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Nanette, 49

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WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have the permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.We can really say whatever we want in this small box, but I believe it all boils down to how much real intimacy two people each need, are capable of giving, are capable of receiving, and do those depths match up?I think I've put my finger on what "chemistry" means to me.... my professional life is filled with very serious painful stories everyday......what my love life needs to be, is that place where we just smile and laugh and touch and tell interesting stories about important and unimportant stuff....a lot. I like people who are a mix of impulsive and calming. I love words. Chemistry is being with a man who knows how to help that happen. When 2 people fully show up, whether it's to tackle a problem, to share a meal, to take an adventure, to make love.......that's Chemistry.Here's why not to fall madly in love with me: I am crazy busy with a very intense life. My children and I have been through the Hell of battling and losing my husband to cancer. I do not have the luxury of a partner in parenting so I cannot count on my "free" time (drool). Men who are "simple" or avoidant always end up frustrated with me. OK I'm sure a huge amount of you have signed off by now....so what else? I'm passionate, affectionate, funny, and practice honesty as a never ending character builder. This means I don't lie, not even the so called "white" kind and expect the same in return. Cooking is my therapy making something new almost nightly (more intensive sessions occur with wine and Frank Sinatra added). I keep my circle small as I believe in giving a lot of attention to the people I love. I love the outdoors, my mental health is managed mostly with cycling, yoga and phone calls to my bestfriend and brother. I laugh really loud at the funny parts...(don't take me to a funny movie if you're easily embarrassed in public)!! I am the successful mother to two incredible young teens. As they require increasing independence it has the added benefit of freeing me up more and more. I get glimpses of the light at the end of a pretty long, fascinating tunnel, and I'm looking forward to cultivating the relationship that is for my future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eva

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I mean precisely as my title states..looking for a big heart! (just kidding about epic season pass). I am a 46 year old divorced-widow who has full custody of my sweet special needs 8 year old daughter... or simply cuddling up together for a nice meal, holding hands, looking into each others eyes and being in love. I am 5'4" and weigh apx 125lbs, typically considered not hard to look at and I try to make healthy choices. Bonus points if you are into snowsports as I so miss snowboarding as has been years and years, sigh.You....a mature man who is interested in a meaningful monogamous relationship and being part of a stable loving family. Kind, smart, genuine, respectful and companionable are attributes I would appreciate and admire. Meet for 1/2hr coffee or glass of wine.

  • Lynnette

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am warm, loving, sincere, compassionate, affectionate, easy-going, and very optimistic. I love a good sense of humor, I love to laugh, smile, bring joy to others. I love the outdoors, and I love to have fun. Love music, books, walking, spending quality time with friends and family. Enjoy working on myself and striving to become better. I am not looking for someone to complete me, I am however, looking for that "special"I am independent, self-sufficient, determined, stable, attractive, and healthy, emotionally, financially, and physically.My body is my temple, and it is very important for me to keep it healthy. I work out at least 5 days a week, yoga, zumba, combat, etc... I watch what I eat and try to always focus on the positives in life. I enjoy the simpler things in life, there is so much that we take for granted. It's the little things that mean most to me.I am not perfect, nor am I looking for perfection, but compatibility is important.I hate games, and I don't like players. The dating scene is not something I enjoy. I enjoy most what comes after that. The love, the familiarity, the caring, the intimacy, the synergy. I am looking for my "forever"man. I am looking for my best friend, someone I trust, respect, and can't wait to share anything and everything with. I am a romantic at heart, and enjoy a man who still believes in treating a woman like a woman....You can open my door for me anytime.Romance thrills me!Are you a kind and caring man with integrity and character? Someone who is financially stable, has a good sense of humor, and loves to have fun! Someone who enjoys the outdoors, weekend getaways, or just spending quality one on one time together. I enjoy PDA, holding hands, whispering sweet nothings in each others ears, gazing into each other's eyes, and feeling your presence in a room even when I can't see you. Cuddling and snuggling on the couch sounds heavenly...but don't worry, I enjoy throwing on some workout clothes, shorts, or jeans just as much as the little sexy black dress! Anything really, just getting to know you!

  • Janette

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love cars, Rottweilers, firearms and shooting practice, concerts, and people who actually care about the little things in life. You don't know what you have until you've lost it. Just widowed, but wanting to meet new people. HMU, lets travel the world and enjoy life! And I'm proud to say i am ***% faithful to a committed relationship. The good ones are hard to find and I didn't think I'd have to join the dating pool at my age. Boy, have things changed. Open to new experiences but also set in my ways. Love to take care of my family especially my ( new man). I I want someone who understands a good woman and what makes her valuable to a committed relationship! But wants to be my true love, forever. I want it to be my last love. One that I can spoil and take care of.. And I also want both of us to be able to surprise one another with little gestures of affection. My greatest love- an AKC Registered GERMAN (MALE) Rottweiler! Don't worry, no competition between you and the dog, the dog gets a bad -when there"s only bad, untrained owners!) but I do know how to take care of my man or I wouldn't"t have had the pleasure of raising my children and taking care of my husband ( may he rest in peace) for 24 wonderful years!! But GOD had a different plan.... So now I never thought I'd be back in the dating pool at my age. I don't do the bar scene and want to feel comfortable with you on the phone before we meet.... And if you're still married, don't bother. I'm ***% faithful and won't help you hurt another female by telling me a lie just to hurt her. So please if you are sincere, and are really who you say you are and ready for the next step, leave me a message. If I like your profile, I may text you back ........ Can always use another friend, to help me pick up the pieces, and understand me and where I'd like my life to be...So even if you're just looking for a friend to talk to, to get a woman's perspective, let me know. That's ok too. I love to laugh and just be me. I'm not fake, but want the best out of life. I'm looking for a comfortable,stress free , take me as I am date. I love outdoor events,concerts,fairs, movies, theater, and even estate and garage sales. I like going to new places I've always dreamed of, but never had the chance. I enjoy good music and concerts as well. Always down for a road trip, especially to the coast. I love the water but hate the HOT heat. I also love to stay at home, have a great meal and cuddle under a blanket while enjoying a good movie. I like nice cars, and car shows, monster trucks. NASCAR ,and even dirt bike races. But that's just a dream that I hope to say I accomplished one day.! I'd love to go on a cruise almost anywhere, but I have places I dream of going to . I don't mind getting dirty, but I love to be able to go buy a beautiful outfit for the occasion , get my nails done and bring a heartfelt smile to your face. Farmers markets, outdoor fairs, and even amusement parks!! Still a kid inside! But would love to jump on a plane and go to Vegas and spend the night enjoying ourselves as we get to know each other and see where it goes from there. I put a lot into life, and I want a lot back. Being spontaneous or planned but pressure free. Getting to know each other without a stressful situation. I want to feel like I already know you when we first meet. I don't want to feel like I'm being interviewed. I am a hugger and don't mind public displays of affection. I want someone that's totally into me, can make me smile so much my cheeks hurt. I want an environment I can be myself. So for the first date depending on the event I will dress to impress ( at least the first time.....LOL). I'm not much of a dancer but still love to go to a small bar with up to date music and dance a few good songs, have an AMF or something to cool down hand in hand walking down the street window shopping! I would love to learn a good waltz or something together as my daughter is getting married next year! I want the perfect gentlemen. I like to turn heads as we pass by people with total self confidence. " I LOVE THAT FEELING" . And under the right circumstances I love to get dressed up! So let's chat and see what happens. Because at the end of the night, and if there's a kiss, if you can make me feel "butterflies", then you're the one for me!!!

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