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Chelsea, 22
United States, Connecticut, East Hartford

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im down to earth and honest.im ***friendly.I like reading, listening to music, watching movies, going bowling.... the odd video gameI plan to become a teacher, i'm currently working on my GED right now...I also plan on doing some volunteer work in other countries as I age, I love helping others.I'm pretty spiritual so if that bugs you stop now. lol, seriously.heres a note I wrote a couple years ago to get a glimpse of me...Don't You Want Something Real?Life has alot of ups; It is supposed to be the hard times that bring us together, not tear us apart. If we all simply flaked off when times got rough, we'd lose sight of whats important. To be-friend someone is something special, but it only starts off as something of an aquaintance relationship. When we grow to trust this person and respect them for who they are we tend to care more about them and go OutOfOurWay to be there for them and help them when needed. Not because we expect the same in return from them, but because its whats right, if we care... we care! Unfortunately, not all friends are true. You may be there for someone you feel close with through all their hard times and give them advice to the best of your ability for years of a friendship. However, one night when you really need them, they may fail on you. Why is it we always hurt the people we love most? To see how much of a door mat we can treat them as before they get gone? Or because we simply used them as an aquaintance all along, they treated you nicely, you enjoyed their company, so you let the aquaintance settle around n you hang out more often. However, apparently in your selfish mind, this person, although appearing to be a friend, is not someone you will go out of your way to keep safe; regardless of the countless times they've been there for you. Or perhaps because of the following situation: No, most highschool relationships never last past highschool, and I'm not even curious why... I've figured it out. In highschool it just simply seems like everyone gets lost in who they are and become what they'd wish they were. Dreams and goals are a great thing to have. But suddenly we will find ourselves not being what we want ourselves to be, but what we think others wants us to be, and when they accept us in that way, we for some reason blindsight ourselves as for that to be happiness. ? It is people who are untrue to who they are who find themselves in distraught and miserable because they aren't living life the way they were meant to or truly want to... and it is on that path that they end up hurting themselves, and hurting others; because they aren't real... and it lets people down when they find out the real you. Not because the real you isn't something that is good; but simply because you led them to believe you were something you weren't proving your character to be nothing of the good sort. But of course must take into account that through highschool we teens go through alot of changes, because of peers, because of our own ***, and because of our true beliefs. I realize that today you don't know who you'll be tomorrow. But you do know who you are today; so be true to it. Be proud. If you be yourself, noone can do anything but love you, because you are unique, and you are YOU. There is good in everyone; I can just hope we're all willing to share it with eachother. There needs to be bad in the world for there to be good, otherwise there would be no contrast and good would not exist. So there will be the villains, go down as a hero. It's the heroes stories that are remembered most, retold the most, and most admired. You don't have to be a hero to the world, maybe even only to one persons eyes, maybe even yours. Just live life in an unselfish mannor, give when you have more than enough to survive, share the talents you have don't drown them out with hobbies like liquor or any drugs, theres a time and place for everything n I'm sure you've heard that line a million times before, I'm pretty convinced it to be true. So do onto others as you want others to do onto you, because karma will find its way to you no matter what. You are in control of your own happiness. So take life by the wheel the way you're meant to, and remember to always be true. ... =)NO COUPLES& i get too many likes to check em all out... so message me if you're honestly interested, and put effort into it please cus i get lots of msg's too! coffee and bongs ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 22-32

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-29

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    Woman. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 21-31

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