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Arden, 49
United States, Kansas, Mission

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Sports, music, comedy/humor, and beer are pretty much the four things I lean on to help me maintain my sanity in this crazy world.I enjoy staying active with all kinds of sports. Tennis and basketball are my favorites but I also like running, golf, biking, hiking, racquetball, paddle tennis, bowling, volleyball, swimming, and I'm sure I'm forgetting some others. If you're not somewhat interested in sports and/or staying fit, it is unlikely we would be a good match.I loooove music. It's food for my soul, and my soul is ravenous! I like straightforward rock, alt- I still love going to concerts and feeling the energy of a band in the groove and the audience going along for the ride.I like writing and am determined to make it a career, most likely comedy writing in some fashion. For now I'm paying the bills at a tech start-up as an Operations Manager - a jack-of-all-trades. IT and office manager, webmaster, marketing/product manager, engineering assistant, bookkeeper, researcher, etc. It's a decent living, but just is not my passion. So I've got to make that right.And although I do love beer, I certainly don't overdo it. Been there, done that, in my younger days. And my body eventually said in emphatic fashion "you are hurting me, bro." And I listened. Because I want to live, hopefully for a long time yet.I'm very open-minded and not judgmental at all. I try to look at every day of life as a gift of sorts, since you never know how long you've got. I've been told I'm quite funny and fun to be with, and even charming at times. It's a gift. I suppose it's because I'm quite comfortable with who I am (flaws and all), which is principally a genuine, honest, considerate, funny, guy-next-door type who can be very spontaneous, adventurous, and a bit off the beaten path.For the record, I'm close to wrapping up an amicable divorce. We've been separated and living far apart for quite some time, so we're certainly done with any emotional ties. Now we're just buttoning up the legal end of it. I'm not in a huge hurry to get back in a relationship but that is my eventual goal. So if I met the right person today, I would be actually thrilled to hang up my dating cleats and retire. Because as much as I love women (and goodness gracious sakes alive, I do!), I frankly just don't really enjoy the dating merry-go-round. And I'm just a MUCH better person in a relationship, where there's a deeper understanding, love, and commitment. That's where I feel like I'm at my best. I like first dates to be real casual and fun - ideally an outdoor activity like tennis, golf, biking, hiking, or just walking on a trail by the Bay. Meeting for a casual coffee, breakfast, or food is always good -- perhaps followed by a walk or a movie if things are going well. I'm open-minded and adventurous so any new or off-the-wall activities are fine by me too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Reggae Greek Italian Korean Turkish Vietnamese Motorcycle Racing
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