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Love looking at life through the opposite end of the lens -- friends describe me as optimistic, funny (must keep humor in life and I love to laugh), with a bit of quirkiness tossed in, and spontaneous...love a good adventure. I'm a creative thinker with an independent, determined spirit. I'm easy going with a fab gift of gab - I will happily strike up conversation in any social setting and I have some pretty awesome stories, if I do say so myself.Indulgences: creme brulee, sushi (I'm a foodie!), wine, a smooth martini, bacon (because bacon makes everything better), live music, deep tissue massages, and mid-day naps (a rare treat!).I absolutely love to travel, and despite three major airplane "hiccups," I still like to fly but prefer the emergency exit row (and yes, the emergency exit door is very easy to open and toss out). If I *had*- it's a slice of heaven (along with gelato and limoncello).’s Blue Grotto (incredible!), and trek to the 2nd highest peak in the Alps (where I also skied for the first time in my life - uh, *not* the best decision, but I did eventually come to a complete stop at the bottom, so I must look at the bright side, LOL!).I'm a lucky mother to a beautiful, inquisitive 9 yo girl. I'm determined to show her how to love life and live it fully, not merely coast through it. For the last 7 years, I have owned my own small business, to which I refer as my "bubble." With life's "little" changes, it's time to pop the bubble and begin anew...and I gotta admit, I'm excited for this next phase of life. Hoping I will find that certain special someone who shares the same outlooks in life, family values, and humor.And for kicks, added bits of randomness:- Quick intelligent wit and conversation are huge attractions.- Proper grammar is key. Typos drive me mad. A person is a "who" not a "that"...if this doesn't make sense, then we're not a good match.- I don't camp (love the outdoors, just don't need to sleep in it).--and- I have a darn good story as to why I do not!). Maybe it’s time to try snowboarding?Cheers!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-38

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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