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Enid, 53

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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Down to earth, caring, honest, easy going, witty, well liked, spontaneous, creative. I look younder then my age and take care of myself. I'm not a drama queen. I've worked in the health care field all my life and my specialty is very rewarding and challenging. Would like to meet a single, gentle, attractive guy with a warm soul and a big heart. Life has tested me over the years and I now want to find happiness and love! I know you're out there waiting to be found just like I am. So if you're fun, loving, honest, mature with a youthful heart, adventurous and would like to meet... then send me a message ;o).NOT into head games and nor married men. Coffee, drinks, walk, chat... something mutal

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I enjoy keeping mentally, physically and spiritually fit.I maintain this by meditating, exercising, walking and talking with close friends. I have a set of principles that I practice living by and fully understand the concept that no one makes us who we are or how we feel. Rather, together, we can strengthen, enhance and compliment one another. I am a confident, strong and independent woman, who is very happy, successful, fun, serious, affectionate, playful and even goofy at times. I am a good woman, a good friend and a loving mother. I am emotionally mature, honest and open minded, No hidden agendas and no expectations. My faith is stronger than my fears and I know who I am and I do the things I do for a reason. I am not perfect and I am ok with that. I enjoy being outdoors, love the beach, love water, long walks on a cool fall night, snuggling, good conversation and lazy Sundays. I like having the door opened for me, holding hands in public and phones calls just to say hello. I want someone with similar qualities, to share my days with and his with me. Share laughs and thoughts with. I want to give and gain respect and understanding for and from him. I am looking for that someone special, someone with character (who we are, how we act, when no one is looking), who is honest, does what he says, who is confident, comfortable, considerate & happy with himself, open-minded, active, attractive, who enjoys laughter and appreciates life. So...If you have interest and if YOU share the same qualities and are serious about exploring a mature relationship, then I look forward to hearing from you. If YOU, have hidden agendas, are not serious, not honest,into playing games, etc... please pass me up. I do not invite drama into my life!

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a survivor in an ever-changing world. What happened to the good old days when all the good ones weren't taken? Here we are on the internet reaching far and away to compatible strangers. Oh to be young and hold the wisdom of our years. We've all had our moments of life's challenges and realize just how short life really is. If you want someone that likes live music, who can dance, and always has a smile, I'm you're girl.

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