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Enid, 53

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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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  • James

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I consider myself young at heart. I try to live a healthy lifestyle... this does not mean I am a fanatic by any means. I like to run for exercise but also do spinning classes. I try to eat healthy as well. I enjoy 80's music but will listen to just about anything except rap. I like going out dancing, movies, live entertainment, quiet evenings at home, coffee & reading the paper, a good glass of wine, campfires, anything near the water, beaches, traveling, exploring new areas, fine dining, a drive in the country with no real destination, a walk after dinner, etc.;I have 3 daughters but only one still lives at home & she's in high school. I would like to meet a well educated, professional man-emotionally & financially secure. My faith is important to me so I would like to meet someone on the same page about Christianity. Since I am on the tail end of raising children I would prefer someone who's children are already grown or in the same stage of life as I am.

  • Debra

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    When I have free time, (which seems like never, lol), I like to paint, draw- just be creative. I'm a no drama kind of girl unless something really bothers me then of course I'll have something to say:). I like to keep life positive with a glass half full outlook on life. Mostly though, I'm a gentle soul and I enjoy all types of music, fresh air, the country, animals and a man with a great smile and personality . I like holding hands; long walks. I enjoy a good steak out once in awhile with a glass of wine. I consider myself a private person with goals and desires but I feel more comfortable telling them to someone dear to me with whom I've gotten to know on a personal level or a close friend.

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