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Lela, 41

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About Me

I am an easy going, smiling, happy person and I don't take things too seriously or like drama! It has been awhile since I have bothered looking into the dating scene, but thought I would see what is out there again. I enjoy lots of outdoor things like hiking, boating, rafting, skiing, traveling, exploring etc.. I am a very social person too and enjoy going out every now and then. I have lived in the Flathead area for 14 years now and love calling this place home. It would be nice to have someone to hang out with and enjoy this amazing place with! Hmmm this is tough! I would love meeting up for coffee or drinks somewhere that we could talk and see if we enjoy each others company. I like it when the person asking me out on a first date has something in mind. If you are asking then you make the plan! Pleasant surprises are nice! I feel like you know after hanging out and talking for a bit if it is something you are interested in and would want to do again. I am really easy going so anything where we can get to know one another a bit is great!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carissa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let me clear this up in the beginning, as it seems it needs to be, based on my past experience with meetville. I am not interested in casual sex. Friendship is first, and for me it does not have to go beyond that. I am not content with a mediocre relationship for the long haul. I do not NEED to date, for the sake of having a date or to feel complete. I have come to realize that many men are intimidated by that. The deal is, I'm 45, not 25. My life experience has made me stronger and wiser. I am independent, in that I have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am goal oriented and work hard to achieve them and I want the same in a mate. I want a partner, not a grown man to raise :) I am interested in meeting others that I can relate to, that have had some real life experience as I have. In an ideal relationship (for me) its about building each other up. Oh and something else, a one or two word message typically gets no response from me. Please be capable of holding a semi intelligent discussion. Last summer I shaved my long curly locks to raise money for charity supporting children's cancer. (And by shaved, I mean BALD) I have been growing it back slowly, with a few trims here and there to shape up. I've enjoyed trying out different styles along the way. I may never grow it as long as it once was, but I'll see how it goes. Since my hair looks a little different every couple of weeks at this point, I do update photos often. If you are a man that cannot see beyond Barbie doll qualities, or have a mind set that "women should have long hair", I'm probably not a good match for you. :) However, I consider myself a very confident and capable woman, but it's nice to know you have someone there to share life with. :)As far as hobbies go, I love most anything to do with art, though I'm not much of an artist myself. I took pottery classes and really enjoyed it but I'm open to trying other things and look forward to it. I enjoy watching sports more than the average girl, especially hockey. I'm also a State fan, but have plenty of UNC fans in my life so that's not a deal breaker. I maintain a pretty healthy lifestyle (most days) and want to be with someone who does the same. I attend school part time, as well as work full time. Probably a public place such as coffee or something simple. I am not much of an Internet dater and not comfortable meeting someone at their home or mine.

  • Gay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am just starting over hoping to find the new happy me and all the things I was missing...those respectful behaviors...opening doors, please and thank you, love, affection and appreciation...pretty basic stuff and hopefully not to much to ask :-)!I have a 6 year old girl and a 5 year old boy...I have worked for the same company in the HR field for over 18 years...I am very goal oriented, spontaneous and love to have fun. I enjoy all outdoor activies camping, fishing, boating, atv's, snowmobilingAnd sports... I have my motorcycle license...no Harley yet, but on my bucket list! I love traveling whether it be to other countries or to the winery up north for a weekend....I love cuddling up to a good movie or going out for a nice dinner!

  • Freida

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    there is so much BS here so I wont make this long, I am looking for my soul mate and a real relationship where we are best friends and equals . If you want to know more about me just ask! :)I found this quote online and it pretty much sums me up "I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history. Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJ's and I go without makeup. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am." I would like for the guy to come up with something for the first date based on some of our chats. it will show if he has been listening to me and show his creative side . dinner and a movie is fine too, but the more different you can be the better, a picnic in the park is great too! Or just a walk around the mall to see if there is a connection.

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