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TrudyOffline
Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 27-37
Hello,I'm trying the dating thing out again. We'll see - I'm not big on dating, I'd rather just be comfortable in a relationship, but I take a long time to get to that point. I work full time and also am a full time single mom. I have a degree in forensics and biology, but I haven't really used either. I have a three- I am looking for someone who is intelligent and who knows he's ready to grow up and realize there's more to life than a party and a hook up. I enjoy the intimacy and vulnerability that a relationship brings. I'd like to be married at some point but am in no rush - my goal is to find a man that I can love and trust 100%, but also that my daughter can feel the same way about. I'm not opposed to dating someone who has kids, but I'd prefer one or none - and if he does have any that they be close to my daughter's age, so that we can embark on parenting together. I find it very important to be able to have an adult conversation with someone who uses proper grammer, doesn't talk with his/her mouth full, and understands social faux pas like talking in a normal voice in a movie theater...these are sure fire ways to turn me off. I don't expect relationships to come without problems, but I want to be with someone who knows that they take work and communication, rather than running away from issues. Please don't assume my daughter is a mistake just because I've never been married; I intended on having a child - she's the best thing in my life and I want someone who is ok with being a part of this life with us. I don't need someone to "take care of us"; I work hard and provide for my daughter without welfare, and though it can be tight at times, I want a partner versus a sugar daddy (I.e. even if you cold provide for a full family...I'd probably still insist on having a career of my own). I love all types of music, but you'll most likely find country in my car. Depends on my mood...when I'm studying, it's classical. I enjoy activities that range from mini-golf or a nice walk or bike ride, to going to a movie, getting dinner, or grabbing a drink (the few times that happens anymore). Other times, I'm all about hanging at home watching a movie on HBO and having a glass of wine, all alone. I'm a very rare drinker, but I do enjoy a couple periodically if my daughter's not around.I know what I want, and I'm through with the behavior of trying to change men. If I don't feel enough of a connection or don't see what I want within the first few times of hanging out, I don't plan on dragging things out. I don't like to waste my time. That said, please don't think I'm "too serious" on a dating site - as I've been told before. I love to laugh, and I am incredibly sarcastic. I wish I was a wittier person. I don't take internet dating any more "seriously" as dating someone I met through friends or at a bar...it's just a different medium to use to meet people when you don't have the ability to get out much anymore. If you're rude to me off the bat, I won't just giggle and keep talking to you...I don't care WHERE I meet you. I don't need someone to lie about meeting me online, so people that think they're "stooping" to a level to be on here...please don't message me. Personally, I think online dating is at least a step up from a drunk hook up at the bar.Ha...ok, that's a lot of gettting to know me, so if you're STILL reading, you hopefully are interested. Please message me!! I like laid back but public places, somewhere social is best. Bowling or something is always fun and can keep things moving, but can also be paused for talking. Restaurants and/or bars are OK, but can get awkward if the conversation doesn't take off. Honestly, I love seeing movies on a date, I just don't want that to be the only thing a first date would consist of. At least dinner first or a drink afterwards too :) I won't meet someone for the first time at home (mine or yours), so please don't even ask for that.
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ElinorOffline
Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 23-33
Fun, adventurous, ready for someone 2 keep love lots of fun distraction just go with the flow! Been told I\'m different. Look for and adventurous person who likes to take risks. Our life won’t be boring.
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LynetteOffline
Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 26-36
I am sweet, random, a lover of stories and wild things. I'm easy to talk to but often shy in the beginning. I want to find something that makes me get up every day excited to make living even better.I am fairly goofy and playful once I'm comfortable with you. I am all about diffusing tension. I must have been a court jester in a past life, because the best way I find to do this is to start the random entertainment! I love to laugh at myself, and if other people can as well, even better. Unfortunately, this might lead the non-observant to doubt my intellect....but don't worry, I try not to judge... ;)I'm also occasionally sarcastic. Then people don't notice. If it sounds hostile, it was probably my darker humor venturing out to play. I am fascinated with learning about different cultures. Truly, I would like this to be part of my life work someday.I can be a bit of a thrill seeker but am happy hanging at home doing nothing as well. Skydiving? I'm you're girl. I want to get scuba certified with a passion, but the opportunity has not presented itself, as of yet. I know, "You lived in Australia, and no opportunity?". Circumstances, Darlin', circumstances. I have a deep spiritual faith. I am not religious, simply because I have not found a place of organized worship that lead me to feel inner peace and hope. I am tolerant of all views, and enjoy hearing what you believe. I would love to learn and grow from your new perceptions.However, if you don't have tolerance and compassion to a certain degree, at least, we probably won't enjoy each other. Ultimately, I am looking for someone who will be my best friend for life but with that extra component that makes that person something more. You know? The thrill, the spark, the crazy pull of heart, mind, and hopefully! body...I don't really have 'the list' of physical or fiscal attributes as it's more about the whole than placing value on random components. I am looking for someone who wants to build a life with me, in terms of a more intimate relationship. I do love making new friends, emphasis on the 'friend' here. I am not looking for any sort of casual physical liaison; best of luck and fun to you, if that's what you enjoy, but it's not something I have ever wanted. So, now that you have about 20 sections about "I", tell me about "You". This depends on the individuals meeting. Usually, something relaxed that allows for some conversation seems to work well. Later, crazy adventures can be great, but in the beginning looking for the interpersonal connection and potential.