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Patti, 54
United States, Virginia, Gainesville

Offline, last seen Fri, 15 May 2026 22:37:49

About Me

I've thrown away my laundry list of “must haves" and "can't stands" and taken off my coat of expectations and replaced them with just "being" and being more open to meeting new people and letting things happen in their own way and time. I could go on and on about why I'd make an excellent partner but in reality, how I see myself may be quite different from how someone else sees me. If you're interested, let's meet and see what happens!I don’t know what my “perfect” man will look like or what he will do for a living for that matter. People have these long lists of attributes and requirements they must have in a partner and I wonder how it’s going for them trying to find everything in one person. For me, there has to be something about a person that *** spark but how to describe what that is is very difficult. It could be a certain look in his eyes or the way he smiles but whatever it is, it captures my attention and makes me want to get to know him more. A few traits that I do value, however, are honesty, integrity, kindness, openness, a good sense of humor, desire for partnership, non-judgmental, and being comfortable with who he is and where he is in his life. One note: Just because I don't have a long list of "must haves" does not mean I have no standards!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Salsa
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello! I love to dance, jitterbug is great! I love love to laugh! I work alot with the public so I'm pretty at ease with folks. I go out with gal friends sometimes but its not my favorite. I'd rather have someone to stay home with, maybe that makes me a homebody person. LOL. I dont have any children. but I have tons of neices and nephews since I'm one of 6 kids. so I spoil them alot! I like movies, action is best, and Sci Fi. Some thrillers. I read alot, almost anything! LOL.I manage a local restaurant and i like the work. LOL. I gotta quit! LOL.Write if you like this, i am serious about finding a partner in life, tired of being alone! LOL> dinner maybe, whatever is good. coffee? meet in a park maybe.

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