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Lela, 41

Offline, last seen Mon, 17 Aug 2026 22:18:11

About Me

I am an easy going, smiling, happy person and I don't take things too seriously or like drama! It has been awhile since I have bothered looking into the dating scene, but thought I would see what is out there again. I enjoy lots of outdoor things like hiking, boating, rafting, skiing, traveling, exploring etc.. I am a very social person too and enjoy going out every now and then. I have lived in the Flathead area for 14 years now and love calling this place home. It would be nice to have someone to hang out with and enjoy this amazing place with! Hmmm this is tough! I would love meeting up for coffee or drinks somewhere that we could talk and see if we enjoy each others company. I like it when the person asking me out on a first date has something in mind. If you are asking then you make the plan! Pleasant surprises are nice! I feel like you know after hanging out and talking for a bit if it is something you are interested in and would want to do again. I am really easy going so anything where we can get to know one another a bit is great!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bobbie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    To describe myself is hard to do. I am bubbly, confident, independent, playful, sweet, smart, and just plain like to have fun. Ive been told im weird. Not sure why. I like to make people laugh and say things people dont expect me to say.What makes me unique? Truth be told, nothing. Everyone has their own story and its up to us to decide what is unique. The only way to find out is to get to know someone. There is nothing I can put on my profile that hasn't been said before. I always can find the positive side in every situation,or at least I try. I like to be treated like a lady and I try to act like one most of the time. Im a pretty happy person in general.What I'm looking for? A companion mainly. Someone whom we can enjoy each others company and have time to spend together. It seems simplistic but that's all it really is. When you meet someone,talk,and get to know them,you pretty much know if you want to see them again and get to know them more. *** let's just start there. Good Luck to everyone in finding what your looking for in life. First date/meeting? Make it a fun activity. A coffee or drinks meeting makes it seem to me like I am being interviewed. Not my thing. I say air hockey,mini golf, If you must meet for drinks,at least play a game of pool or darts with me. Then It seems more like were just hanging out (which makes it more relaxing,at least for me) I am not a boring person and Dating is supposed to be fun. Dare to be different

  • Carissa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let me clear this up in the beginning, as it seems it needs to be, based on my past experience with meetville. I am not interested in casual sex. Friendship is first, and for me it does not have to go beyond that. I am not content with a mediocre relationship for the long haul. I do not NEED to date, for the sake of having a date or to feel complete. I have come to realize that many men are intimidated by that. The deal is, I'm 45, not 25. My life experience has made me stronger and wiser. I am independent, in that I have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am goal oriented and work hard to achieve them and I want the same in a mate. I want a partner, not a grown man to raise :) I am interested in meeting others that I can relate to, that have had some real life experience as I have. In an ideal relationship (for me) its about building each other up. Oh and something else, a one or two word message typically gets no response from me. Please be capable of holding a semi intelligent discussion. Last summer I shaved my long curly locks to raise money for charity supporting children's cancer. (And by shaved, I mean BALD) I have been growing it back slowly, with a few trims here and there to shape up. I've enjoyed trying out different styles along the way. I may never grow it as long as it once was, but I'll see how it goes. Since my hair looks a little different every couple of weeks at this point, I do update photos often. If you are a man that cannot see beyond Barbie doll qualities, or have a mind set that "women should have long hair", I'm probably not a good match for you. :) However, I consider myself a very confident and capable woman, but it's nice to know you have someone there to share life with. :)As far as hobbies go, I love most anything to do with art, though I'm not much of an artist myself. I took pottery classes and really enjoyed it but I'm open to trying other things and look forward to it. I enjoy watching sports more than the average girl, especially hockey. I'm also a State fan, but have plenty of UNC fans in my life so that's not a deal breaker. I maintain a pretty healthy lifestyle (most days) and want to be with someone who does the same. I attend school part time, as well as work full time. Probably a public place such as coffee or something simple. I am not much of an Internet dater and not comfortable meeting someone at their home or mine.

  • Gail

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love to laugh and believe that life is what u make of it ...looking for a fresh start in life and trying to keep a positive attitude most of the time ...dont be shy to talk to me I love to talk to people and am always happy to have friends... the things that I ilke have all changed as I am not trying to stay out of the box and try all different things so when you ask what I like that is hard for me to answer because I am trying to do new things and not be stuck anymore,,, life takes us in many directions,,, not scared NOR ashamed of my past ,, it makes me ME Im far from perferct but i try to be the best me,, dont mistake kindness for weakness,,,with all that said here I am not actually a first date thing but a first meet just to talk with no pressure

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