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Elma, 45

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About Me

Hello. Thank you for taking interest in who I am.First off, I am here for the same reason others are. Well, some. I am patiently waiting for my forever. Please do not confuse that with something else.I am hoping to find the one, who takes my breath away. Gives me butterflies. Makes me feel like nothing else or anyone else has. I am not looking for casual dating. Casual relationships. Casual encounters. A sugar daddy. I understand that not everyone is in search of the same. I am looking for full time. Not part time. **Smiles** I would prefer the man in my life be 6' or taller. I can go from sandals to stilettos in a heartbeat. Torn up blue jeans.. To that special black dress. I try to take care of myself, and I am hoping to find someone who does the same. I do have tattoos. Which all can be concealed. I do change my hair color.. when it so fancy's me to. Though I do prefer the black. Yes, my pictures are recent.. just depends on which week it is. I am not Barbie.. And I am definitely not looking for Ken. GI Joe works though **Smiles** Kidding. I’m looking for someone who is perfect for me. I have had trials and tribulations in my world.. Which I have dealt with accordingly. I am not looking for someone to “Fix” me. I’m not broken. I am not looking to “Fix” someone either. I believe that you should compliment each others lives. Not complicate.Definitely not your typical female. Straight forward. Blunt. Twisting things around are not on my agenda. If I say something, do something, think something… it is what it is. I have integrity. I believe in justice. Strength. Sincerity. Looking for the same in the man who will be in my future.Love sports. Theater. Symphony. Any beach. Bonfires. Museums. Most anything really. For what matters is not what you do, is who you share it with. Yes. I am picky. Yes I have standards. No, I am not stuck up. To whom I decide to be with, is my prerogative. Serial dating, is a waste of time, effort and energy. I want to wake up every morning, and go to bed every night.. Knowing that those kisses.. Well. I am not going to quote a cliché.Every day brings something wonderful into your life. It’s up to you however, to actually see it. Feel it. Live it. Now, just to find someone, to enjoy those moments with. "Don't ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes YOU come alive. And then go do that. Because what the world needs, are people who have come alive" So, if you’re intrigued, interested, or just have that gut feeling to contact me… wanting to know more… take that chance. I’m worth it.**On the "Meet Me" feature, I click "Maybe"** Be original. Definitely somewhere where we can talk. Laugh. Enjoy each others company. Surprise me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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