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United States, Texas, Crowley

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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Italian Mexican Thai Documentary Music Thriller Spirituality
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  • Gabriela from Crowley | Woman | 51 years old | Sagittarius
    Gabriela

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm petite and thin with long dark hair and told a great smile.Honest, loyal, caring ( almost too much), compassionate, listener, affectionate and loving. I do not toy with people as I take my interactions with others very serious. I am sensitive to others.I'm also a fan of music. Lyrics are poems set to a sound that can be made into beautiful music. I am not a fan of liars or say one thing and act and say another. To coin a phrase, "actions speak louder than words". Someone who actually knows what he wants and knows how to keep his word and go for it. In other words, not into meeting players. ( a real man, but can be a kid too at times) Someone who is a real romantic. (chivalry is very important to me and being a true gentleman) A great heart and soul is the key. Beautiful on the inside, as well as the handsome on the outside. If you are spritual, it is a plus. A sense of humor a must. ( Laughing until one's abs hurt) I can and want to laugh with someone. ( I have been known to be able to laugh at myself too) I have learned from the past. I trust my *** however, they are not 100%..."Just another lesson learned"I have the most amazing sons. My eldest is a Lawyer, and youngest is in his senior year of school. (When I grow up, LOL...I want to be like them!!!!)If you do not have recent photo's please don't contact me. If you are a nutcase, Stay away. but most don't really know they are crazy. "Sad but true" ...to coin Metallica.( I admit it is sometimes laughable) That said....I want a real relationship. So, if you are emotionally available, affectionate, loyal, honest, caring, loving, bright,with morals, and respect....I am the gal for you. I look forward to hearing from you. The connection and chemistry....Basically you just know. The venue is not as important. We are. :)

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  • Avis from Crowley | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
    Avis

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Interests and activities include gardening, biking, hiking,camping; most all outdoor activities.I strive to improve my skills when possible!My goals are to continue to enjoy and understand the best of what life has to offer. Alone or with a special one, or in the company of my friends and family. I am passionate about the envireonment, politics, my politics progressive,,,like minded individuals preferred,,, I appreciate a good intellect I love music art and literature. My fave kinds of music are alt rock, indie, r&b, soul: am an amateur musician. A bite, or beverage, walk, conversation,,,humor would be great! Prefer east Milw locations to meet which is where I reside. Always something fun and interesting to check out.

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  • Velma from Crowley | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
    Velma

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am in search of a confident gentleman (without arrogance) who believes there are many happy memories yet to be made. The fine print:We've all suffered a broken heart but if you've not moved past the bitterness - I'm not who you're looking for. Likewise if you feel the need to be dishonest about your age, photos, or anything in general - you're not who I'm looking for. I'm interested in someone who I click well with as a friend and is relationship material should it progress to that point. My faith is important to me so if you break out in a sweat at the mention of church, we'd not fit.I do not have patience for those with 'hot and cold' tendencies - just do not understand them, seems by now we should all be a bit more aware of who we are and what we want *** playing head games. I am living the best years of my life, now - today. My head is more together than when I was younger and I've found the things I once believed to be of such importance, in reality are of no significance. .With that being said :-) I'm a happy person and truly love life. I'm a movie buff but spend a lot of time outside. I enjoy yard work and gardening and DIY projects. Not the best at it but enjoy it. I love to cook and been told I'm pretty good ***haven't sent anyone to the ER yet lol). I'm as comfortable in a dress and heels as I am in blue jeans and can have fun at a formal event or backyard BBQ with family and friends. It's really the people and personalities that make a good time. I love enjoying down time too just doing nothing but being lazy, so much more fun when you've got someone to be lazy with. :-)If you recognize yourself in what I've wrote, you might be the the one I've been waiting to hear from. How wonderful that would be. There's just something about two rocking chairs that look better on a front porch than one... Anything that does not involve calling 911

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