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Freida, 45

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About Me

there is so much BS here so I wont make this long, I am looking for my soul mate and a real relationship where we are best friends and equals . If you want to know more about me just ask! :)I found this quote online and it pretty much sums me up "I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history. Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJ's and I go without makeup. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am." I would like for the guy to come up with something for the first date based on some of our chats. it will show if he has been listening to me and show his creative side . dinner and a movie is fine too, but the more different you can be the better, a picnic in the park is great too! Or just a walk around the mall to see if there is a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ginger

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well lets see...Starting a new chapter in my life. Getting divorced and we do not live in the same house! I have 2 amazing kiddos. One daughter 24 in college and just got married. A son 15 in high school. I love to dance....country or hip hop. I love to cook, go bowling, play pool or darts.), sporting events and I am open to new experiences. Maybe not climbing a cliff just yet! I just rode on a motorcycle for the first time in 22 years and LOVED IT!! Never thought I would say that....but the burn on my leg is now a good reminder... Would love to learn how to play golf or just dig up some grass... :PMy friends describe me as caring, loving, loyal, compassionate, out going, energetic, silly and crazy as the day is long....LOL....my best friends really just said this! LMAO. But in a good way! I am a bit of a smart ass and sarcastic....but once again...in a good way! I love to laugh and make people around me laugh! I am young at heart but old school. I have a sense of humor, am playful and love to joke around. I want someone who believes that communication and compromise is huge in a relationship! I believe a relationship should compliment each other not complicate each other! I am thin but could probably have some fun going to a gym to just tone up....however, its boring by myself! LOL. And my friends wont go. Again....LOL. I believe its the small things that people do in a relationship that make the most difference. However, I am not gonna lie....I love shoes! More edits...LOL again...I believe there has to be chemistry and attraction on both sides to want to pursue a second date/meeting. And conversation must not be awkward. If we dont have anything to talk about, lets just be honest with one another. I wont waste your time, if you please give me the same respect. But one can never have too many friends! :)***I am not looking to date multiple guys or for free meals. I genuinely would like to meet one man and see where it leads. Not loving the single life!***Want to know anything else, just ask..... Lunch, dinner.....some place we can talk and see how things go.....

  • Deanna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Chemistry is key! I think there are just some people you click with and others you don't. They can be the nicest people on the planet, attractive, etc. However without the chemistry/connection, you end up being just great friends. That is not bad, but I am looking for more.I like to look nice, but I do not spend a lot of time getting ready. I am as comfortable dressed-up as I am in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt. I enjoy going out for the evening and socializing. However, I also love quiet times at home. I am very honest and will always be the person I am and never try to be anything else. If you like me when you meet me, you do not have to worry about me turning into another person down the road. I love experiencing new things and new cultures. I appreciate intelligence and open-mindedness in people and am looking for someone who does the same. But, I am also looking for someone who can see the silly side of things. People describe me as quirky (they say in a good way) and I love to laugh. Now on the sappy side: I am an extremely caring person and will do just about anything for the people in my life. Family and friends mean everything to me. I am big on hugs and believe hugs can make anyone feel better. When I am having a hard day, I will go visit my nieces or nephews for a great big hug, and my worries just melt away. Hugs are a must for me! It is sad that I actually need to say this here, but if you are looking for a hookup, I am not your girl. Please do not contact me if you are not interested in more. I am also not looking for an *** I am looking to meet someone and take time to get to know them before jumping into something. If you are still with me after that disclaimer and you have similar qualities and appreciate them in others, drop me a note!Oh and I am very allergic to cats :(

  • Deana

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    If you have pics of just your body and no facial pics please don't bother messaging ......that only indicates one thing for me. March 29th updated update...I am probably gonna hurt feelings and have hate messages in my inbox..and that is okay..but I only date African American/black men............please not that or change it.....makes no sense to put one place and live in another.....March 1, ***update: if you put cannot contact if you are over this age or under this age how do you expect to be messaged if you message me? hello... I have had my share but I am a very determined mother of two boys who have more energy then I have ever had, I do believe. (LOL) I have been divorced for over 5 years. I strive to better myself all the time. I work with 2nd graders. My oldest has Aspergers Syndrome/Autism and adhd and youngest has Adhd and aggression. So if you don't think that you could handle this I am sorry. I don't mean to be rude or disrespectful but it is what it is. I do believe that family is the most important thing and also believe that being a mom has been the hardest job i have had but it makes me stronger. I have had my fair share of struggles and disappointments and have made it through...I am still alive. haha...I feel that I am a good woman and loving person to be around. I do know that I am not looking for a booty call or a one night stand or a friend with benefits whatever it is called these days. I am 44 years old and I am looking for a special person to grow with and love for the rest of our days. I know you have to start out with a friendship.....and build from there...with focus on just each other. That is very important. I have the old fashion standards and dating or going out on a date is important also. I do not invite a man to my house on the first time we meet....I am not meeting at walmart in the parking lot...or in a parking lot of anywhere....I think that a first meeting should be...a date...meet at a restaurant...or park...or somewhere where you can sit and talk ...not sitting in a car in a parking lot..sorry .......I like to read books, learn new things, take leaps of faith, and spend time with family. I like to go to the beach, take long walks, and anything that is exciting.. We only live once... we are not guaranteed tomorrow .and I am not getting younger.I love music....I feel music soothes the soul....I listen to most anything...I like R&B, pop, hip hop, lil country, easy listening, if it has rhythm and I can understand the words...its for me. I believe that the first date should be meeting at a public place. It could be a restaurant, walmart (lol), mcdonalds, or anywhere public. I have to feel comfortable. When we meet, that will be the time to talk, and get to know one another...and see if there will be date number 2.

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