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Phyllis, 48

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About Me

I haven't been on this site for about a year. I thought what the hell give it one more chance. I truly believe there is someone out there for me. I love to travel. Actually, I would even be thrilled taking a road trip to the Cape. I love the ocean. It was heaven. I'm just starting a business with internet marketing. I love to laugh, enjoy all kinds of movies and music.(sorry, not too crazy about hip hop)I want to start playing chess again. The only problem is I don't have a chess set. LOL. I've never been one to got to the gym. I like walking, then doing my own routine will catch a yoga class whenever I can though.. I've been blessed with my mother's genes. She's 70 and still has no wrinkles. I'm one of those people at 7:00 A.M. when you got up for work you could turn to me and say, "Lisa want to play hooky from school? Let's go to the beach, or see the swans. ." and I would smile, kiss you and say,"But, of course." Obviously, I'm spontaneous. I love to get dressed up and go out to dinner and dance all night. Then again, I'm the same lady that will be in jeans and a T-shirt curled up in your arms watching the Patriots game. What am I looking for in a man? There has to be a mutual attraction to begin with. Someone who treats me like a lady, opens doors, sends flowers every now and again. Surprises me with movie. Concert or comedy shows tickets. Won't run the first time I show any kind of weakness or imperfection. A best friend and a lover. A real man. One who isn't afraid to be intimate. With that being said he has to know how to have fun a lot of fun.IF YOU SEND ME AN *** PICTURE I WILL DELETE IT.I'M SORRY BUT IF YOU'RE SEPERATED PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME,YOU ARE STILL NOT DIVORCED.I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A SUGAR DADDY,SO DON'T EVEN BOTHER.. Meet somehwere for coffee or a drink to see if there's mutual attraction and if there is dinner and we will take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristy

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-51

    Hi! My name is Kristy. I am divorced catholic caucasian woman with kids from Blue Springs, Missouri, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Caroline

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Having to set up a new profile after one in which I was ***years old. I had set up the profile as no one is searchable after the age of 99 and I was curious and wanted to kinda lurk...test the waters. meetville rules does not allow one to communicate with anyone 14 years younger or older which meant I could only correspond with someone older than 87...and won't delete my account so it is now "hidden"...and I now have an ALIAS. I am discovering men mostly don't read profiles anyway. Sorta like reading comic books, they just prefer to look at pictures. It is complicated....I seek chemistry - and you may ask what is that? Chemistry is a connection that to many, may seem magical and unrealistic. but it is simply the accumulation of what we are and who we have become, bringing two people together in the moment, and is much too complicated to ever analyze so we call it "love" I seek chemistry with someone who possesses charm, a flair for living, who can live life honestly, with personal integrity and financial stability. I am attracted to intelligence coupled with common sense. I stay fit and eat healthy and desire that quality in a partner. I desire somebody who is wise, someone with as much or more energy than me and who has at least as much zest for life as me and a kind heart as that is the key to the equation. And there must be Chemistry....I am a positive person of moral fiber while still enjoying things spontaneously. I often think and sometimes act outside the box. Excess within control. Descriptive for me would be loyal, fun-loving, energetic compassionate, moral, frugal, athletic, adaptable, sensitive, intuitive, living reclusive in a debt free life style in the country, charming with a dry quick wit and sense of humor and very sensual with the right mate.I didn't "blow up the t.v." but I avoid most of the rot and prefer to rent movies from the library, preferring independent films and documentaries over mainstream movies. I avoid movies containing gratuitous sex and violence; finding both to be raw and demeaning and insults my intelligence and imagination. So no couch potatoes please...I am vegetarian...and finding this is an element in my life that should be seriously considered in seeking a future partner. I love animals. I don't eat them. I own and live on an organic farm...I grow (not kill) what I eat. Life is simple if you have control of your simple needs. Life is good....not easy...but good! Vegetarianism is not just an ethical decision but part of the solution to the global, economical, ecological problems on Earth plus a health based choice. I am often told that I am a great chef. I love to cook with lots of spices. My cuisine is never dull!I love being in and around the water, having taught swimming (WSI) for 14 years, I crew on a racing sailboat and am resurrecting an antique racing sailboat for the ***racing season. I love exploration and hiking, potlucks and dancing to live music. Flying and travel is important. I am willing to travel to see a good band play or to hike a special place.People often portray themselves as perfect and no one is perfect, we are all imperfect. I am imperfectly perfect. What is more important is to not carry around a lot of baggage and to be responsible for your actions and I am able to do both of these things successfully. I have been blessed in life and am single my choice as I do know what I want and willing to wait it out, Life is what we make it. I strive to make each day special, I work hard and play harder. We live in a world that functions in an unrealistic way and at an alarming pace. I maintain a steady pace and search for what my soul tells me is real. No time for games. I am focused on developing a good relationship with a like- I am impatiently patient. If you can't post a photo, we probably have little in common, not being judgmental nor unrealistic in my expectations physically, but in order to begin communicating with someone, at least for me, a photograph to put a face on a person is pertinent."Everybody is after being extraordinary. That is the search of the ego: to be someone who is special, to be someone who is unique, incomparable. It is such an ordinary desire. If you become ordinary, the very search to be ordinary is extraordinary, because rarely does somebody want to be just nobody, rarely does somebody want to be just a hollow, empty space. This is really extraordinary in a way, because nobody wants it. And when you become ordinary you become extraordinary, and, of course, suddenly you discover that without searching you have become unique."- Osho (Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh) the hardest part....wish the first date was optional! And the last "date" :-)

  • Allyson

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am interested in meeting a college educated, stable, fun, active, loyal, awesome guy with a great sense of humor! i have been divorced for a few years and have been busy raising my daughter..she will be going off to college shortly and i will be an empty nester trying to fill my life with meaning and great memories. I enjoy staying active, love to travel, shop, cook, eat out, movies, sporting events, i pretty much like doing most things. I work out ***days a week and follow a very healthy eating routine 80% of the time with small splurges on the weekend. Deal breakers for me are men who smoke, have a criminal record, need to take an anti depressant medication full time, men with tempers and men who cheat. If any of this appeals to you, please write to me, if not, good luck to you in your search. I am 51, my profile says 40 something..i am trying to attract men from 45 to 55, thanks! Ps....my first profile pick was taken on ***...the other pics were taken in ***, with the exception of the hand drawn picture which was done 5 years ago. Would prefer to meet for an hour, a glass of wine..short and simple to see if there is any chemistry!

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