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MY SELF SUMMARyI love laughter in all its forms! I love making people laugh and someone who can make me laugh. I am relatively intelligent and can carry on a meaningful conversation. I enjoy sharing a crossword or Sudoko puzzle with someone special. Beware though… I am quite competitive! I care deeply about other people’s feelings. I am sensitive and protective of those I love and those who are in a vulnerable situation. I can’t stand a bully, and may jump in to help someone who needs it. I am a romantic. I love being touched and vice versa, thoughtful surprises and curling up in front of a fireplace. I am someone who will search for a meaningful gift for the special people in my life …nothing generic will do! I love spontaneity and would love being surprised with a unique adventure. I am looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires a true, meaningful connection. I do believe physical attraction must be present in order to have good chemistry with my special someone.My career for over 20 years was as an Elementary and Special Education Teacher. I am not currently working.At some point, I'd like to get my masters degree in social work or counseling.I'm looking for my next big adventure! Love to try new thing and learn from others.I love spending time with my family and friends most of all! 6 THINGS I AM GOOD ATBeing a friend.Being grateful and positive.Being kind to animals and people.Making a house feel like a home/decorating.Loving the Vikings through thick and thin, no matter what, never have been or will be a fair-weather fan!Finding the beauty in life, especially in nature.Bargain shopping.I am NOT good at:Cooking or driving!THE FIRST THINGS PEOPLE NOTICE ABOUT MEMy smile is probably the first thing people notice. I like to be in the sun, so in the summer you will notice that I am tan.I'd prefer to be noticed for my inner beauty which is really my greatest strength. I'm a great listener. I don't like shallow people, and I'm not into small talk (although realize that it is necessary at first).FAVORITE BOOKS, MOVIES, MUSIC, SHOWS AND FOODI like alternative /rock music. I'm into bands like REM and artists like Adele. I also like acoustical guitar music accompanied by a voice or 2. Favorite books are fiction novels which show more depth of character and plot than a typical paperback. I love a good mystery, too. I hate to admit this, but I watch way too much reality TV. I also like shows like Criminal Minds, House, and Grey's Anatomy. I'm not picky about food, and enjoy almost anything...although I don't tolerate too spicy!6 THINGS I COULD NEVER DO WITHOUTMy ChildrenMy ParentsMy KittiesMy HealthMy FriendsIce creamI SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUTEternityTaking care of my physical, spiritual (my beliefs are most similar to eastern philosophies and living in the light), and emotional well-being.Traveling to other countries.Stuff that is unimportant!YOU SHOULD MESSAGE ME IF;I am looking for a healthy relationship on which to build a possible future. I am not into playing games or drama. If you are positive, kind, introspective and intelligent, please message me.YOU SHOULD NOT MESSAGE ME IF:You are in your 20's or 30's.You are soliciting for sex! it! Go have meaningful conversation with your mom and what she thinks of you trying to sleep with someone her age. I am a FANATIC VIKINGS fan (have I mentioned that yet)?, and even though that is not a prerequisite, I would prefer it if you were also.I love being in, on and near water ... oceans, lakes, gurgling streams, etc. I love speed boats, and despite my age, may actually try to get up on water skis again.Other questions? Please feel free to ask!**Some of you may recognize this format from OK Cupid... For simplicities sake (and not wanting to recreate the wheel on every dating site!), I have chosen to reuse it! I would like to have a casual first date to find out if there is an initial attraction. My preference would be a coffee shop or other quiet place. I don't drink, so I'm not really into a bar, howevever, a restaurant/bar would be OK.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Brandie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a fun loving person who is looking for a best friend first. I'm looking for a special someone that I can share my thoughts and feelings with. Someone that I can't wait to see at the end of the day. Someone that gives me butterflies. I am passionate and caring. I love to cuddle and hold hands. I want someone to compliment my life, not complicate it! Not into drama. Been there done that. I enjoy the simple things in life and definately not high maintenance.I am not a couch potato and consider myself to be full of life and high energy. I've learned that life is too short to care what other people think. I have many different interests and hobbies. I enjoy physical activity: Zumba, exercising, ice/roller skating, hiking, bowling, bike riding, or just walking and talking and checking out the sights. Love my I-POD - I tend to sing in the shower or the car...LOL Oh no moms at it again!! I will talk to strangers as I like meeting new people, it's nice to be nice and I treat people the way that I want to be treated. I do enjoy cooking.. Not fun for just one, though:)) I don't even mind doing dishes :)) My pictures are recent and your should be too!I have a job that I like and have been there over 20 years. Love to travel and am pretty spontaneous - I go with the flow. Meet somewhere and see if we have chemistry... I do believe that chemistry is very important! Can usually tell if there is an attraction right away. Hopefully there will be and we can begin our journey together!

  • Vicky

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Life is golden for me. I believe in the golden rule, life's golden moments, have golden hair( that's what my hairdresser says, and I'm sticking to it!),and have 1 Golden Retriever. I try to do things right, meaning I treat others the way I'd like to be treated. Friends would describe me as very optimistic. I believe in taking opportunity when it presents itself, believing you control what you want in life by making it happen. I'm very outgoing and social, and need to be with people of the same mindset. I need to surround myself with others who have high values and integrity, as I tend to trust easily, and wear my emotions on my sleeve. I say what I mean, do what I say, and can be held accountable. I consider myself a secure, well-balanced , educated, and professional person, and I'm comfortable in all social settings. I'm petite, stay active, and need someone with a high energy level. Love to laugh and find humor in most aspects of my life. Enjoy all types of activities, especially around water! Love all types of music, entertainment, sporting events, travel, and outdoor activities. I like to cook and entertain as well as stay at home for a quiet evening. I have passions, but no addictions, unless chocolate, Diet Coke ,and shoes count. I'm looking for my last and best relationship. Describe you?’t wait to get home to me. Someone who is always on my mind, and vice versa. Fireworks describes us when we are together. We compliment and complete each other and our goal is to make each other the best we can be on a daily basis. A great relationship is work and it is the best lifetime reward, if you put in the effort! All else falls in to place when it's right.It would be nice to get an *** would like to meet. This isn't my 1st date info, but I took the personality and chemistry tests and posted them for all to see.I'm not sure it captured the essence of who and what I am,but thought I might be able to clear things up. First, I am very confident in who and what I am about in life.I don't waiver in my morals and I'm conservative, but once I commit,I am all about the person I am with emotionally and physically.I will be the one to jump in your arms when I see you and you won't forget my kiss..promise.I believe in one person only and total honesty. I believe in the 10 commandments and so should you.It will keep us together for a long time! If you are a player or cannot tell the truth, we will NOT be a match.I love affection and attention and will give you the same.I like to hold hands, kiss, and consider myself a touchy feely type.It doesn't mean I don't like other types of attention from you such as a quick text,note,or phone call during the day to let me know you are thinking about me...you will get the same and I will surprise you in return with a secret date or gift..who knows what! I want an emotional connection too..someone who will talk and be expressive and isn't afraid to share their innermost thoughts to create intimacy,both emotionally and physically. I don't think you can have one without the other.If you are not willing to communicate and share to have this type of connection,we are not a match.We should be each others soft place to fall,confidant,and partner in the good and the bad .Who am I am attracted to? I do know my type! You are a man's man,fit and athletic cut( sorry,its the truth.)You will likely work out several times a week and need to for your sanity. It also makes me happy to look at you :)and you won't be sorry.You rock in a pair of jeans and a tight t-shirt and you like me in the same, but can make me swoon in a tux. I should be able to find your eyes across a crowded room and just know what you are thinking:)The pheromones should be flying between us! You are all man and treat and respect me like the lady I like to be. Chivalry should not be dead.I love kids,but mine are old enough to be out of the house,so I have time to pursue free time with you.I do like spending time with the person I love, inside or out on the town or anywhere in the world.I want someone who likes to enjoy life and see it all! You are happy, fun, spontaneous, keep me guessing,smile alot,kids and dogs love you,very affectionate and will think about me all day long, if I am doing my part to keep you interested. I will feel the same,if you do yours. I will not settle, you shouldn't either. We will both know it when we have it.I work hard to play hard..if this sounds like you, then we might be a great match!. Happy hunting and I hope we find each other. :)

  • Charlotte

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    So far all I know about you is that you're single, and you have a computer, but you liked my photo and clicked to read my profile. Keep going.... keep going....- I passed on college to go to the Players Workshop at Second City and develop my improv skills. - Then I stopped that to raise my daughter. -- The journey has been long, but I'll be going finding a new job, and going back to school (nights or on-line) at College of DupageI try to keep physically active, working on firming, and a low carb diet, but I definitely don't live at LA Fitness. I love to dance... That's one of my aerobic workouts. I also enjoy cooking and bbq's. I have a beautiful daughter and I raised her alone. I have six very close girlfriends and many great acquaintances. I have a ***, and about ***"friends". I use it for business, and social networking with dance friends, school friends, distant friends, and family.I'm a good natured, faithful, committed, kind and compassionate person. At times I am a bit disorganized, and may have temporarily misplaced it! (whatever "it" is). I'm a down to earth girl looking for a great guy. I'm funny, smart, enjoy dancing, and outdoor activities! Everything on MY body is mine. Nothing added, or blown up. The only things removed are a gallbladder and some tonsils. I'm not perfect, but I'm all me.I'm seeking a man that has integrity, good character, is kind, compassionate, chivalrous, spontaneous, sincere, loyal, appreciates traditional gender roles and values, and willing to dance, even if he thinks he has two left feet. Please know how to man- Nose hair, and ear hair really make you look like you just don't care.And looking for a man... that can sing a song, that only my heart can understand! If you're interested drop me a line.FYI - Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass; it's about learning to dance in the rain!RELATIONSHIP RULE: When you're in a relationship, be committed or just stay single. The person you're with who's already attracted and faithful enough to be with you is hoping that you two will last. Don't be the one to lead them on and flirt with other people behind their back. If you didn't want to be in a relationship that you know you're not going to be committed to, then don't be in one at all. Simple. CORN MAZE DATE:We have to go through a corn maze, and every time we hit a dead end, you have to hug me!BASIC INFORMATION: Two people being together, and getting to know each other, just living in the moment and exploring. No agenda - just a nice fun time, where we can actually hear and see each other.Starbucks, Jamba Juice, book store, Dunkin', local lounge, a walk on the beach, the river, a pool, would all be just fine!- depends on the temperature outside. And....... it doesn't really matter what I type here. We should just meet and have the expectation of having a fun time.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~BE POLITE ! If we meet, whether you like me or not, it's polite to thank me for the date.

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