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Vivian, 44

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About Me

I'm a single mother of two teenage sons. My oldest is a young adult and the other isn't far behind. I previously was a stay-at-home wife to a career soldier whom had retired and soon thereafter the marriage dissolved. I decided to "cautiously" feel out the dating scene, nothing too serious yet, however also am not looking for anything thats irresponsibly casual either. I'm looking to meet a decent, respectful, goodlooking and trim and or athletic to average build, hardworking (but doesn't work all the time) somewhat traditional type of guy whom enjoys conversing in a more literal fashion with a good sense of humor (I luv joking around) yet not too sarcastic or arrogent. I am 44 years old and may be interested in meeting a man between the ages of 36 and 46 years old, who enjoys the outdoors and indoors almost equally. I've lived sort of a sheltered life these days and would like to experience more adventure especially now that my kids are almost both grown. I can appreciate gardening, cookouts and campfires and am not afraid of motorcycles. Do not message me if you are younger or older than the age criteria I previously mentioned, and you must be clean and healthy and have a great smile! :)Otherwise it WILL just be a waste of your time to message me, and I will NOT respond back. I am not a tomboy nor am I a girly girl. I enjoy many good things life has to offer and meeting the right guy just may be the one whom can help bring out the best in me. I am very loving and affectionate person. When I believe in someone, I am very supportive and would hope for the same in return. I am somewhat of a caregiver type and I would prefer the same in the guy that I'm involved with. I believe that trusting takes time and respect should always be there. I just want to enjoy life, have some fun, relax and if by me meeting someone turns into more than dating, then I'm up for the challenge. All of my pictures are current and yours should be also. I would prefer to describe my first time meeting a guy as a "meet and greet" opportunity. Perhaps meet at the mall for a drink such as a coffee, a soda ect ect...We can walk and talk...see if their is a physical and intellectual attraction. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm affectionate, happy and miss independent but would love to have a best friend who can have great conversations over coffee or a great bottle of wine. I would love to find someone who challenges me and can teach me new things in life (ie., I need golf lessons). I'm Spontaneous and always up for new adventures. Im a huge Vikes and Twins fan and loyal to a fault. I'm open minded to what I'm looking for, and will know it when I see it. It's all about chemistry! Sorry for the short profile but I prefer to share more in person. I have a successful career, and I'm grounded in who I am. A glass of wine and good conversation anywhere.

  • Ashley

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a fun, energetic woman with a wicked sense of humor and a flare for sarcasm, or observational humor as I like to call it. I am happily and amicably divorced (sorry, no drama here) and am embracing life and looking forward to meeting someone who is funny, intelligent, honest and kind to spend time with whether it be a concert in the park, roaming around an antique market or the spontaneous road trip to see the world’s biggest ball of twine. I want to get out and enjoy life with someone who knows how to have fun and wants to be active and engaged in life. I work in Facility Operations, and while I enjoy my job, it does not consume me. For me a great date is going to a local winery for a wine tasting, a trip to the zoo or farmers market or pizza and a DVD on a well-worn couch. I love surprises, both giving and receiving. I am a huge fan of fondue and tapas restaurants and am adventurous when it comes to trying new restaurants and types of foods. I enjoy all kinds of music from cheesy 80s tunes to country to my favorite band Matchbox Twenty. I am a sucker for reality television and men’ . . go figure. I am abnormally chatty and a self-admitted caffeine addict. I take my coffee with a soda chaser.My ideal mate will have a great sense of humor and will be comfortable being himself and being silly and spontaneous and will appreciate my silliness as well. I am looking for a man who will send me flowers for no reason and enjoy receiving spontaneous gifts just because. Like all women, I love to get compliments and I will shower you with them too. I like a man with an opinion and who is not afraid to express it. I am interested in finding that one special person to do things with and develop a relationship with. I am looking for someone who isn’t a serial dater that keeps his profile up continually searching for the next best thing to come along. I am not perfect, and I don’t seek perfection. I want someone who knows I am not the prettiest or the thinnest girl in the world, but in his eyes my imperfections make me perfect for him, and I in turn want to find that person whose imperfections are a perfect fit with mine.I am looking for a man who wants to go out on dates and have fun and get to know each other slowly and if things click, hopefully develop a relationship. I’m not interested in someone just looking for a hook up, nor am I looking for an *** father for my child. I value, honesty, loyalty, compassion and integrity and while I appreciate a hard-working man, I feel that your time and companionship are way more valuable than anything money can buy. One last thing . . . I have never been much of a sports fan; I enjoy sporting events in person and I especially love going to live hockey games, but I really would like to start exploring this sports thing a little bit deeper and see what all the hype is about. It would be nice to find a guy who would tolerate the learning curve and even guide me through it. I’m not looking for someone to explain every play to me or tell me the difference between a homerun and a touchdown (yes I know the basics), I’m just hoping I will find someone that will want to share their love of sports with me. A date for coffee to get a chance to talk and get to know each other without too much pressure.

  • Opal

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I miss the smell of a man, his muddy boots by the door. I miss someone to cuddle up with at night and have coffee with at 5am, discussing nothing or everything. I like to talk, I love to listen. I have been married my entire adult life and I do not like being single. I can change my own tire, but would rather call you. Your hands are bigger and stronger for a reason. I wrote the rest of this on a whim one day in 10 minutes. Today is the day after Christmas. The winter can be so hard on a person. Too much time...to think. Some things need no words...Unless it's MAD, PASSIONATE, EXTRAORDINARY LOVE, It is a waste of time. There are too many MEDIOCRE things in life. LOVE SHOULD NOT BE ONE OF THEM.I want to paint the town red with you, make magic between the sheets all day, occasionally and be able to tell you absolutely anything. I'm a late nighter and an early riser, nap taker sometimes. I am a good cook and fairly neat. Quite passionate about everything I do. I don't mince words or waste much time. Not that I don't like to relax, or even shoot the shit. I most certainly do, when I can or I'm exhausted. It only takes a moment to ask someone about their day. Plus, as you may have guessed I like to communicate. Love reading people's body language and comparing it to what they are saying. People interest me. I usually am on the go for days then take a day to recharge. I'd prefer two. Most of my time is spent working and helping those that I love in one way or another. Watching babies, lending an ear or giving a lift. Whatever is needed and somewhat reasonable. I do what I can.I'm a very dedicated and loyal woman. I am not judgmental and do not like people who are. We all have our own opinions, but that's an entirely different matter, I think. I'm far from perfect. I make mistakes all the time. I'm human. I can be quite the handful for the wrong person, no doubt. I don't care what people think for the most part but I'm not a fool out to offend others or be abrasive. But, I will stand up for myself as politely as I can be with a person. And, i'll always step up for someone being mistreated and cannot do it themselves. I love old folks and babies. Kids do say the darnedest things, too. I think a partner should inspire you. Make you feel happy and lucky to have them. Be there for you no matter what. Listen to what you say and care about how you feel. It goes both ways, of course. I know you can't force something to be there if it just isn't and I won't settle. That'd be selling myself short. Nah, I'll pass.Your partner should be someone you are attracted to mentally, physically and emotionally. If you've never had that real connection with someone, I suggest you keep looking until you do. I have a vivid imagination, positive attitude on most things. I can find the irony and make sarcastic remarks all day long. But, I also find the good in everyone and everything. I look very deep. I like it when people are brutally honest. I like leaders. People who like themselves but aren't overzealous.I love it when a man is smart but doesn't talk down to people, funny but not a joke, well written and can express himself but not boring like a text book, curious but confident in what he knows. A man who has pride and stands tall but not the least bit arrogant, well unless we're goofing around, I guess. I like a loyal man, who doesn't let his eye wander when I'm around. Who doesn't have to brag and keeps intimate things well, intimate. I hate arguing but like a good debate. Yelling and controlling people disgust me. There really should never be yelling in your house unless it's on fire or in celebration. I LOVE IT WHEN A MAN CAN GRAB MY ATTENTION AND KEEP IT!Well enough about me. Tell me all about you...***And, just to clarify, yes, I do carry a few extra pounds. I am a curvy, size 10 woman and 5'6". I'd like to get in shape and drop a few pounds but you need to like me for who I am. ALSO, I tend to prefer bigger guys. But, nothing is set in stone. Nothing. So, hit me up! You never, ever know! Breakfast, lunch, even a cup of coffee would gives us time to see if we click without any pressure.

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