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Melissa, 29
United States, Maryland, Aberdeen

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About Me

I am a sarcastic, driven, funny, handy, smart, witty, adventurous, kind, caring and positive traveler and recycler. (Hope I didn't overdo it with the adjectives.)I've criss-). Note: if your idea of "active" is walking from your car to couch to play video games, we are not a match. (In guy speak: please, no fatties.)I'm an aviation nerd by trade and a social butterfly in my free time. Relationship-wise, I assume we're all here for the same reason - we've all been in a few past relationships, and at least one probably ended not so nicely. However, I'm not hung up on any ex, and I'm baggage-free, with no kids, no ex-husbands and the like...and I'm looking for the same. One thing I know I'm looking for specifically is someone who is open-minded and likely left-leaning or at centrist political views. Otherwise you'll likely find my altruistic ways more annoying than endearing. Things that aren't turn-ons: obesity, tattoos, facial hair, inability to spell/use grammar, guys who can't spell or write intelligibly that are covered in tattoos and facial hair that message meFinally, I think this should go without saying, but please be on this site for the actual purpose of meeting someone! Endless messages of one liners are not the way to catch or keep my attention! :) Anything where you can actually speak to someone, so coffee or an activity date. Contrary to popular belief, hiking tends not to be a good date idea...I hike a lot and am in shape but for those who don't, it becomes clearly apparent you don't work out when you're sweating profusely and so out of breath the conversation consists of me saying "omg are you ok" with fingers ready to dial ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Latin Metal Playing Cards Traveling Canadian Turkish Crime Romance
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