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I like to road cycle, the pedal kind, and hike, dancing to 80s music and finding places with live bands. I enjoy relaxing on a patio, cooking together,( tho I love being cooked for), finding byob places, small towns, music festivals and nightime adventures. I enjoy outside activities and nature. Like help with home projects, day trips and overnight stays. Fireplaces and football on sundays, love hockey. I do go to the gym....but no longer a rat.I really can blend into lots of activities. I am not really obsessive about any one passion. I will get into something for awhile and then change things up.I guess you may say I don't do things that women my age are supposed to do. I have a young out look on life and would love a person who can challenge me to be my best but also someone who can lean into my world and relax. Or mine into yours. I am pretty laid back. I do have standards as we all should but I am more into hanging out with real and interesting people, than trying to impress someone. I am nice person...a bit ditzy ( not stupid tho...) and forgetful but very loyal to those who are in my world. I have a 23 year old son who just got back from his service in the Army and he is my roommate now. We co exist in a very cool way. No parent child issues. He is an amazing young man and we always got along fine before he left. Now its better because he returned a mature man with all the wild seeds worked out care of US Army. He has strong morals and is a very loyal person. I know some women have told me that men don't like women who have sons at home. Sorry if that is a deal breaker but I cant see how it would be in my case. You would probably like him more than me...LOL...Still holding onto the goal that there will be a man that will prefer me above all others. I like that comfort zone. I can usually catch on pretty quick on intents...nothing is bad per se...but may not be what I am wanting now. Can you make me laugh? Comfortable in your own skin? Want a trophy? ( delete and move on...not me!!). Just be honest about who you are and what you are looking for. Just got a black lab mix this past week...awesome dog I got from the pound. Thought I would end up getting some kind of lap dog ...and I guess I did. He just doesn't realize that he is too big for my lap. Just because I would like to have a one on one relationship doesn't mean I will fall into it on one date. Not a serial dater either. I just don't date as a full time job. Not much happens overnight. The first connection can be pretty strong sometimes, but one of us will go running from that if its too intense....yes...it does happen. I am thinking that going slow at first and getting to know each other as friends would be a good thing. I don't know....Surprise me!!! I think the old fashioned idea of calling a few days ahead and not asking what I would like to do, but having something all planned out is nice. As we were discussing the other day though, the practice of a man actually calling and having an event planned and ASKING a woman to come out, has been replaced with a text saying..." what are you up to ?" NOTE!! One last thing. Please do not *** question my religious habits, churches, beliefs or whatever you want to call it, to see if I belong to the same club as you do. . I mean it can be an important thing to you but not in the first contact *** really bad form and about as impolite as asking how much money you make And ..asking if I am a Christian?? I can believe in a higher power...but if I call it something other than what you call it.....there is no way to respond that is going to have a positive reaction. I am very spiritual. Save it for a later discussion. I can understand why to some that is important. I wish the best. Just I feel my beliefs are personal. And scammers ...please note that I will report you and I know what a fake profile is....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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