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Enid, 53
United States, Texas, Crowley

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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Italian Mexican Thai Documentary Music Thriller Spirituality
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    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    To Love and Be Loved is the Greatest Joy on Earth. I truly believe this. Love doesn't come right away. First, two should become friends. The friendship may or may not build. I enjoy cooking, video games, MUSIC, singing, writing, spending time with family and friends, and crafts, such as, cross-stitching and beading. I enjoy learning new things. I hate abusers or men who do not treat a lady with respect. There are plenty of women who DO NOT appreciate the man either. I am NOT looking to meet someone for sex. I am more into getting to know someone: Heart, Mind, and Soul. That is important. If you want to know me, don't ask what bra size I have nor anything sexual. This is about getting to know a person for who they and not just making it seem you want them just for sex. RESPECT!!! I am so glad there are still good men out there. If you are looking for a one night stand, look else-where. If you are looking for a lady who is loyal, kind, honest, compassionate, and loving, drop me a note. We have to become friends before we become lovers. I am so tired of seeing that men want someone who is loyal, honest, loving, and has a big heart, but it isn't really what they seek. I believe all men are NOT like this. I am honest. I expect the man to be honest as well. I am so tired of games and evasiveness. If you do not think a relationship will work, tell me to my face. Don't wait days later and avoid me. I also welcome people to write as friends, because one can never have enough friends.I think communication is one of the most important attributes between a couple. Without proper communication, any relationship could fizzle.P. S. Caucasian only, please. This should be discussed and agreed upon by both involved. Sometimes a quiet dinner at a restaurant is good. Sometimes just meeting to enjoy dancing is great also. Respect is THE biggest turn on.

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  • Kristen from Crowley | Woman | 53 years old | Capricorn
    Kristen

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    First let me get this out of the way....if you are looking just for a "friend with benefits" MOVE ONTO THE NEXT GUPPIE!I am indeed a city girl that landed in country trying to find my way ...can use the help from a friend and if friendship turns into ever lasting love that would be awesome and I would cherish our relationship!I am looking for an honest, sincere and faithful man whom is proud to have me walk beside him (never behind him) in our journey of love/life. I want a forever happily ever after relationship, but marriage is not at all in my long term plans. I do not need a church to bless or a state government office to approve my love. I am not against living with my man at some point but not an immediate need. I am not looking for a sugar daddy as I believe in any relationship everything from work around the home to finances is ***.I will not wear a collar nor hold a leash. If you require/desire more than one woman...MOVE ONTO THE NEXT GUPPIE...I WILL NOT SHARE...PERIOD! I do firmly believe in HIS time, HER time and OUR time. I realize you do not need seek my approval for what you do or where you go but please be courteous and give me a heads up...communicate openly and honestly.I demand respect and communications skills.My dislikes: Diamonds, Roses, will never take an ocean cruise (motion sickness) and shopping malls. I am not "cheap" but *** pretty simple person. I like to be pampered in other ways. My "boutique" is Goodwill Industries...love treasure hunts and saving a few bucks along the way. My hobbies: cruising on a motorcycle (either as the driver or seat cover...My kIds are my world! They do and will continue to come first; and you as a father, your children will always come before me. I will never be your children's mom but *** best friend. I have 3 grown children all whom I am extremely pround of. Oldest 2 are in college and living on their own. My youngest has just completed with high honors 4 years active duty with USMC and is now 4 year reserves while attending college in LA, CA. I also have a ***yr old Pug (Paws).I do believe in God but will not be a church goer. I was force fed the Baptist religion and now I just do the best I can in life while living the good life. I do drink socially and smoke ...neither do I personally think will condem me to hell. Hmmm....fall is here and a great time to find something to do outdoors. A day trip to anywhere wether it be on 2 wheels, 4 wheels or 4 legs...I am all in! Take in the color/sights and activities of the season. Pack a picnic for 2 and suprise me! I am not an "over the top" kinda person. Please don't ask me what I want to do...you plan it and pick me up on the way! Caution: no seafood or road kill!

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