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About Me

Figured it's time for an update...When we talk you'll know. Not great at describing myself. Wild child sometimes. Responsible most times. Love to get out and ride my Harley and love to have my girl on the back, so if you don't like to ride, you've been warned. I love the water and enjoy as many weekends on the lake as possible. Can you bait your own hook? If not I'll show you but you gotta be willing to try.Having been in the Army for a very long time I am pretty black and white and don't put up with stupid. I have little time for negativity and will always focus on the positive in every situation.I have my tastes and you have yours. I am looking for the woman that is perfect for me. I will know when our eyes meet face to face. I don't want a girly girl who is afraid to break a nail or takes two hours to put on so much makeup that she looks like a clown. I do want a sexy, confident, successful woman. Success is measured in so many ways so don't think I mean money. Sexy is defined in alot of ways too. Confident is all about attitude. I want an equal partnership. Both of us will give 100%. It's really all about the 100%. If you think it's ***then we won't work.I own and operate a boarding kennel for dogs that I built on my property. I also teach firearms ownership. I am retired from the Army Infantry after 22 years. I have lots of plans for a solar *** and a "prepping" warehouse.I am very flexible with my time and love to take a weekend away when I can. I travel sometimes to look for supplies from other than normal sources.I have my own home, bike, boat and truck. I don't need yours. I open doors for women, I say please and thank you and like to hold hands and touch.If they is a violent bone in your body stay the *** away from me. If your opening photo is a shot of cleavage taken over your head..... welllllll not interested. You have to meet me. Period. I don't chat much online, I'll text a little and am terrible on the phone. But Ahhhh the but, I am into face to face conversation and eye contact. The third date is much more important, by then I might shave and put on some shoes. First impressions mean very little to me because it takes time to get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Salsa British French Japanese Thai Volleyball
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