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Deana, 44

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About Me

If you have pics of just your body and no facial pics please don't bother messaging ......that only indicates one thing for me. March 29th updated update...I am probably gonna hurt feelings and have hate messages in my inbox..and that is okay..but I only date African American/black men............please not that or change it.....makes no sense to put one place and live in another.....March 1, ***update: if you put cannot contact if you are over this age or under this age how do you expect to be messaged if you message me? hello... I have had my share but I am a very determined mother of two boys who have more energy then I have ever had, I do believe. (LOL) I have been divorced for over 5 years. I strive to better myself all the time. I work with 2nd graders. My oldest has Aspergers Syndrome/Autism and adhd and youngest has Adhd and aggression. So if you don't think that you could handle this I am sorry. I don't mean to be rude or disrespectful but it is what it is. I do believe that family is the most important thing and also believe that being a mom has been the hardest job i have had but it makes me stronger. I have had my fair share of struggles and disappointments and have made it through...I am still alive. haha...I feel that I am a good woman and loving person to be around. I do know that I am not looking for a booty call or a one night stand or a friend with benefits whatever it is called these days. I am 44 years old and I am looking for a special person to grow with and love for the rest of our days. I know you have to start out with a friendship.....and build from there...with focus on just each other. That is very important. I have the old fashion standards and dating or going out on a date is important also. I do not invite a man to my house on the first time we meet....I am not meeting at walmart in the parking lot...or in a parking lot of anywhere....I think that a first meeting should be...a date...meet at a restaurant...or park...or somewhere where you can sit and talk ...not sitting in a car in a parking lot..sorry .......I like to read books, learn new things, take leaps of faith, and spend time with family. I like to go to the beach, take long walks, and anything that is exciting.. We only live once... we are not guaranteed tomorrow .and I am not getting younger.I love music....I feel music soothes the soul....I listen to most anything...I like R&B, pop, hip hop, lil country, easy listening, if it has rhythm and I can understand the words...its for me. I believe that the first date should be meeting at a public place. It could be a restaurant, walmart (lol), mcdonalds, or anywhere public. I have to feel comfortable. When we meet, that will be the time to talk, and get to know one another...and see if there will be date number 2.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maegan

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-30

    Hi! My name is Maegan. I am never married other indian woman with kids from Thibodaux, Louisiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Nikki

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    A little about me; I’m very easy going and I can be a little shy at first, but it usually doesn’t take me long to open up. I love to laugh and to make people laugh. Apparently I’m hilarious (so my friends say anyways). It’s said that laughter is the best medicine...and aside from the occasional Advil, I believe it. I have some close and awesome friends who will always remain an important part of my life – and I hope you do as well. So, if you do not want a woman who has a bit of a life outside of YOU – shoo!! Don’t get me wrong – a relationship is very important and time spent together is a must. But respecting each other’s space is as well. I enjoy all types of music; however, my ears tend to enjoy rock the most – the classics for sure. I love seeing live bands. I would much rather go to a pub over going to a club (although I do like to dance...even though I’m not very good at it) I like to travel and I would love to do a lot more in the future. I have tattoos ... lovely tasteful ones of course :) So we’ll make a deal.. I won’t judge you if you don’t have any if you don’t judge me for having them. I have cats that aren’t going anywhere – so if you have severe allergies and/or you are mean to animals, you may as well move on. There is a LOT more about me – but why ruin all the surprises?? Just send me a message and ask... Now – if you’ve made it this far, I appreciate it because here is a little about who I’m looking for – and NOT looking for. If you are married and/or have a partner at home, please pass me by! If you are looking only for a fling, hook up, casual friend with benefits, please pass me by! If the first message I receive from you consists of hey princess, baby, sexy; call me tonight; want to meet now, can you send me picture of your feet...etc, don’t worry, I will pass you by. I am looking to find someone to date, get to know and hopefully lead into something long term – so at the end of the day, I am looking for commitment. I don’t have my head in the clouds and I don’t live in a fantasy world... I understand that can take time. But if you know that’s not what you want in your life; let’s not waste each other’s time. I would like someone who is honest, genuine and goodhearted. Be reliable, dependable and know how to laugh – not only at someone falling on their butts, but at yourself too. I like to be challenged and I love to learn new things and experience life outside of my bubble and outside of the box – so if you think you are all that and then some ;) please step up. I’m not a serial dater – and quite honestly, I’ve been on meetville for a few months now and I really don’t like being here. So please be real, have more to say then a daily update on what you had for lunch...and be serious about meeting. I won’t waste your time if you don’t waste mine. Good luck out there!

  • Freida

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    there is so much BS here so I wont make this long, I am looking for my soul mate and a real relationship where we are best friends and equals . If you want to know more about me just ask! :)I found this quote online and it pretty much sums me up "I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history. Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJ's and I go without makeup. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am." I would like for the guy to come up with something for the first date based on some of our chats. it will show if he has been listening to me and show his creative side . dinner and a movie is fine too, but the more different you can be the better, a picnic in the park is great too! Or just a walk around the mall to see if there is a connection.

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