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Melanie, 51

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About Me

I've dated off on and off for a few years and have met some very nice men but I believe it may be time for a "Game Changer" to take things to the next level. I am looking for a solid connection intellectually, sexually and socially. What are you looking for?If you are articulate, ambitious, s/dwm, non smoker, social drinker, generally clean shaven or well groomed), between the ages of ***Do you have time on your hands to share with a new female friend? A little about me....I'm a dwf, 50, blonde w/ blue eyes (as you see from my pic). I'm active, intelligent, witty, career oriented, stable, fairly drama free and very particular about men. I lead a full life, I'm independent however still need a little attention. If you like what you have read and want to chat either by ***, text or IM let me know. I know physical chemistry is important in any relationship and meeting for coffee or a drink would be critical. I am not looking for a pen pal. If you are interested in learning more, please get in touch with me. If not, I wish you all the best in your search. I'm open to just about anything but might suggest a cup of coffee at a cozy coffee shop or maybe something more involved like a sporting event, wine tasting or "cocktails at the conservatory".

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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