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Casandra, 55
United States, Virginia, Leesburg

Offline, last seen Mon, 06 Apr 2026 10:22:30

About Me

I'm a widow of five years. I have four amazing children. Two are out of high school and all live at home, still. I love being around children, any age. My house is a safe place for the kids.I have a open door policy and they all use it. I'm a people person. I love to listen to your story. I read between the lines as I listen and I hear and see your heart. If you need encouragement, I'm here for you. I always have a shoulder ,if you need a place to cry. I'm a positive person and will lift your spirits, with just a few words. I have a very calming effect on people. I have a huge heart and would do anything I could to help anyone. I'm soft spoken. But, I can be loud, funny, wild, silly, crazy. I love to tease and can take anything you dish back to me. I can stand strong and brave, in any storm and still be standing strong and untouched when the storm has passed. I'm a romantic! Open doors, pull out chairs, let me order first, bring me flowers, touch my hand, yes, you have all my attention. Looking for someone, to tell things to, that I've never shared before. Someone, that will absorb what I say and actually want to hear more. Someone, to share my hopes and dreams with. Someone, to share my many life's disappointments with. Someone, that i can be myself with. Act like a fool and not be judged or made fun of. Someone, that will not purposely hurt my feelings. Someone, that will at make me feel like I'm s failure me up and show me things about myself that make me special. Someone, that will love me unconditionally. Someone, that will hear and see my heart. Someone, that will pursue me! Someone that distance isn't a barrier. Someone, that would go to the ends of the earth and back to get to know me. Someone that would love me to the end of time. I have been on meetville twice. For a few months, four years ago and then In May this year. I have noticed (that males and females) just look at each others pictures and information. If they like what they see and read about, they will look at you picture and or profile many times and say nothing to you. Why? Do we do this? I thought we were suppose to step out and make friends and maybe a relationship. If I'm interested , I usually look a few times and then step out and Hello. I figure if your interested you will answer me. I figure if you don't answer then you feel no connection. Which fine, we all have what we are interested in, imbedded into our brain. I also believe. Proven fact, that if you don't go out and met that person and spend time together you will never know if there is a connection or not. Come on men! This shy ( well I use to be) woman would like to challenge the men to step out of your box. If you don't you will pass up Miss perfect, you dont know where she will show.up. Always be prepared. Not all us girls are terrible people. But you will never know if you don't just write hello. If she doesn't answer than move on. You got to both put in some effort. I love to listen. Somewhere we could sit for hours and talk and share our life experiences. Going out to eat and then maybe a long walk or just a spot to sit and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Japanese Ice Hockey Soccer / Football
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