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Carissa, 45

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About Me

Let me clear this up in the beginning, as it seems it needs to be, based on my past experience with meetville. I am not interested in casual sex. Friendship is first, and for me it does not have to go beyond that. I am not content with a mediocre relationship for the long haul. I do not NEED to date, for the sake of having a date or to feel complete. I have come to realize that many men are intimidated by that. The deal is, I'm 45, not 25. My life experience has made me stronger and wiser. I am independent, in that I have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am goal oriented and work hard to achieve them and I want the same in a mate. I want a partner, not a grown man to raise :) I am interested in meeting others that I can relate to, that have had some real life experience as I have. In an ideal relationship (for me) its about building each other up. Oh and something else, a one or two word message typically gets no response from me. Please be capable of holding a semi intelligent discussion. Last summer I shaved my long curly locks to raise money for charity supporting children's cancer. (And by shaved, I mean BALD) I have been growing it back slowly, with a few trims here and there to shape up. I've enjoyed trying out different styles along the way. I may never grow it as long as it once was, but I'll see how it goes. Since my hair looks a little different every couple of weeks at this point, I do update photos often. If you are a man that cannot see beyond Barbie doll qualities, or have a mind set that "women should have long hair", I'm probably not a good match for you. :) However, I consider myself a very confident and capable woman, but it's nice to know you have someone there to share life with. :)As far as hobbies go, I love most anything to do with art, though I'm not much of an artist myself. I took pottery classes and really enjoyed it but I'm open to trying other things and look forward to it. I enjoy watching sports more than the average girl, especially hockey. I'm also a State fan, but have plenty of UNC fans in my life so that's not a deal breaker. I maintain a pretty healthy lifestyle (most days) and want to be with someone who does the same. I attend school part time, as well as work full time. Probably a public place such as coffee or something simple. I am not much of an Internet dater and not comfortable meeting someone at their home or mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is my first ad ive ever put up. Not too sure what to expect. I have two teenagers and work full time at a job i love. In my spare time, when i have it i like to go hiking with my dog and do things with kids. I think im attractive and easy going but lately other than work i feel the only way i will meet someone new is if they run their car into my house because ive been such a homebody. My goals in life is to watch my children grow to be happy, healthy and proud of their achievements. I like the outdoors boating and learning new things and meeting new people. somewhat like hanging with your guy friend but don't look like it. Im honest and wont hurt feelings but wont string along with mind games as i expect the same. Not looking for any casual hook ups either For me an hour or two is plenty of time to know if i want to see this person again or enough time to sum me up too. Meeting up may depend on location and can always meet inbetween.

  • Ann

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am looking forward to meeting someone special to share and experience new things. I am not a high maintenance lady, I like to go out with friends as well as just be home with family and watch a movie. Although I don't mind getting dressed up for someone to take me out somewhere special.I can be happy just cuddling and staying home with that special someone or doing something more adventurous!! I like a wide variety of music. I enjoy bowling, dancing, going to the movies, camping, 4 wheel driving and watching the bands play at the beach at night in the summer months.I am a very honest and straight forward person so I would expect the same in return. If your into games please move on and if I'm to far to travel to lets not waste each others time unless you just want to be friends which is fine. Looking to get back into the dating seen and then see were it takes me! Just looking for a REAL true guy!! Somewhere laid back, go for a drink or a cup of coffee.

  • Lana

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for the man that will take my breath away! I love the outdoors but also like to stay in and cuddle while watching a good movie. I am a hopeless romantic and I am always loyal. I am a simple person and don't need to be impressed.I'm laid back and don't like drama. I listen to mostly pop and country but also like some rock music. My favorite type of movies are drama and horror. I read every chance I get. Always have a book nearby.I have 4 dogs that tend to rule the house so it would help if you like animals. LOLI recently bought a vintage camper and will be fixing it up. I'm hoping to make camping my new favorite thing to do. I am a dependable and honest person who is simply ready to move on to the next chapter.I'm not interested in a 1 night stand. If that's what you are looking for then please move on because I want so much more. I have a good heart and a lot of love to give so please don't waste my time with a bunch of childish games. If you have a habit of making plans and then cancelling them then we won't get along. ****If you can't be honest about who you are and what you want then you definately don't need to contact me!!**** First date...dinner and a movie, picnic in the park, I'm not picky.

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