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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

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  • Karla

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy the great outdoors including hiking,biking,golf,attending Gopher Football and Twins games. I work out ***days a week. I enjoy cooking, learning about wine, dining out in ethnic restarants, traveling (both locally and to warm destinations) and laughing as often as possible. I do not have any chilldren...but I do love them all! I would enjoy meeting someone over coffee or drinks first, seeing if there is any compatibility and going from there! Wherever that might lead.

  • Tammy

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am upbeat and seem to always wear a smile. I enjoy hiking, biking, canoeing and walks around one of the lakes.. I enjoy having dinner on a patio or BBQing at home, an afternoon listening to live music or watching movies together on the couch in front of the fire....with a glass of wine could be nice. I enjoy travel and usually take a couple trips a year. I am also open to trying new activities. I enjoy laughing, giggling and kidding around. I look forward to finding a special man that I can make feel special and hopefully he feels the same about me. Looking for that mutual spark! Someone to do fun things with and be there for each other. Balance in life is important, work a little and then we can play a little, or a lot!! I would like to meet for coffee or a drink to see if there is a connection, something simple.

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