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Carissa, 45

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About Me

Let me clear this up in the beginning, as it seems it needs to be, based on my past experience with meetville. I am not interested in casual sex. Friendship is first, and for me it does not have to go beyond that. I am not content with a mediocre relationship for the long haul. I do not NEED to date, for the sake of having a date or to feel complete. I have come to realize that many men are intimidated by that. The deal is, I'm 45, not 25. My life experience has made me stronger and wiser. I am independent, in that I have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am goal oriented and work hard to achieve them and I want the same in a mate. I want a partner, not a grown man to raise :) I am interested in meeting others that I can relate to, that have had some real life experience as I have. In an ideal relationship (for me) its about building each other up. Oh and something else, a one or two word message typically gets no response from me. Please be capable of holding a semi intelligent discussion. Last summer I shaved my long curly locks to raise money for charity supporting children's cancer. (And by shaved, I mean BALD) I have been growing it back slowly, with a few trims here and there to shape up. I've enjoyed trying out different styles along the way. I may never grow it as long as it once was, but I'll see how it goes. Since my hair looks a little different every couple of weeks at this point, I do update photos often. If you are a man that cannot see beyond Barbie doll qualities, or have a mind set that "women should have long hair", I'm probably not a good match for you. :) However, I consider myself a very confident and capable woman, but it's nice to know you have someone there to share life with. :)As far as hobbies go, I love most anything to do with art, though I'm not much of an artist myself. I took pottery classes and really enjoyed it but I'm open to trying other things and look forward to it. I enjoy watching sports more than the average girl, especially hockey. I'm also a State fan, but have plenty of UNC fans in my life so that's not a deal breaker. I maintain a pretty healthy lifestyle (most days) and want to be with someone who does the same. I attend school part time, as well as work full time. Probably a public place such as coffee or something simple. I am not much of an Internet dater and not comfortable meeting someone at their home or mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Looking for my best friend. To live laugh and love with. Enjoy life to its fullest.I am a very proud mother of 4 wonderful boys. Age 24, 21, 11 and yes your reading this right 22 months old. I love being a mom, and having a family. I also have 3 grandchildren under the age 2.Now if your got past the family and are still reading then send me a message. I like the outdoors as well as staying in watching a movie and cuddling. I love doing things with my children, soccer, bbq, board games , I attend church regularly and like most sports. But I also like my me time with that someone special. I believe a relationship must have time just for the two off you. So date night every week is a must. Even if it means the younger kids go to the babysitters and we spend the evening at home. I am a hopeless romantic and believe a man should be a gentleman, strong yet sweet. He should open doors for a lady and have manners. I like to cuddle and hold hands and kiss. Meet in a public place to talk.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a strong, independent, professional woman who tends to see the glass as half full, and is willing to do what it takes to reach my goals. I'm looking to connect with someone who likes to spend time making their partner feel appreciated and loved, and I'd love to offer the the same in return! I don't necessarily think partners have to do everything together, I like together time but also enjoy some separate time. I'd love to find someone that likes to go out looking for fun but is equally comfortable spending a quiet evening at home - cooking, enjoying some wine, watching a movie, and having good conversation.I value trust and honesty, and I don't tend to be a jealous person. I like to laugh and have fun and I'm looking for someone to share that fun with. I'm outgoing and very social, and hope to find someone on a similar level in that regard. I want to make a connection that will have a solid foundation built on friendship and respect...then we'll have to see where things go from there.I love my two kids and work hard at being their "super-mommy". My "match" will enjoy spending time not only with me, but eventually with my kids, helping to set a good example of what a healthy friendship, relationship, and (Maybe someday) family look like. I hope you're out there! Coffe (or a drink!) and conversation...maybe lunch or dinner together... the best way to get to know someone is by talking!

  • Sonya

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am pretty laid back, I love country music, my kids and my grandson. I like bon fires and hanging with family and friends. I am open to trying just about anything. I like watching scary movies and eating popcorn. I do not believe in fake people, If you cannot be true and honest about yourself PLEASE do not contact me! I have a great sense of humor but also know when to be serious. Meet in a public place to see if there is a connection, dinner and talking.

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