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Heidi, 34

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About Me

I have three older children, I have been separated for three years. I have no intention of being with my husband, he could be the last man on earth and it would not happen! I am real, I say what I want and always mean what I say. If I say something that hurts at least you know I am honest. I will not support a man, so if you don't have a job, car, own place, and your own money I do not have time for you. I do not believe a man should pay for everything and will argue if he tries. As far as marriage goes, I been married twice and have no intention of making that mistake again. Hence why I did not divorce the last one, cannot marry another idiot if your still married to one. Perhaps someone could change my mind one day, but I doubt it. I do not want anymore children and will not be having any, so if that's what you want I am not for you. I prefer a man with his own children, but no baby mama drama...you will be dismissed quick as hell. Baby mama drama means one thing, she still wants you or you have led her to believe there was a chance. I have no time for games, I am too old for that crap. If you have 100's of chicks calling you I am not interested I despise players, my future ex husband was one. I like all kinds of music, I prefer old school rap and hip hop. I love R&B, I love real music. I confess I listen to new rap too but only cause the beat and the hook is catchy. 2pac is the greatest rapper of all time and the only argument I will entertain is KRS ONE. I focus all my time and energy on my kids. Now that they are older and have their own lives, I guess I need a life too. If you want a loyal, honest, self sufficient, lady and not a ratchet ho I could be what your looking for. I believe God has made a man for me, I just don't know where he is. I love sports so game day is never boring unless your a Cowboy fan. If you **** made don't message me, lol. No woman wants a yes man!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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