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Leila, 41

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About Me

I'm a very open minded soft hearted woman. Speak my mind when needed and not controlling. I believe in honesty, faithfullness, and communication. Most important things when it comes to relationships. Looking for a man that's ready to settle down. One that can keep things real. My hobbies very from playing the piano, reading, or doing something with friends and family. Any questions feel free to ask. Would be nice to have a real date. Lol... picked up taking out to a nice dinner with good conversation. Anything after is up for discussion. Maybe some drinks and dancing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Candy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Easy going, no drama loves the outdoors, cooking for two or ten, love entertaining and enjoy family, schooled formally in Europe, love to travel Intl : Bali, Fiji, Thailand, Japan, India hoping to goto Africa next, seeking a gentlemen who is optmistic, healthy in all aspects, mindful, adventourous, kindhearted, intelligent and affectionate, i love picnics on the beach , bonfires, live music, art galleries, and soft, slow, warm kisses that last three days xxxAppreciate the simple pleasures in life; enjoy adventure travel, scuba diving, sailing, skiing, golf, cooking, movies and the arts, live music, fine dining.Nature is my medicine. Anything outdoors is calming and nurturing. A first rite of passage was living on a sailboat one summer in the islands, survivng mostly on the freshfish, lobster or conch we could catch each day. Second rite of passage; living with a Burmese hilltribe on the northern thailand border, another more recent was camping in a pup-tent with a Rajastani desert tribe in central India. I love to study and take photographs of indigenous cultures and share their story. I am a water baby at heart, have a love for the ocean and mother nature.I Respect a man who is mindful, healthy, passionate and devoted, with a working moral compass and sense of personal integrity. Must be a positive person with a passion for life, see the glass as half full not half empty. Someone who is affectionate, mentally and emotionally stable, (non drug user please). Ideally he would be athletic, striving to learn and grow in life, a spiritually centered individual who is intellectually curious and appreciates that in others.I love to learn with an open mind and try to maintain a hopeful heart in my daily life. Im spiritual and prayerful. I prefer a man who is kind, compassionate, strong, healthy, funny, and a non-smoker. Im easy like a sunday morning; love playdates for two, enjoy the water, nature, cooking for two or ten, wine by the bonfire, intellectual conversation, live music, hottub for two and long, slow, warm, soft kisses I treasure most: family, and true friends and long term life relationships. Enjoy growing tomatoes and tending to my little herb garden and cooking from the daily findsEnjoy the fishing!! Something casual, then lets see if it leads somewhere......perhaps a tiki bar atmosphere with music or a wine tasting or art gallery or beer and a burger at a sports pub is fun too, it dosnt really matter where its the company that counts

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    OMG... So chatted with this guy for a while, and finally agreed to go out. I said ok if you'd like to go to dinner and see a movie, would be nice and relaxing and sounded like a typical date. Well he responded with " he's not an ATM and before I presume he spend A LOT of money on me with dinner and a movie, he wanted to take me to a bar and shoot pool! But if I wanted to TAKE HIM to dinner that would be okay! I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, cuz those kind think they don't need a heart, just a wallet. But id love for someone to take me to a nice dinner, good conversation. And I love the movies too, am I expecting too much? So maybe I should be a little more informative here. I don't go out much, don't have fun toys, not many nice things. Live pretty simple, ,and I know fun things can be expensive i understand that. But if you are going to ask a woman out, can we do something nice at least , ,please? Im also not cool with, ,how about hanging out at his house renting a movie? ? Come on! Of course I would love to do that eventually, but not in the beginning, geesh!Ive been here before, obviously didn't work out, I'm learning a lot about men, and myself lately. But I'm looking for my best friend. Someone to do everything with, and sometimes do nothing together. I'm open, and honest. I don't hide my feelings either. I'm very passionate, devoted, and loving. And expect the same in my boyfriend. If you'd rather go out to bars without me, then I'm not for you. You'd have more fun with me! Please let's not waste each others time. If you aren't ready to settle down, or just interested in tight bodies, or rebuilding your life and can't afford to take a girl to dinner, then you're not ready for serious relationship right now. I have a lot to offer to my man, and would hope he does too.I have my son, and eventually would like to do things together. I love dinner and movies, but other times would like to do things I've never done. Yes a date, it's really the first impression. So asking me to meet you in a parking lot, won't get me too excited LOL But we can do whatever you want, but we're not having sex on the first date, just throwing that out there! :-)

  • Opal

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I miss the smell of a man, his muddy boots by the door. I miss someone to cuddle up with at night and have coffee with at 5am, discussing nothing or everything. I like to talk, I love to listen. I have been married my entire adult life and I do not like being single. I can change my own tire, but would rather call you. Your hands are bigger and stronger for a reason. I wrote the rest of this on a whim one day in 10 minutes. Today is the day after Christmas. The winter can be so hard on a person. Too much time...to think. Some things need no words...Unless it's MAD, PASSIONATE, EXTRAORDINARY LOVE, It is a waste of time. There are too many MEDIOCRE things in life. LOVE SHOULD NOT BE ONE OF THEM.I want to paint the town red with you, make magic between the sheets all day, occasionally and be able to tell you absolutely anything. I'm a late nighter and an early riser, nap taker sometimes. I am a good cook and fairly neat. Quite passionate about everything I do. I don't mince words or waste much time. Not that I don't like to relax, or even shoot the shit. I most certainly do, when I can or I'm exhausted. It only takes a moment to ask someone about their day. Plus, as you may have guessed I like to communicate. Love reading people's body language and comparing it to what they are saying. People interest me. I usually am on the go for days then take a day to recharge. I'd prefer two. Most of my time is spent working and helping those that I love in one way or another. Watching babies, lending an ear or giving a lift. Whatever is needed and somewhat reasonable. I do what I can.I'm a very dedicated and loyal woman. I am not judgmental and do not like people who are. We all have our own opinions, but that's an entirely different matter, I think. I'm far from perfect. I make mistakes all the time. I'm human. I can be quite the handful for the wrong person, no doubt. I don't care what people think for the most part but I'm not a fool out to offend others or be abrasive. But, I will stand up for myself as politely as I can be with a person. And, i'll always step up for someone being mistreated and cannot do it themselves. I love old folks and babies. Kids do say the darnedest things, too. I think a partner should inspire you. Make you feel happy and lucky to have them. Be there for you no matter what. Listen to what you say and care about how you feel. It goes both ways, of course. I know you can't force something to be there if it just isn't and I won't settle. That'd be selling myself short. Nah, I'll pass.Your partner should be someone you are attracted to mentally, physically and emotionally. If you've never had that real connection with someone, I suggest you keep looking until you do. I have a vivid imagination, positive attitude on most things. I can find the irony and make sarcastic remarks all day long. But, I also find the good in everyone and everything. I look very deep. I like it when people are brutally honest. I like leaders. People who like themselves but aren't overzealous.I love it when a man is smart but doesn't talk down to people, funny but not a joke, well written and can express himself but not boring like a text book, curious but confident in what he knows. A man who has pride and stands tall but not the least bit arrogant, well unless we're goofing around, I guess. I like a loyal man, who doesn't let his eye wander when I'm around. Who doesn't have to brag and keeps intimate things well, intimate. I hate arguing but like a good debate. Yelling and controlling people disgust me. There really should never be yelling in your house unless it's on fire or in celebration. I LOVE IT WHEN A MAN CAN GRAB MY ATTENTION AND KEEP IT!Well enough about me. Tell me all about you...***And, just to clarify, yes, I do carry a few extra pounds. I am a curvy, size 10 woman and 5'6". I'd like to get in shape and drop a few pounds but you need to like me for who I am. ALSO, I tend to prefer bigger guys. But, nothing is set in stone. Nothing. So, hit me up! You never, ever know! Breakfast, lunch, even a cup of coffee would gives us time to see if we click without any pressure.

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