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Jeffery, 44

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About Me

I'm rather tired of the dating scene so I am just looking for someone who wants to enjoy each others companies. Let other things come later. I will admit I tend to like guys younger than me but I am open for any discusson. I think love can be found where you least expect it and often where you don't think of looking for it. I love the outdoors, the arts (particularly theatre), swimming, traveling, big cities, the ocean, watching football, soccer and hockey (not necessarily in that order.)Many other things and am always willing to try new things.I'm looking for someone to date and possibly have more develop. I will admit I keep pretty busy due to my type of work not always being nine to five so it gives me a great understanding of not being "needy" or having to "be next to the person" ***. My unltimate hope professionally is to run my own theatre or arts education facility. I have a great love for education and passing it on to others.I'm not always like other people you will meet. I tend to say what is on my mind (not to hurt) but if I think it, it often comes out. I'm very focused on what I want but can I have fun. And I make a mean batch of "rummy bears". Ask any gathering. I'm funny and I really don't take life to serious. Professionally I'm serious but when it comes to hanging out with people I like to joke, don't have a desire to be the center of attention which is funny since I perform and direct productions. I like to sit back more and observe people. I think the best thing ever said about me by someone is "you don't think outside the box, you live outside it".Basically I believe if you love life and treat everyone with the respect they deserve you have a better chance of finding happiness or at least making some great friends. How about dinner or lunch. Not a fan of movies for first date since we shouldn't be talking during the movie. Dinner gives us a chance to chat, find out similar interests, maybe laugh about things a little. Then after dinner do something active/interactive (no not that!), a walk on the beach, an amusement park, or a sporting event. Something or place where we can get to know each other but it is relaxing and getting to know each other isn't just the main focus. Lets hang and more will develop.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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