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Herminia, 51

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About Me

Been here before and took a break from it all and now back looking in the pond... hey, I'm not giving up lol.Heck, what can I say.... I am a bit shy until I get to know you..lol I can hear my gf friend laughing saying, "yeah, like for the first few minutes lol".. but what does she know lol. I am a true blue gal who values openness and honesty. I love life. After having been married for 25 years... the last 3 years being alone has taken some adjustment.... never expected to be here but death does change those plans. Learning to be happy as I am... have lost a bit of w***lbs) in the last while and prefer to keep active to keep it off. Would be nice to find someone to share my life with but am content just the same if it doesnt happen.....If you are interested, or have any questions just message me..I won't bite lol.My site is melsgraphics.com if you are interested in finding more about me ;)If you fave me or click meet me, please send me a message as well if you really mean it ;)If we chat, it'd be nice to see who I am chatting with... I will supply a pic of me...only fair you do too ;) no picture... no chat....Also, as to the "meet me" feature... I myself used it at first but then stopped... yes there are guys who live far from me and seem great but reality sets in ... distance is difficult for me when I have no licence... not sayin distance is an impossibility...for I am a believer where there's a will there's a way... just may take some work if you are up to it *** Whatever both of us decide...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Suzanne

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Time to move on- enough of this site! I'm very picky, not neccessarily a good thing though. I hate being on here-I don't WANT to be on here- and I havent yet found what Im looking for. I DO tell it like it is! I'd like to meet an honest man, there are so many players out there. I know what kind of man I am looking for and the look I want.havent yet found it....people can be shallow and judge from the outside. I just ask for someone to be open, honest from the start and no game playing. I also know what I want, Im not perfect, don't expect you to be either and I don't claim to be perfect but want to be perfect in the right person's eyes. I am sincere and looking for a long term relationship.I am hoping to find someone of my age or a slight variance of alittle younger or older. I have to be cautious in putting this out there as I am trying not offend just state my preference of attractions to a man. I prefer a man with hair, I dont mind short and I love longer haired men if worn neatly. I am not really attracted to the "bald" style or date out of my race. I also love goatee's but I can do without it as well. I am tired of the guys who live with EX wives for convenience and make promises, those who want their cake and eat it too, or lazy men who take women for granted to do everything, the losers who can't get a job and play you.(Don't bother me with that crap).- I dont think of myself any better than anyone else, but if you don't have the manners than please, pass me by. Im a bit old fashioned to where I beleive the man looks out for his woman and feels complimented by being with his woman and vice versa. Not jealous just because someone speaks to you and then you speak back. I will not tolerate verbal abuse and or a controlling nature. Being IN CONTROL is alittle different. I have my sh*t together and whether anyone cares to admit, we all have drama- just some are expressed alittle more in detail. I am a very sentimental, sensual lady and have a generous heart, but I am also a woman, a passionate, well rounded sensual typical woman but I DO HAVE CLASS! It's going to take a good down to earth man, ONE that cares enough to stick it out when things are rough, and a take charge kind of guy thats going to win my heart. I've given up for quite awhile. I have dreams and want to share them with a man who believes in being happy in life and willing to work for it! Being happy together takes committment to accomplish things and working togther and listening. When things aren't right or you get angry with each other, you care enough to listen and understand not assume the other is a psycho and has issues. It's easier to turn things around on someone else to make yourself look good. I promise as well to put myself into the relationship 100% percent and would like for the same care, consideration and communication to be the same in return. I like a handsome man, both strong mentally and physically, willing to stand up for what they think to be right. I don't need a man to make me happy, I choose to want a man to enjoy life with and share the world we live in together. I'm dedicated to the one Im with and enjoy lots of different activities. I expect respect as well as give it in return also, I enjoy cooking, and some sports, animals, children and living slightly on the edge at times, but within reason. I don't do drugs and prefer someone who doesn't also. I am very self sufficient and independent and extrememly sincere. I am told I am attractive, and easy to talk to. I have alot of friends, both male and female. My hope is to find the love of my life whether it be here or somewhere out there- I know there is someone for me just waiting for me to find him- I hope he is looking for me!!!! I feel its best to wait to see by personality and talking whether or not we are interested-there is so much more to the attraction than pure looks- I am told I am a beautiful person on the inside and out. My first date would be some place quiet and the ambiance just right so that we can concentrate on each other without many distractions elsewhere. That will tell us after the first date if we are into each other and worth pursuing another date soon! The element of surprise is always nice, and thrill of suspense-to know we can't wait to see each other again and the sooner the better for both of us.

  • Iris

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    About me: Having faith in God and believing in God are two different things and I am one who has faith. You can also be a Godly human and still have a good time. I am not into bars. I love sports, Cowboys, Mavs and Rangers and LBJ Giants Cheerleaders (one of them happens to be my granddaughter). I enjoy golfing (haven't played in awhile) college volleyball and basketball. I usually have more than one project going on at a time, I am not a planner more of a spur of the moment type woman. I am honest, sincere and loyal woman. My friends are a valuable asset to me and I would prefer to start off becoming friends and then see where it goes from there. I would love at some point in my life to live at a lake, if not possible I guess a swimming pool will do! Not at all into head banging metal stuff. coffee house, lunch, dinner...something the both of us would be comfortable with.

  • Mara

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I Love Life and enjoy it to its fullist.I am a happy person and enjoy being with happy people .I enjoy going out but can set home and watch a good movie .My favorite song is (Crazy ****) by Buchcherry the dirty version. I also want to add I hate to be used !Been there too many times .I also like to play cards cribbage is one of my favorites. Or a game of Yahtzee.I Love to kiss and cuddle .Im a good cook and enjoy cooking a meal for someone that likes that I did it for them.I like to dance go to movies .Im family orientated love to be around them.I guess Im lookin for someone to hang out with and have fun with if it gets serious and its what we both want good for us! Just to have one would be nice!

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