends, or being at an outdoor concert. I love different types of music especially soft rock, top 40, contemporary country, Southern rock, comtemporary Christian. I do not like rap! Some of my favorite artists are Jason Mraz, Colbie Callet, Adele, Keith Urban, Rascal Flatts, Eagles, etc.If you are looking for someone to mother you or to listen to stories about how bad your ex is, please keep looking. Good luck on your search ! A great first date would be to meet somewhere for a glass of wine, relax and chat. I think people feel chemistry pretty quickly once conversations start.

  • Adela

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have one son who does not live at home. I have been divorced for 20 years and am looking for a relationship but with the right person. I am friendly, attractive and outgoing. I am a people person and enjoy lots of things. If you would like to find out more...text me

  • Eloise

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Someone wholives out of the box and is very independent, a non conformist more or less. A Conservative or Libertarian would be perfect. Someone who knows how tosurvive when the power goes out. Someone who knows how to light a woodstove. You MUST really like dogs a lot or it will never work out. One guy saidhe liked dogs , but when my little pomeranian jumped on his lap he pushed the dog off and he would never pet my dogs. If you have a dog i will probablykneel down and kiss the dog before i kiss you! That's how much i love dogs. You must not be allergic to cats too cuz i have a couple. I am Italian/Polish.My hair was cut short ,but i may do them back in braids again. I love all kinds of music except rap and opera. Love Blues, Country, Jazz, Bluegrass,, etc.I am a movie buff. I like drama, sci fi, action, suspense. No gory ones!!! I rarely smoke, but when i do it's a little cigar. I live in the country and have asmall garden.My ideal man would be someone who is more or less Self sufficient, prepares for the futureof hard times, believes in living off the land, growing food and not wasting it, knows how to build a goodfire in the wood stove, knows how to survive when the electric and tv is off, someone who plans to "survive"in the future, and not be a sheep depending on the "system" to take care of him. I think you get the picture.In other words a true "Survivor" and not a wimpy sheep. Oh, one more thing...a man who is "handy" around thehouse, who knows how to fix simple things, not building, just fixing like electrical, plumbing,hole in wall,etc....well, that's an EXTRA PLUS !!! In other words mechanically inclined, good with a hammer is my kind ofman. Don't care about looks, want someone to care for me, keep me company, enjoy simple times with me, likesto stay home and cuddle on the couch watching a movie, or even going out for a fast food meal now and then...but i am more of a homebody type of person. I do go out more now but that's cuz it's lonely staying home. Ifi had the good company of a man i would stay home, cook a good meal, and cuddle.Hey - any of you guys know how to fix cars? I mean simple stuff like oil change, brakes, tune up, etc. That would be a PLUS ! I just got a grea tFord Ranger and want to keep it in good shape. Man, that's a KOOL little truck!!!Since most of you men think about "sex" a lot and wonder how the woman is....i'm not a prude at all. I am very good in bed. Altho i can only get"into it" when i have "feelings" for the guy. In other words i'm not into one nite stands. I don't need sex. I need "love" and if there are feelings, well.,i will tire you out so much that you won't even think about looking elsewhere. I don't hop into bed right away either. I need time to see if we really likeeach other and are compatible. I can be hot in bed with the right man. I can tell if i like a man by his "kisses". I like to have at least one or two kisseson our "date" to see if i like your kisses. If i like your kisses and there's chemistry i will see you again. Funny, one guy was a vegitarian and i didn't likehis kisses AT ALL . Another guy was a smoker and i liked his kisses! The faint smell of tobacco turned me on for some reason....he seemed more";.........enuf.....good luck! PS...looking for a guy between ages 45 to 60. If it's summer we can go for a ride in my comfy van, hang out in the park, picnicwith a great meal i cooked, go for a walk, listen to music in the van, have a goodconversation. If winter , cozy up on the couch to watch a movie,have a good homecooked meal, munch on popcorn, talk, listen to music. I don't know how to IM and i'm on dial upso computer can't do it anyway. So don't be offended if it's rejected. I have no other choice.Or we can stay in my garden and you can get your hands dirty digging in the dirt helping to plantthings...but i'd do most of it anyway and just tell ya to hand me the shovel or pick. Oh, i just read itagain - it said First Date! Ya don't wanna go digging in the dirt then i guess. I know a great little barthat's a hole in the wall, but great people and real comfy. We can have ONE drink there. I love going bythe water too so walking there would be great. I hate to go alone so i never go! Oh, i couldn't add moreabove so will do it here. I recently put my hair back in braids. NEW - i recently took a lot of pictures of me in June, but can't get them on here....so if we write i can *** You will love them. My hair is short now. I got the new pics on here now. I am looking for men aged 45 to 62. Hey, i have a friend who is on here and he found a girlfriend. They've been together 2 months now....they are realcompatible....and he's crippled in a wheel chair! She doesn't care. They get along great. So guys, don't give up. There's a woman out there for you and onewho doesn't care what your body looks like - just as long as you're a nice guy is all that counts! I'm so happy for my friend., and he found her right hereon meetville !

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