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Claudine, 44

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About Me

I'm constantly bewildered by the cruel joke of heterosexuality. Why am I drawn to and attracted to the opposite sex when it appears that everything about us is, indeed, opposite? It seems that men are more suited to living with men, and women with women. So why are we trying to fit a square peg into a round hole (please pardon the pun as I believe I've just answered my own question while philosophizing). I am sort of a walking contradiction in that I love people but am sort of a loner. I'm a little bit country, but I'm also a little bit rock 'n' roll. I love to go for a long hike in the woods with my dogs, but when I get home I might blast some Radiohead or Pink Floyd... or Johnny Cash. Then there's big band music! So much to choose from...I like social gatherings but I'm more likely to enjoy doing something productive. Most of my hobbies entail solitude. Things like painting, writing (screenplays mostly), hiking, biking, hanging out with my dogs. Very dedicated to my dysfunctional family, as well. I'm not a huge fan of television but do like public TV and a few cable shows like "Curb Your Enthusiasm." I could watch that show for hours. Also like Mad Men and a guilty pleasure is "The Bachelor". I can be too serious/cynical about life sometimes but when my mind is free from worrying about my family, my friends and the planet, I can be a hell of a lot of fun! I love to laugh but I also can appreciate a peaceful Sunday morning drinking coffee, listening to music and reading the paper. (One stripper said that a raisin was once originally a pickle--I'm sorry, it's cruel but it makes me feel better about myself!) I'm a pescatarian and would prefer someone that's not big on eating meat. Also would love someone who is outdoorsy and more of a homebody than an adventurer.I've been told I'm a gay man trapped in a woman's body. Maybe you should be a lesbian trapped in a man's body? First date should always be quick and painless, like ripping off a band-aid, just to see if there is chemistry. A quick dinner/drink or lunch is preferred. If we make it to the second date, I'd like to take a day trip to a city I've never been to before (provided I'm driving so you can't try to kidnap me, only to be seen again on milk cartons--Have you seen this girl?) and explore the local culture. Restaurants, shops, art museums, plays, etc. If the day goes well, the drive back home exchanging time on the iPods (which we'll bring on the first date, of course) should be titillating!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merle

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I\'m professional, spiritual, athletic, sexy and playful. I’m a fabulous cook; I sing, dance and write. The person I’d like to meet should be tall and physically fit and socially responsible.

  • Claire

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for friendship that may possibly develop into something more. Something light, fun, and uncomplicated. I don't want to play games.....I am a what-you-see-is-what-you-get kind of woman. I wear my heart on my sleeve and just want to find someone like-minded. I've put myself out there by displaying a photo - the least you could do is reciprocate. A little about me:I have 3 children who are challenging and rewarding. Cooking isn't something I enjoy, but I can follow a recipe and I do enjoy trying new foods. I am currently trying out more vegan dishes, although I still enjoy a good steak. I miss the ocean...I'm originally from the East Coast. I am a curvy woman, very comfortable in my own skin. I like to go to the gym (yoga, weights and working up to a spin class). I believe that my body is a constant work in progress, but you have to love the skin you're in and enjoy the journey. There is so much more to a person than the package. Even though these dating sites are like catalogues, I believe there is something about a photograph that captures the eye that makes you want to know more. Sometimes, it's friendship and other times, it's more, and I am interested in making a connection with someone. I am looking for a man who is attractive to me, who is confident, between 38ish to 49ish and who lives in my area. Age is just a guide - I am open to meeting slightly older but not under 30. He is mature, respectful, fun, and outgoing. A man who knows how to talk to a woman and how to treat her. A man who likes to work with his hands, not afraid to get dirty, and takes care of his appearance...so no socks sandals, no pj pants in public, and sorry, loud Hawaiian shirts are also out....unless we are down South on vacation. A sense of humour is a must because I like to laugh. I would love to meet at a pub on the patio, when the sun is just going down and the heat of the day is wearing off.

  • Luann

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey there, I'm interested in meeting new people. I have a great sense of humor, but also know when to be serious. I am a professional by day, and look forward to making the most of weekend time. Summer is my favorite season and the beach is my favorite spot during the summer. Being at or on the water is a plus. Looking forward to the next travel adventure! Feel free to contact me if you want to know more. A casual meeting for a drink works great for me. Meeting for dinner isn't what make me comfortable, getting to know someone over a drink (coffee or alcohol), provides a much more casual atmosphere.

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