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Patti, 54

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About Me

I've thrown away my laundry list of “must haves" and "can't stands" and taken off my coat of expectations and replaced them with just "being" and being more open to meeting new people and letting things happen in their own way and time. I could go on and on about why I'd make an excellent partner but in reality, how I see myself may be quite different from how someone else sees me. If you're interested, let's meet and see what happens!I don’t know what my “perfect” man will look like or what he will do for a living for that matter. People have these long lists of attributes and requirements they must have in a partner and I wonder how it’s going for them trying to find everything in one person. For me, there has to be something about a person that *** spark but how to describe what that is is very difficult. It could be a certain look in his eyes or the way he smiles but whatever it is, it captures my attention and makes me want to get to know him more. A few traits that I do value, however, are honesty, integrity, kindness, openness, a good sense of humor, desire for partnership, non-judgmental, and being comfortable with who he is and where he is in his life. One note: Just because I don't have a long list of "must haves" does not mean I have no standards!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm 80 degrees and always sunny!I'm an animal trainer for the movies, a job I absolutely love and feel blessed to have. I have been in the biz for 23 years and started my own company 18 years ago. How lucky to get paid to play with animals all day! I also have a non profit organization called Dream Fetchers which brings Movie Star Dogs to visit children who are sick, under privileged, and battling disabilities at schools, hospitals and where ever the need arrises. Our goal is to bring a smile to every child with the help of a Dog Star they may have seen on TV and in movies. This is something I am extremely passionate about. Cycling is my passion, I love to ride, ride, ride! Staying fit is a big part of my life.If you want to know more about me...you know what to do!

  • Lottie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am adventurous, dependable, honest and open.– and, yes, I have a bit of an accent! I’m versatile and self-sufficient: I can dress up in a little black dress, or don work gloves when something needs to be done.I try to find the humor in most things. Life can seem like a practical joke sometimes – you gotta laugh at it! I know when to be serious, but I don’t sweat the small stuff. I’ve learned to roll with the punches. Proud of the fact that I do not look or act my age.I am looking for a life partner to share in life’s bounties and weather life’s storms. I’d like to meet an honest man who’s a true gentleman, and who takes care of himself mentally and physically. Someone who’s emotionally available, with a solid moral code of ethics and a great sense of humor. Kindness and intelligence are very attractive to me – and bonus points if you’re a cuddler!Despite never having been married, I am not commitment-phobic. I have been in long-term relationships before, spanning several years each. I just haven’t met my husband yet. It would be fantastic to meet my husband on this site – but, honestly, there’s no pressure here. If I sound like someone you’d like to get to know, drop me a line. Let’s just get together, get to know each other and see what happens. I can promise you one thing: It won’t be boring.For Fun: Outrigger canoeing, sailing – just about anything on the water. Walking, hiking, traveling to historical sites and exploring other cultures. I’m currently taking a dance class and I’m really enjoying it.Favorite Things: Reading, dancing, being in nature, learning new things. A good TV drama. Hole-in-the-wall restaurants with great food, Good steak on the BBQ, romance, good conversation and laughing till I hurt. Closer to home destinations, I like the Brigintine, the Charcoal House, Antica Trattoria. Wine country is always a fun day trip. And anything around water makes me happy. a lunch date or happy hour is always nice and informal.

  • Noelle

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Okay, so I have been on here for a few days now. I think it's supposed to go something like this - interested, chat a time or 2, then meet and see if there is "real" interest. Endless chatting isn't for me. If you are interested, ask to meet (i'm a little old fashioned like that, the man should ask...) Let's take it from there.

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