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Bettie, 54

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About Me

I am looking for someone to build a serious relationship with and that starts with a friendship first. Im not someone who NEEDS but enjoy having a relationship. I'm searching for a person who wants to actively seek to know and understand each other and build a friendship, someone who enjoys spending time together. However I'm not talking about moving in or spend every awaken moment together but someone who wants to build a real, caring, sharing, honest connection, someone willing to put effort behind their words. Not into playing games but respectful of each other time and life. I enjoy laughter, humor, smiles, fun teasing, laying in bed talking, passionate looks, giving from the heart, movies, great communication, road trips to no where, family, love gifts, honesty, debating issues (as long as it doesn't become a personal attack), music, plays, concerts, adventures and staying home doing nothing. I want someone who is able and willing to talk and work through issues from cultural differences, personal traits, wrong assumptions to personality faults. I am seeking a friendship with a passionate man who is a generous lover with his body, time and mind. I don't need rescued or taken care of but I want a friend (and then someday a partner), someone who makes me think and laugh! Someone who will communicate their thoughts, belief's, fears, aspirations, goals, dreams and fantasies. People say no drama well if you live in this world our life has drama. Its how you deal with it that makes the difference, are you consumed by it or do you make wise choices to resolve the problem. I not going to come to your home uninvited but I will call you out when I think you are treating me disrespectful. I don't do craziness.If your just looking for sex that's not what I am looking for. Sex without a connection (caring feeling for one another) is like a shower without soap, its only a temporary fix. Depends on how much communicating we have do before we meet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lena

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi, I’m Caren. I’m excited to be here and finally meet you! Hard as it is to believe, i am 57 and my photos are recent. I love my sense of humor. I'm hoping you will too! I'm warm and compassionate, romantic and sincere. I take care of myself – eat healthy, run, go to the gym. I believe we have to be happy with ourselves before someone else can be happy with us. Learning Salsa now and having the most fun! Do you dance? I love most sports, but football and basketball are my favorites. Something about the tackling, but back to that later :) I also love to go to the beach and do outdoor things. You are a special man. You're romantic with a great sense of humor, the good nature to be teased and the audacity to give it back! You have integrity, are affectionate, passionate, sincere, funny, athletic, cute and fun. I'm looking for a guy who will compliment my life as I will his. The guy I can't wait to see again and again! You're a man who truly wants to find the missing piece of his life. You and I – we’ll hold hands and take walks and talk and cuddle on the couch watching movies and go out dancing all night and share kisses that make us forget the world around us. We’ll just look at each other and know this is right. If you’re intrigued . . . I’d love to hear from you! It really doesn't matter where our first date is, it's where we go from there.

  • Deanne

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Internet dating is certainly a flawed system, and largely because of this impossible task of describing oneself. Hopefully, soon you & I will be sipping wine and laughing about the drawbacks of internet dating, but admitting we are thankful that we both took the leap of faith and engaged in all the strenuous and timely "weeding out" that was needed in order to find one another.. I love being outdoors and enjoying the most beautiful things that nature has to offer. I'm often found spending my weekends fishing with my kids or taking a nice hike! If I'm with the right companion, I love dancing the night away, and a good sense of humor is extremely important to me when choosing friends. I feel a sense of humor also is a sign of intelligence. I know I'm with a person cut from the same cloth as I when they have me laughing until my stomach hurts,.There's a time and a place to be composed and serious, but my default mode is irreverent. The gentleman that I'm seeking will know and be ready to show me what he's made of and will be prepared to plan his own version of the perfect first date. :)

  • Deanna

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Single mother of two daughters ***and 17), one still at home. Never married, busy lifestyle, recently started going back to the gym -- its more fun to have someone to go with. I love to go camping, swimming, dancing, drives in the country, trips to the coast, a day finding bargains at yard sales or thrift stores, movies are fun, and lots of other things. I miss living in the country, but I still raise chickens so that we can have farm fresh eggs -- my hens just reside out on the ranch at my mother's place. Music is a big part of my life...it relaxes me, it pumps me up, it is like air to me. I love to cook, I love trying new recipes, baking for family and friends. I am currently learning to cook a new healthier style of cooking for myself and my daughter. I am learning to cook the diabetic menu for myself -- and my daughter LOVES fish and seafood -- so I am exploring new ways to cook fish and seafood that will appeal to her. I like to find antique kitchen collectibles. Interesting collectibles are getting more difficult to find these days, but that just makes a new find so much more special and exciting.I've had the same job for almost 23 years; I am not rich, but I am not destitute either. Most of my bills are current and some are even beginning to pay off. Life is an adventure....I just want to invite someone along for the ride I want a man who loves kids, maybe has kids...and wants a family. I also want a man that wants to share a private life with a woman.... I'm an open book....ask me anything. Things I love: Jumping in mud puddles, pillow fights that end up making love, the smell of bread baking in the oven, intelligent conversation, Scrabble games (any word games really), smiles of pleasure when my kids bite into a warm chocolate chip cookie just out of the oven, hugs from a two-year-old that missed you while you were gone, the voice of my best girl friend over the phone when she calls from NYC, a baby's laugh, I love hearing "I love you mom", my memories of my father, daffodils in spring, daisies in summer, swimming on a hot day, watching the stars on a blanket in the yard at night....life's simple pleasures. Care to join me?.... Negatism is just so depressing. I am not a perfect woman...nor do I expect a perfect man. I just want someone who wants to be with me...and I with him. Please ...if you've gotten this far...at least say hello. Something simple....coffee and conversation, a walk in the park....never a movie..you can't see or talk to each other. A nice dinner, picnic in the park can come later .... if you want to spend more time with one another.

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