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Fern, 33

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About Me

I am independent, self-sufficient, confident and adventurous. One of the most exciting things I've ever done was skydiving which I would love to do again. I can also be a huge geek, I LOVE Jeopardy. I'm very laid back and down-to-earth. I love to travel and wish I had more time to do so. I like to ski & snowboard so I try to go home to VT as often as I can in the winter. I have a 120lb lap dog, he's my baby. I'm the girl you see that looks like a bum half the time but who is wearing Prada sunglasses. I get a kick out of the dichotomy of hopping out of my lifted Tundra in party dress and highheels! I love to read and watch movies, I'm a huge fan of 80's action movies. I'm very close to my family, so it gets a little lonely down here in VA all by myself. Although my dog is great company, I would love to have some human companionship! lol I'm looking for an educated, cultured, out-going, all around fun guy to spend time with. Someone whom I can try exciting new things with and have a mellow evening on the couch with a glass of wine and a movie. *If you don't like tattoos then I'm not for you!**And at the risk of sounding stuck up or mean...Please don't message me if you are clingy and can't be alone for 5 minutes, please don't message me if you don't know the difference between there, their and they're and can't use them properly, please don't message me if you aren't healthy and fit and at least somewhat attractive. Also I'm not really looking for someone with children. Thanks!! Dinner, drinks and a walk on the beach...kinda cliche I know :) Any better ideas?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jessie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I think I think in circles, signs, and patterns ;)I am always right on time (or late). I own WAY too many jeans & if possible, hold way too many people in my heart. My favorite color is a lighter shade of pale, & I like RESULTS. If ever there was a Kick Ass Kittenfish, I am her :) I don't own my own home, but I do have my own vehicle and I drive the ever loving crap out of it because I adore being mobile and free. My favorite thing to do in the summer when I am not dragging my kid and people around to local festivals is hit up the beaches and lakes around here.I usually have a goal every summer, once it was to explore every abandoned farm house we could find. Occasionally it leads me to some interesting places. I think being curious is a great quality to have, it helps keep minds open and the world a great amazing place to be. So, while I was born here, I did move around a lot when I was younger, and now I am here to settle UFN. I love this city, and having been able to watch it "grow up". I have a lot of favorite places here! On that note, the message options don't let you include the following so I will tack them on just in case anyone read this far:Open-minded, SANE (some crazy is okay but no misogynists, please!), employed, SINGLE (having your other half's permission or inclusion just doesn't count for me, Sorry), clean-cut, HONEST men...If you want to know more, you know the drill. Leave a message! And no...I won't text after a "hello" but thanks for all your numbers heheheeh sooo much fun I could have !!"To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be."- You play and I will fumble through lyrics the best and loudest I can outside laundromats. When we have enough change we should spend it on coffee for each other. :)

  • Deborah

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I dont have much to say about myself cause i like for people to make their own opinions about me.. Hmu if u intrigued. Im open minded to ideas, but u definetly cant get to kno anyone in movie theater. So thats one idea less.

  • Amelia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I love being out in nature. I am a huge fan of music. My favorite music is rock and alternative rock, although I listen to a little of all kinds. I am fairly intelligent and prefer to date someone capable keeping up with me at the very least. I have recently started working out regularly and it just might be addictive. I am pretty mercurial. There are a few constants. I would describe myself as open, honest, intelligent, passionate, and a lil nerdy. I like sciences (biology, chemistry, physics, etc.) and the arts (art, poetry, music). I am a huge fan of philosophy, theology, and all the what-ifs and hows of life. I am generally shy and a bit nervous at first when I meet someone and have to warm up for my true personality to come out. I try to be a decent person and treat people with consideration and respect. I love having fun, trying new things, and being adventurous. I could never settle down with a couch potato who comes home, watches tv, and goes to bed. I have dated a few of those and I require a bit more excitement in my life. I love the outdoors and practically worship nature. I would live in the middle of the woods somewhere with access to trails, creeks, and caves if I had my wish. I prefer to meet people and make friends and see if there is chemistry and go from there. Not a huge fan of those first dates where people dress up, try to impress each other, and get all nervous and awkward, then try to kiss at the end of the night when there's obviously no chemistry. I'm looking to get to know people and find someone that I have some real chemistry with to date and see where things go from there.

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