SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Caroline
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Having to set up a new profile after one in which I was ***years old. I had set up the profile as no one is searchable after the age of 99 and I was curious and wanted to kinda lurk...test the waters. meetville rules does not allow one to communicate with anyone 14 years younger or older which meant I could only correspond with someone older than 87...and won't delete my account so it is now "hidden"...and I now have an ALIAS. I am discovering men mostly don't read profiles anyway. Sorta like reading comic books, they just prefer to look at pictures. It is complicated....I seek chemistry - and you may ask what is that? Chemistry is a connection that to many, may seem magical and unrealistic. but it is simply the accumulation of what we are and who we have become, bringing two people together in the moment, and is much too complicated to ever analyze so we call it "love" I seek chemistry with someone who possesses charm, a flair for living, who can live life honestly, with personal integrity and financial stability. I am attracted to intelligence coupled with common sense. I stay fit and eat healthy and desire that quality in a partner. I desire somebody who is wise, someone with as much or more energy than me and who has at least as much zest for life as me and a kind heart as that is the key to the equation. And there must be Chemistry....I am a positive person of moral fiber while still enjoying things spontaneously. I often think and sometimes act outside the box. Excess within control. Descriptive for me would be loyal, fun-loving, energetic compassionate, moral, frugal, athletic, adaptable, sensitive, intuitive, living reclusive in a debt free life style in the country, charming with a dry quick wit and sense of humor and very sensual with the right mate.I didn't "blow up the t.v." but I avoid most of the rot and prefer to rent movies from the library, preferring independent films and documentaries over mainstream movies. I avoid movies containing gratuitous sex and violence; finding both to be raw and demeaning and insults my intelligence and imagination. So no couch potatoes please...I am vegetarian...and finding this is an element in my life that should be seriously considered in seeking a future partner. I love animals. I don't eat them. I own and live on an organic farm...I grow (not kill) what I eat. Life is simple if you have control of your simple needs. Life is good....not easy...but good! Vegetarianism is not just an ethical decision but part of the solution to the global, economical, ecological problems on Earth plus a health based choice. I am often told that I am a great chef. I love to cook with lots of spices. My cuisine is never dull!I love being in and around the water, having taught swimming (WSI) for 14 years, I crew on a racing sailboat and am resurrecting an antique racing sailboat for the ***racing season. I love exploration and hiking, potlucks and dancing to live music. Flying and travel is important. I am willing to travel to see a good band play or to hike a special place.People often portray themselves as perfect and no one is perfect, we are all imperfect. I am imperfectly perfect. What is more important is to not carry around a lot of baggage and to be responsible for your actions and I am able to do both of these things successfully. I have been blessed in life and am single my choice as I do know what I want and willing to wait it out, Life is what we make it. I strive to make each day special, I work hard and play harder. We live in a world that functions in an unrealistic way and at an alarming pace. I maintain a steady pace and search for what my soul tells me is real. No time for games. I am focused on developing a good relationship with a like- I am impatiently patient. If you can't post a photo, we probably have little in common, not being judgmental nor unrealistic in my expectations physically, but in order to begin communicating with someone, at least for me, a photograph to put a face on a person is pertinent."Everybody is after being extraordinary. That is the search of the ego: to be someone who is special, to be someone who is unique, incomparable. It is such an ordinary desire. If you become ordinary, the very search to be ordinary is extraordinary, because rarely does somebody want to be just nobody, rarely does somebody want to be just a hollow, empty space. This is really extraordinary in a way, because nobody wants it. And when you become ordinary you become extraordinary, and, of course, suddenly you discover that without searching you have become unique."- Osho (Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh) the hardest part....wish the first date was optional! And the last "date" :-)
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Rosanna
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
If we haven't had someone close to us die, we tend to take a lot for granted. I really try not to take things for granted. We have no idea what is around the corner; for us, or for our loved ones.; cancer can be long and very arduous. The people we love and who love us are vitally important. Now and for years to come. Life is hard sometimes, I'll still love you. Hiking, biking, skiing, off trail - using the inner compass... breathing..... snake grass in the wind..... long journeys... sun! ... hard work, physical motion... adventures, peaceful hours... riding horses... building creations, a home, a journey, a life.We have this honest moment. I know what I want... lions in the wild....... snake grass... clean air...easy efforts... a man who loves and adores me and I him... a healthy life... the rewards of hard work... and grace.Here are the negatives: I don't know how to do internet dating. I wish I didn't fill out the 'chemistry test' because I wung it and I don't know how to change it... I don't know how to get my photos off!... I don't want to 'shop for a man'. I don't want to have conversations with many people. I'm not looking to flirt; to fill my ego. Please don't send me conversations that really don't mean anything; or comments that are shallow. I didn't get on this site for that. Please don't write if you are a few years out of the alcoholic drug life. I prefer a man who hasn't gone there at all. I'm sorry, I don't know how to *** call and I don't want to.I'm humorous and intellectual on type, I'm best in person. I know how to be in the moment, to dance intimately. I know how to express gratitude. I like to play and laugh, everything dissolves. I know how to take care of my loved ones. I love journeys, celebrating different parts of this planet. I was loved as a child and I know how to love. I offer you honesty. Since you are a secure man you will want my honesty. I need my time alone regularly. I will genuinely be present with you. I am manifesting a healthy stable relationship with an-already-made healthy stable man. A man who loves physical contact, passionate energy. A man who is happy and sensitive. I enjoy your sense of purpose. I'm independent. I support you in your goals and you in mine. You and I are up for a walk/bike ride together at the end of a long day, *** staring at the tv., we enjoy something real.I respect a responsible honest man. One who has spent quality time becoming self aware, you who enjoyed the work objectively. You who enjoys the challenges of life and surfs the changes well. (heart) hmmm... is this about what I want on a first date? ...It's organic
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Marguerite
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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I have loved the beach my entire life and this is where I am the happiest. I enjoy traveling for weekend getaways or extended vacations when I can. I do not children so I can be very spontaneous with my time. Who I am searching for is honest, romantic and is passionate about things he loves and enjoys. He appreciates the woman in his life and shows her everytime he sees her as I will him. He can be a rough and rugged but can dress for a nice evening on the town. If your still reading then, send me an ***! Let's see where it leads. A drink listening to a live band, a nice dinner, walking hand in hand on the beach, playing golf, fishing or just being on the boat etc.