Total users: 62,177,845 Online users: 224,066
Malinda, 48

Offline, last seen Sun, 05 Apr 2026 21:47:56

About Me

I am looking for my companion to join me in my adventures; My adventure into romance, intimacy, love and life. Are you that man?I'm a 6'0" tall pear-shaped SWF, looking to date. I am open to casual to serious dating, and eventually courtship. I am NOT interested in hook-ups/booty calls or FWB. My long term relationship goal is a loving monogamous LTR/marriage. In order to achieve this goal I seek to date available men, so that we may get to know each other.I am a NON-SMOKER, you must be too. Drug and disease free. SINGLE MEN ONLY 35+I am a lady with traditional manners. I love being a woman and I love for my man to be a man. There is nothing sexier than a gentleman who assertively initiates contact, phones me, plans dates, opens doors for me, etc.I feel that I cannot "get to know" someone in *** want to date and get to know them in reality.I feel it important for you to understand that if I give you my phone number, it is NOT a cell phone, I do not like to text, I prefer to speak on the phone. Since I stay busy you should know that I will not always be at home to answer the phone, but if you leave a message I will call you back as soon as I have time. We feel we should meet for lunch/dinner, talk and get to know each other. I do not like coffee dates.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Bobbi

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi! I'm a hard working professional with two great college-age kids and an awesome husky! I love to travel and experience new places, people and cuisine.I listed my personality as yuppy, but really one word can not describe a person. I am fun, adventurous, outgoing and easy going. I am a leader, not a follower, but will easily go with the flow. I don't like drama or conflict, though I also will confront issues head on as burying them never leads to good results. I do work hard and have a professional job that is not 9-5, but I also play hard. Life is too short. My favorite saying is "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." I live by this both at work and in my personal life. You never know what life will throw at you, but if you have the right attitude you will emerge on the other side, quite possibly better off in the end!I am a planner and organizer, however, I also let the wind take me where it may. I like to start out a day in a new country with no real plans or agendas and just live in the moment. Stop and listen to a band playing on the street, take time to talk and listen to a local vendor, grab a cappuccino or glass of wine at a local pub... I think you learn so much more about yourself and the world by just looking and observing than by trying to get to each of the "Top 10 Places to See" and just *** picture.I do love photography. I am not a professional by any stretch of the imagination, but do like to capture my experiences with interesting photos. My camera is never very far away. I have gotten some amazing shots and have photos of my travels in my office at work! It helps keep me thinking about that next place to explore!I have been working for the same company for 26 years. I love my job! I am currently a project manager and responsible for launching new consumer products globally. I'd prefer not to go into details here, but let's just say you probably all have some product from my company in your house right now! I do commute about 3 hours a day back and forth to work. My hours are fairly flexible and I have a lot of vacation time.I absolutely love to travel, whether it is for work or pleasure. I am fortunate to have great co-workers in all of these locations that helped me experience the culture. I look forward to returning! I go to Aruba at least once a year for pleasure. I love the easy going island life, warm sun and beautiful Caribbean water! The sunsets are to die for!! I have been there 7 times so far and have gone both by myself and with my kids. I always find awesome people to hang out with and have made new friends from that experience. Safety and security is utmost on my mind, so future trips will probably be to Cabo. I was fortunate enough to share a dream trip to Australia and New Zealand with my daughter. It is an experience neither of us will ever forget and one we hope to repeat soon. Holding a koala bear, snorkeling the Great Barrier Reef, luging down a mountain....you just have to experience it to appreciate it!I am a Top 40 fan. I love spunky, happy music that makes you want to dance! I saw "Fun" and "Pitbull" at Summerfest this year. I love an outdoor music venue. There is something so magical about swaying to the beats of a great band while the cool summer breezes blow!I do try to stay in shape, but I am not an athlete per se. I take yoga and pilates at work over the lunch hour. I love the stress release and calm it brings! I love zumba, though haven't had time to fit regular classes in my busy schedule. I would love to be more fit and welcome the challenge of a companion that likes to be active. Since I rescued my dog two years ago, my evening exercise usually consists of a brisk walk with her. She is a bundle of energy after being home all day by herself!!What am I looking for? A best friend, a confidant, a soul mate, a travel companion. Someone who makes me smile just by thinking about them. While I am happy with my life, I think experiences are best when shared and would love to find someone to share life with. I believe in taking relationships slow and letting them develop to see where they might go.

  • Bridgett

    Offline

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Looking for a lasting relationship, someone to devote time to it, and that special man to grow old with!LOVE to laugh, joke, and have a good time! Also like the outdoors, animals, eating out, dancing, seafood, and gardening.Looks fade with age but, having someone that trully loves you and have the same interests will make a life long great relationship! I want someone who will feel comfortable with me and feel as though they are with their best friend! MUST....have a great sense of humor and love to laugh!!!I love the outdoors, animals, parks, beach, etc..... I would love to meet someone that likes the outdoors animals but, most of all I would like to meet someone with a good heart, honest, loving, caring, sweet, and very trusting, FUN, LIKES TO DO STUFF! I love to have a good time and go out To dinner, joke around and laugh! I LIKE A GUY with a bad boy or cowboy look but, a good boy heart! I LOVE GOATEES!! Yee haw! But, Not a must!I love boats, cars and car/motorcycle shows! KEEP MOVING AND DON'T WASTE OUR TIME IF YOU ARE.....40 or younger, looking for a one night stand, don't like animals, have anger issues, think joking and being silly is childish, don't like kids, or people! Anything that makes us both comfortable.

  • Jannie

    Offline

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am honest, sincere, upbeat, energetic, passionate, down-to-earth, social but also quiet, intelligent, I can laugh at myself, be goofy at times, I even have a little "MacGyver" in me. I am neat, clean, and organized. I enjoy working out, keeping myself fit and healthy naturally, cooking, spending time with friends and family in a variety of ways, volunteering, and just enjoying life. I believe in recycling, giving back, being kind and respectful to others, saying please and thank you, being appreciative for what I have and for the blessings bestowed on me in my life. I try to keep my life as stress and drama free as possible, since I've had enough of that in the past. I enjoy the simple things in life like taking walks in the park, reading a good book, drinking a delicious cup of tea or glass of wine (preferably red), exploring new places or events or trying new things (like riding a mechanical bull for the first time), getting together with my friends for barbecues, game night, bowling, or anything else to have fun and lots of laughs. I like to travel, and have seen a few wonderful places, but I would love to see more with the right person beside me to enjoy them with! I prefer the beach or warm weather *** do enjoy the spring and fall, except sometimes my allergies don't...lol. Listening to live music outdoors is the best on a beautiful day!I am looking for someone who is similar in values and interests, and has a heart for God and others. I am not looking to just date for the sake of dating, I am looking for the "one and only" to laugh with, love with, be best friends with, worship and volunteer with, and enjoy life to the end with. I am not looking for a long distance relationship either, it is too challenging to get to know someone that way. If you got this far, thank you for taking the time to read this and if you decide I am not a match for you, that's okay, I wish you the best in your search to find "the one" that is. :) I feel the "First Date" is the one after the initial "Meet and Greet" when you decide you want to continue to get to know that person. So the First Date could be anything from the "traditional" nice lunch or dinner out, or a picnic at the park with maybe some other activities included like horseback riding, bowling or something else fun, or it could even be more creative as long as it gives the two of us the opportunity to talk and get to know each other better. In other words, surprise me (in a good way of course)...lol.

Follow Us: