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Leah, 51
United States, Virginia, Haymarket

Offline, last seen Sun, 21 Sep 2025 21:47:33

About Me

Hello all...hope you're enjoying your experience on meetville. At 50, I am trying to decide what I want to do when I grow up. Don't get me wrong, I am a professional. I'm self sufficient and I don't NEED anyone to take care of me. I work two jobs and am very involved with my extended family. I love children and music. A smile from an innocent child or a great song can fix anything...well, almost. I have been single for many years and have become very independent. When I think of a relationship I have mixed emotions. There are times when I wish I had someone around but most of the time the thought of a relationship scares the hell out of me. Why?? Because I have been doing my own thing without having to consider anyone else for a long time. I guess you could say I have become one of the most selfish, unselfish people in the world! I know, makes a lot of sense, huh? I am sure those of you around my age know exactly what I'm talking about if you've been out of a relationship for any time at all.I mainly listen to country music but love the 70's and 80's music, too. I am one of those people who get on your nerves because I sing along with almost every song that comes on. I am not a country girl, although, some of the most fun I have had has been riding on the back of a 4- My idea of camping would be in a fully functional camper or cabin! No tents please!! I have an issue with alcohol. If you think you need to drink daily, weekly, etc then this will not work for us. I believe there is much more to life that having to worry about where the effects of alcohol will take you, me or our relationship. An occational ( I realize that term is relative) drink is OK but it need not be something that happens regularly.I love spending time with family and friends. I will always spend time with family and friends.....they need, they call, I go. Just a part of my personality.Going to stop writing for now. I will be happy to answer specific questions if you have them. Thanks for reading my profile and best of luck in your search for happiness!!! Somewhere public and without alcohol! Oops, here I go already with my strong viewpoints!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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