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Deana, 44
United States, Louisiana, Thibodaux

Offline, last seen Tue, 21 Jul 2026 10:18:40

About Me

If you have pics of just your body and no facial pics please don't bother messaging ......that only indicates one thing for me. March 29th updated update...I am probably gonna hurt feelings and have hate messages in my inbox..and that is okay..but I only date African American/black men............please not that or change it.....makes no sense to put one place and live in another.....March 1, ***update: if you put cannot contact if you are over this age or under this age how do you expect to be messaged if you message me? hello... I have had my share but I am a very determined mother of two boys who have more energy then I have ever had, I do believe. (LOL) I have been divorced for over 5 years. I strive to better myself all the time. I work with 2nd graders. My oldest has Aspergers Syndrome/Autism and adhd and youngest has Adhd and aggression. So if you don't think that you could handle this I am sorry. I don't mean to be rude or disrespectful but it is what it is. I do believe that family is the most important thing and also believe that being a mom has been the hardest job i have had but it makes me stronger. I have had my fair share of struggles and disappointments and have made it through...I am still alive. haha...I feel that I am a good woman and loving person to be around. I do know that I am not looking for a booty call or a one night stand or a friend with benefits whatever it is called these days. I am 44 years old and I am looking for a special person to grow with and love for the rest of our days. I know you have to start out with a friendship.....and build from there...with focus on just each other. That is very important. I have the old fashion standards and dating or going out on a date is important also. I do not invite a man to my house on the first time we meet....I am not meeting at walmart in the parking lot...or in a parking lot of anywhere....I think that a first meeting should be...a date...meet at a restaurant...or park...or somewhere where you can sit and talk ...not sitting in a car in a parking lot..sorry .......I like to read books, learn new things, take leaps of faith, and spend time with family. I like to go to the beach, take long walks, and anything that is exciting.. We only live once... we are not guaranteed tomorrow .and I am not getting younger.I love music....I feel music soothes the soul....I listen to most anything...I like R&B, pop, hip hop, lil country, easy listening, if it has rhythm and I can understand the words...its for me. I believe that the first date should be meeting at a public place. It could be a restaurant, walmart (lol), mcdonalds, or anywhere public. I have to feel comfortable. When we meet, that will be the time to talk, and get to know one another...and see if there will be date number 2.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Portuguese Bowling Soccer / Football
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