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Boejonsq, 49
United States, Washington, Westport

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I have always been a thinker i.e. a Philosopher my whole life. It's just how I'm built. I never called myself one. I have just been told that I have a real Philosophical way of looking at things as well as my approach. Artist, inventor, play musical *** fun. I'm not perfect by any means but I try to improve myself, stay involved with things that hold my interest because I feel like I become more intelligent without trying so hard because learning is no longer a job, it's a journey. I like to stay busy and involved in things I enjoy. Helping people is one thing I enjoy. Outdoor recreational activities especially Camping and hiking is another thing I enjoy. Nature completely renews me. I prefer to live with nature around me. I spend as much time as I can with family. I have always been a romantic at heart but, it's really hard to be a romantic in this country because most people grew up in broken homes. Some of them grew up in very toxic broken homes. We are all broken in some way. I always wanted to help the person I'm in a relationship with heal from their childhood trauma but it most often serves to stoke the fire. This is not intentional. I try to help but sometimes people decide that the world is evil no matter who the person is that is standing right in front of them and they will never really see me for who I really am so, I have no choice but to move on for my sake as well as theirs because they don't think abstractly in the way that helps you decipher who the other person really is underneath their persona. Believe it or not, they think most people are their persona. As though their persona is all that they are. They don't have that deciphering ability to determine the motives behind what others do and say. In their minds, "all women are automatically excused for their mistakes however severe because their women" According to them, "All Men can't feel empathy, only women can" I tried to help them see their are different kinds of men with different motives/honest/not honest, some care about others some don't. Some like kids some don't etc." Something happened to them at a young age and caused them be permanently locked in to that belief that all men are not capable of compassion or empathy. Problem is, although they did this to protect themselves growing up with a Sociopathic male they are not capable of feeling empathy for men or ever forgiving them. This keeps them from ever finding a good man. Just actors and that's what they want. Actors that tell them exactly what they want to hear. This causes them to hook up with one abusive man after another. They usually dump me for the guy who tells them what they want to hear that doesn't really care for her. I stopped dating these kind of women. I wanted to help them. I thought I could. It's pointless trying to help them understand. It's like trying to reason with a vault. Their just not receptive to emotions good or bad. Positive thinking women who don't play double standards games, lye, cheat, blame, etc. get farther in the long run... If they ruin their X's lives and credit scores but at the end they end up no-where, I still got my family, friends, a life of my own and a credit score on the mend or getting better. Don't ask me why I'm saying all this other than, I just want to be in a relationship with someone who will make an effort to be reasonable with me and compromise. Just make an effort. Nobody's perfect but I would hope she would be capable of empathy. We all have our ups and downs. We are all human but, if we try and we all help each other we become better people in the long run. We all make mistakes but if we struggle through it together we make each other stronger. If we don't work together, how can we grow and what's the point of getting in a committed relationship if theirs no real teamwork or effort on both sides? If there's no compromise in the relationship you may as well get a love doll. lol. Just kidding. Ok, Real love or nothing- How about that? By the way, despite my age I have plenty of mojo if it matters. I definitely have no use for Viagra. Keep that stuff away from me. It will never go down if I use that stuff. I have no problems performing on my own. None. I'm good with kids if that matters unless you don't discipline them at all and I have no possible way to discipline them because they couldn't possibly understand because you never discipline them. If your children are really un-disciplined I will never watch them by myself. Especially if they don't know me. I like going out on adventures and discovering new interesting things together, road trips, explore, hike camp, make love. Ask me.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Cooking Craft Making Cycling Gardening Drawing / Painting Playing Cards Reading Shopping Charity Outdoor Hobbies Singing Social Networking
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