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Julia, 44

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About Me

Love looking at life through the opposite end of the lens -- friends describe me as optimistic, funny (must keep humor in life and I love to laugh), with a bit of quirkiness tossed in, and spontaneous...love a good adventure. I'm a creative thinker with an independent, determined spirit. I'm easy going with a fab gift of gab - I will happily strike up conversation in any social setting and I have some pretty awesome stories, if I do say so myself.Indulgences: creme brulee, sushi (I'm a foodie!), wine, a smooth martini, bacon (because bacon makes everything better), live music, deep tissue massages, and mid-day naps (a rare treat!).I absolutely love to travel, and despite three major airplane "hiccups," I still like to fly but prefer the emergency exit row (and yes, the emergency exit door is very easy to open and toss out). If I *had*- it's a slice of heaven (along with gelato and limoncello).’s Blue Grotto (incredible!), and trek to the 2nd highest peak in the Alps (where I also skied for the first time in my life - uh, *not* the best decision, but I did eventually come to a complete stop at the bottom, so I must look at the bright side, LOL!).I'm a lucky mother to a beautiful, inquisitive 9 yo girl. I'm determined to show her how to love life and live it fully, not merely coast through it. For the last 7 years, I have owned my own small business, to which I refer as my "bubble." With life's "little" changes, it's time to pop the bubble and begin anew...and I gotta admit, I'm excited for this next phase of life. Hoping I will find that certain special someone who shares the same outlooks in life, family values, and humor.And for kicks, added bits of randomness:- Quick intelligent wit and conversation are huge attractions.- Proper grammar is key. Typos drive me mad. A person is a "who" not a "that"...if this doesn't make sense, then we're not a good match.- I don't camp (love the outdoors, just don't need to sleep in it).--and- I have a darn good story as to why I do not!). Maybe it’s time to try snowboarding?Cheers!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Latonya

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    (Pics - My hair switches btw blonde and brown)I will try keep this short and sweet... I am 41, I have a 21yr old son, great job, great friends... Can be active or lazy (depending on the day - nothing like a good movie on the couch on a rainy day!).. Love a great glass of wine with a delicious steak or a beer & nachos! Hard to really define "who I am" - I like to keep things different when I can.. I do not like too much redundancy.. And refuse to settle - I want to have fun with the person I am with. I think at this age, we know what we want from someone so why not get it? Overall, have done pretty good for myself - but as stated in my headline, change is constant - well, except for one thing which is me being single.. So, time to change that now at this stage in my life :) I am looking for someone FUNNY with a great sense of humor!!.. I truly think someone is most attractive based on their personality.. I don't like narcissistic people with ***naked selfy photos! Altho amusing - not my thing! I am not looking just to hook up so don't think you will get laid after a few****ails! BUT, I am certainly open to having fun dating with no pressure on a commitment too soon.. I think that type of stuff will just happen with out setting any expectations.. OK.. Not too short but, that will sum it up for now.. A lot more to know about me so if you are interested in what I have said so far, I look forward to hearing from you! Meet for a drink or two.. If we have a connection, then who knows what will happen from there..

  • Kristi

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So if I told you I was sexy as hell would it make a difference? If I said I do what I say and say what I do, would you believe it? If I was honest enough to tell you I am a small BBW would you want to see how truthful I am being?Many guys are saying " Hey where are all the good women?" Or hey why is it so hard to find someone who is real or honest or does what they say they will.Maybe, just maybe......... it is because so many are seeking someone who can first fulfil your "fantasies" *** someone real that you can DO things with. Sex isn't wrong and it's fun as hell! but it also isn't the "meat and potatos" of life either. Eventually our bodies will begin to fail, and if you can't talk to your mate, or they are not your best friend, then really.. what do you have left? And how much time can you really spend in bed? The majority of our life is not spent there. Just saying.... I find pleasure in some of the small things in life. Swimming in the River beside a camp ground. Walking hand and hand by the ocean feeling the cool sand between our toes as we watch a lovely sunset. Laying in the sun and taking turns rubbing warm oils into eachothers skin. Slow dancing to sensual music at an outdoor festival. Curling up infront of a wam fire and chatting while enjoying our favorite beverage. Sharing the "pains of the day" and help eachother decompress. Sharing an awesome rollar coaster ride and laughing as we come off from it breathless...only to see the silly pictures they *** we started down the steep drop. LOL Feeding eachother morsels off from our plates when we are out to dinner and we have an excellent meal we want the other to taste....... Simple things...memorable things.... After all, that is what this life is all about, making memories to carry with us. So I can honestly say ALL of that is truthful and open and honest. Right down to being a very small bbw. Still reading? As you can see I am VERY VERY direct. I write as if I am sitting accross from you having coffee or a drink. ( So if a direct mannor is going to constantly be mistaken for mean, angry, or ****y? This could be problematic. I am none of those, I am simply DIRECT.) Side NOTE: If you are married or have a girl friend, pass me by. I don't like to hurt others, I am not into causing problems, and I don't need drama in my life. Although some of it eventually finds us all, I try to avoid drama if I can help it. I am looking for harmony, peace, delightful adventure, fun and games (that pleasure both people), new experiences, and quality in all things over quantity.I am mainly seeking friendship. I believe you can't have anything if you don't have the friendship first.I tend to like men who are younger then I am. However it depends on the man. I don't really have a certain TYPE of man.Life is too short not to LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH and PLAY! Want to come and play wiff me??Or a bowl of popcorn at home watching Sci Fi or Animal Planet or the latest action, horror, or scifi movie!Light hikingGo to the drive in (and actually WATCH the movie)maybe camping (I haven't done a LOT of this)zip lining!NEW Places and culturesAir HockeyAnd I LOVE to travel!I am up to try most anything. Twice if I liked it!Life is all about experiences and creating memories. It isn't a dress rehersal, "so Let's get it started!"Me: affection, respect, and yeah I do dare to say it "honesty"! Lot's of WARMTH and FUN! (and oh so VERY direct)Looking for the same in another. (If you can dance and or give a real massage (or truly want to learn) please at least drop me a note. I am employed full time, and would welcome platonic friends who just want to hang out sometimes.I want to TAKE IT SLOW. THIS means NOT jumping into ANYTHING. If you are seeking something VERY short term ..as in all you want is to *** *** Please just keep rolling on by. I am not looking for anything short term unless we don't get along... then it can be VERY short and I am good with that! :) (soft smile) I wish you the best in your search regardless of whether or not you decide to write to me. I DO try to return e-mails promptly although at times I am not online much. Something that would be comfortable for both people but allow us to interact and enjoy ourselves. A game of pool and a drink? Lunch or simply a cup of coffee. A long walk if it is warm enough. Sit on the Waterfront in a swing and chat? So many possibilities.

  • Lena

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    The simplest way to describe myself is to say I am a little of everything wrapped into one. My versatility allows me to shine in most situations. I love being adventurous, and thrive on new and novel experiences. I am independent, passionate, caring, open, directed and innovative. I tend to seek the road less traveled and play outside the boundaries of the typical.I love traveling, the arts, exercising, the outdoors, intellectual banter,****ails and fine wine, phenomenal food, and the company of those that I respect. I love my friends and family! We have fun, sometimes too much. But best of all we love to laugh and enjoy our time together.Like many women, I enjoy a true gentleman...the chivalrous type who opens your door and pulls out the chair...but nothing is more attractive to me than a smart, sexy, articulate, confident man with an edge who is brave enough to always choose honesty and integrity.I enjoy being in the company of those who exudes genuine warmth. People with depth. Anyone who can enjoy the good life and still be a good person. Nature lovers. Animal lovers. And those who can teach me something new. I love being around people who create the opportunities they seek. I am looking for someone who doesnt always believe in playing it safe by todays standards, *** on the excitement of calculated risk managed by logic and reason. Someone who tends towards optimism tempered with a healthy dose of realism.I admire and respect people who are strong enough to be honest (because it sucks sometimes). I am deeply attracted to a man who possesses a high level of personal integrity and strong character. And a man who doesnt spend all his free time trying to get laid. See, I've found an emotional connection should probably precede physical intimacy for the best results in both areas. Don't you agree?I’m a real sweet girl with a big heart. I have always been an overly giving person without the expectation of anything in return. I see the good in people. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance, yet I am not naive or easily influenced. I was raised with great morals and treat everyone as I would want to be treated. I am by no means *** anyone for their religion, race or gender preference. I believe we all contribute a distinct piece of something that makes the world what it is today.I am a classy girl, however, I still like to have fun with whatever is thrown at me. I think that I can pretty much adapt to any social setting and find myself to be very diverse and cultured. I am an equal mix of a tom boy and vixen! As far as my perfect match, well I don't think there is such thing. I do know that when I meet someone that I feel comfortable with that anything is possible! I tend to be a realist when it comes to dating. I see it as 2 people, being in the right place at the right time, and wanting the same things as you. I think people spend too much time trying to change someone or something rather than taking it slow to see if it’s right in the first place! It seems that many people are together for the wrong reasons, and what they don’t realize is that love alone does NOT make a relationship work. Being a family girl—my family is #1 in my life. I also find it appealing and alluring to be with someone who is the same. I see myself with someone who is whole heartedly a good person. I want him to be mature and experienced in a sense that he knows who he is and will stand up for what he believes; someone who will be my supporter, my best friend, and my lover. I want him to ‘get me’ and understand my quirks. I see myself learning from him because I’m always eager to be taught new things. I want to learn from him and gain knowledge on things that excites HIM rather than being the girlfriend who could care less about his interests.Ask yourself. Can I give more? Mans choice... make a decision, let me know and I'll be there!

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