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About Me

I'm an active out going women who enjoys living life to the fullest. My life is very full between work, play and my children, but I try and maintain a positive attitude because all in all, life is good and there is always something new to discover right around the corner. My children are my heart. Although I still have 2 teenagers at home, they are at the age where they enjoy spending more time with their friends so I find myself with more free time to do the things I enjoy. I love working out, running, hiking, biking, skiing, cooking, reading, gardening, most sports, coaching, just about any outdoor activity. I make a great effort to maintain a healthy life style both physically and mentally. I love the moutains in winter...and the beach in the summer. I would rather participate than watch sports. I enjoy going to a nice dinner and a movie as much as I enjoy working on a construction project together. I love remodeling projects and I am as comfortable going to a formal dinner as I am getting dirty and working on a job together. My friends have described me as funny, great personality, spontaneous, honest, dependable and genuine. I'd like to think I'm an honest, well rounded, old fashion girl with good morals, a positive attitude and a nice smile. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am not afraid to be vulnerable. But at the same time, I'm strong, confident, and compassionate, but don't take life too seriously. I look forward to sharing time with someone that is willing to work on growing a good friendship into a possible lasting relationship. I'm looking for someone that is sincere, genuine, and has a good sense of themselves, someone that is honest and has a sense of humor(aren't we all) I think its important to always try and see the lighter side of life. Honesty, integrity, and a sense of humor can go a long way in mantaining a healthy relationship. I'm looking for someone that feels that staying in good emotional and physical condition is a way of living your life everyday. Someone that wants to share interests and experiences together but also has their own life and does not need a partner to "make them happy". Someone that understands the importance of living in the present. We all have our share of baggage, it's how we project it in our daily lives that helps us or hurts us. I try and live by "being" to others what I would like them to be with me. Faith has a permanent place in my life and I believe that life is full of wonderful things to share with the right person. More later..... Meeting somewhere mutual for coffee or a drink...somewhere we can talk and ...mostly just taking some time to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ruby

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am interested in meeting someone who enjoys fun, everything from the outdoors to watching a good movie. I am a romantic by nature and would enjoy the company of a caring compassionate & loving individual. Laughter and plain old good fun is at the top of the list of my ideals.I enjoy hiking, traveling, music, dancing and I find joy in the simple things in life. I am looking for someone who is interested in sharing good times together. On a first date I would be interested in getting to know you. A quiet dinner together or a simple cup of coffee would be great. Through it all.... whether there be chemistry or not.... it is a wonderful way just to connect to another on this level.

  • Therese

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am really game to try anything , I like walks on the beach , good books , horse back riding even though it has been years . My main goal In my life at this point Is to find someone who I can grow old with and be happy . I feel I am different and kinda old fashioned In some ways , I still try to live out what my momma tried to teach me . (Respect) Respect Is a very important part of my beliefs . I like all kinds of music especially Country and southern Rock and Roll . I am very much of a country girl to the bone and love It !! On my first date we have to go some where public I do have a trust issue , I call It being safe !! I am a simple kinda girl and my motto Is you don't have to take me out for a steak I will settle for a cheese burger.... lol I am very out spoken and humorists I love to make people laugh and be comfy so If you think you would be interested hit me up !!

  • Gladys

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I believe that I am a very intelligent, extremely fun, always active, witty with a sarcastic twist who loves to laugh type woman. Sometimes I think I can be a little gullible or over-trusting when it comes to some of the people in my life and those that I begin to allow in my life or daily experiences. My parents, who were phenomenal people, taught my seven siblings and myself that all people are good at heart and everyone deserves a first chance. And Just Maybe... A Second. Yes, this attitude has bit me in the rump more than once, but it has also allowed me to meet some really terrific people. I am very tolerable of most things, being from a large family, you would have to be. My biggest pet peeves are liars, cheaters, and people without any consideration of others and those with low morals. I love new adventures and trying new things. My friends and family consider me to be compassionate, considerate and think of others first, sometimes to a fault. Whenever I get involved in any project, I take it very serious and put 100% in to everything I do. I enjoy all animals, with the exception of reptiles. There nice but I definitely don't want to own or live with any. I was a successful competitive equestrian for many years. I like just about all types of music. I don't consider myself a music snob. I am a singer and currently putting a new band together along with working on a once in a lifetime recording project with a major label. The beach is my favorite place to visit and would love to live there someday, One more thing you should know about me, although I am all of the above and lead a vey exciting life, I am also very old fashioned when it comes to relationship. Even though I enjoy staying busy and active, there's nothing more enjoyable than cuddling on the couch, taking walks holding hands or just sitting around after a great meal talking. I like a man who can take charge, and wants to be the protector. Now that doesn't mean I want someone who is smothering, controlling,ridiculously jealous or possessive. I am very low maintenance and enjoy all the simple things that life has to offer. I am not materialistic. I believe that you should always try and look your best no matter what the circumstance. I am not a sissy girl and not afraid of getting dirty or working hard. But I am definitely a lady and know how to be a lady at all times.When it comes do my ideal mate, I will be very direct. I am the only one who knows what I want, right? I am not looking to settle and just won't.As far as the man I would like to meet, well it shouldn't be as difficult as it seems to be these days. I am not interested in serial daters and/or players. I don't want to chat with anyone who has pictures of a lot of young, young women in them (unless their your daughters). I want him to be taller than myself, have hair, is close to my age or younger, active (meaning he doesn't go nighty, night at 9pm) and romantic. I am looking for that special someone who will sweep me off my feet and is always be surprising me. A man who dresses right for every occasion, no wife beaters. A real man who is chivalrous and really knows how to treat a woman.I want the type of relationship that when we are in a room together, people are jealous of what we have with each other. The first date should be drinks or coffee somewhere in a public place. We will meet somewhere and see where it leads. Honesty is going to be very important. I usually know within the first ***minutes, if not sooner, if there is going to be a connection. If it doesn't work for either one of us then I ask that we are honest with each.

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