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Gilda, 53
United States, Connecticut, Milford

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About Me

MY SELF SUMMARyI love laughter in all its forms! I love making people laugh and someone who can make me laugh. I am relatively intelligent and can carry on a meaningful conversation. I enjoy sharing a crossword or Sudoko puzzle with someone special. Beware though… I am quite competitive! I care deeply about other people’s feelings. I am sensitive and protective of those I love and those who are in a vulnerable situation. I can’t stand a bully, and may jump in to help someone who needs it. I am a romantic. I love being touched and vice versa, thoughtful surprises and curling up in front of a fireplace. I am someone who will search for a meaningful gift for the special people in my life …nothing generic will do! I love spontaneity and would love being surprised with a unique adventure. I am looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires a true, meaningful connection. I do believe physical attraction must be present in order to have good chemistry with my special someone.My career for over 20 years was as an Elementary and Special Education Teacher. I am not currently working.At some point, I'd like to get my masters degree in social work or counseling.I'm looking for my next big adventure! Love to try new thing and learn from others.I love spending time with my family and friends most of all! 6 THINGS I AM GOOD ATBeing a friend.Being grateful and positive.Being kind to animals and people.Making a house feel like a home/decorating.Loving the Vikings through thick and thin, no matter what, never have been or will be a fair-weather fan!Finding the beauty in life, especially in nature.Bargain shopping.I am NOT good at:Cooking or driving!THE FIRST THINGS PEOPLE NOTICE ABOUT MEMy smile is probably the first thing people notice. I like to be in the sun, so in the summer you will notice that I am tan.I'd prefer to be noticed for my inner beauty which is really my greatest strength. I'm a great listener. I don't like shallow people, and I'm not into small talk (although realize that it is necessary at first).FAVORITE BOOKS, MOVIES, MUSIC, SHOWS AND FOODI like alternative /rock music. I'm into bands like REM and artists like Adele. I also like acoustical guitar music accompanied by a voice or 2. Favorite books are fiction novels which show more depth of character and plot than a typical paperback. I love a good mystery, too. I hate to admit this, but I watch way too much reality TV. I also like shows like Criminal Minds, House, and Grey's Anatomy. I'm not picky about food, and enjoy almost anything...although I don't tolerate too spicy!6 THINGS I COULD NEVER DO WITHOUTMy ChildrenMy ParentsMy KittiesMy HealthMy FriendsIce creamI SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUTEternityTaking care of my physical, spiritual (my beliefs are most similar to eastern philosophies and living in the light), and emotional well-being.Traveling to other countries.Stuff that is unimportant!YOU SHOULD MESSAGE ME IF;I am looking for a healthy relationship on which to build a possible future. I am not into playing games or drama. If you are positive, kind, introspective and intelligent, please message me.YOU SHOULD NOT MESSAGE ME IF:You are in your 20's or 30's.You are soliciting for sex! it! Go have meaningful conversation with your mom and what she thinks of you trying to sleep with someone her age. I am a FANATIC VIKINGS fan (have I mentioned that yet)?, and even though that is not a prerequisite, I would prefer it if you were also.I love being in, on and near water ... oceans, lakes, gurgling streams, etc. I love speed boats, and despite my age, may actually try to get up on water skis again.Other questions? Please feel free to ask!**Some of you may recognize this format from OK Cupid... For simplicities sake (and not wanting to recreate the wheel on every dating site!), I have chosen to reuse it! I would like to have a casual first date to find out if there is an initial attraction. My preference would be a coffee shop or other quiet place. I don't drink, so I'm not really into a bar, howevever, a restaurant/bar would be OK.

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    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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