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Julia, 44

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About Me

Love looking at life through the opposite end of the lens -- friends describe me as optimistic, funny (must keep humor in life and I love to laugh), with a bit of quirkiness tossed in, and spontaneous...love a good adventure. I'm a creative thinker with an independent, determined spirit. I'm easy going with a fab gift of gab - I will happily strike up conversation in any social setting and I have some pretty awesome stories, if I do say so myself.Indulgences: creme brulee, sushi (I'm a foodie!), wine, a smooth martini, bacon (because bacon makes everything better), live music, deep tissue massages, and mid-day naps (a rare treat!).I absolutely love to travel, and despite three major airplane "hiccups," I still like to fly but prefer the emergency exit row (and yes, the emergency exit door is very easy to open and toss out). If I *had*- it's a slice of heaven (along with gelato and limoncello).’s Blue Grotto (incredible!), and trek to the 2nd highest peak in the Alps (where I also skied for the first time in my life - uh, *not* the best decision, but I did eventually come to a complete stop at the bottom, so I must look at the bright side, LOL!).I'm a lucky mother to a beautiful, inquisitive 9 yo girl. I'm determined to show her how to love life and live it fully, not merely coast through it. For the last 7 years, I have owned my own small business, to which I refer as my "bubble." With life's "little" changes, it's time to pop the bubble and begin anew...and I gotta admit, I'm excited for this next phase of life. Hoping I will find that certain special someone who shares the same outlooks in life, family values, and humor.And for kicks, added bits of randomness:- Quick intelligent wit and conversation are huge attractions.- Proper grammar is key. Typos drive me mad. A person is a "who" not a "that"...if this doesn't make sense, then we're not a good match.- I don't camp (love the outdoors, just don't need to sleep in it).--and- I have a darn good story as to why I do not!). Maybe it’s time to try snowboarding?Cheers!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Minerva

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Not sure where to begin. I guess I can start with I had a ten year marriage. Been divorced now for about 3 yrs. Have had a few relationships in that time. One stands out the most for me because it was off and on for awhile. So you could say Im a forgiving person. There comes a time when you realize you are nolonger yourself. I would like to be with someone who can describe me to someone who has known me my whole life. If your in love with me. You should know who I am with you or away from you and you should trust me. If there is no trust there is no relationship. I have a very bad habit of meeting men that need some sort of fixing. Financially or need a place to live. Or they are very insecure with themselves. I enjoy outdoor activities when the man im with walks with me with pride. Not punish you for being beautiful. Im very protective of my children. I have a 21yr old son and 14 and 7 yr old daughters. I have a full time job that I love. I plan on owning my own home this coming March :) Dinner and alot of talking. Will want a great connection . If not no second date.Just an added note IM NOT ON meetville LOOKING TO GET LAID. I WANT A RELATIONSHIP. GEEEZZZ DUDES. DO I LOOK LIKE I NEED TO BE ON HERE JUST FOR SEX.. NO! OCT 12TH ***

  • Kristi

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So if I told you I was sexy as hell would it make a difference? If I said I do what I say and say what I do, would you believe it? If I was honest enough to tell you I am a small BBW would you want to see how truthful I am being?Many guys are saying " Hey where are all the good women?" Or hey why is it so hard to find someone who is real or honest or does what they say they will.Maybe, just maybe......... it is because so many are seeking someone who can first fulfil your "fantasies" *** someone real that you can DO things with. Sex isn't wrong and it's fun as hell! but it also isn't the "meat and potatos" of life either. Eventually our bodies will begin to fail, and if you can't talk to your mate, or they are not your best friend, then really.. what do you have left? And how much time can you really spend in bed? The majority of our life is not spent there. Just saying.... I find pleasure in some of the small things in life. Swimming in the River beside a camp ground. Walking hand and hand by the ocean feeling the cool sand between our toes as we watch a lovely sunset. Laying in the sun and taking turns rubbing warm oils into eachothers skin. Slow dancing to sensual music at an outdoor festival. Curling up infront of a wam fire and chatting while enjoying our favorite beverage. Sharing the "pains of the day" and help eachother decompress. Sharing an awesome rollar coaster ride and laughing as we come off from it breathless...only to see the silly pictures they *** we started down the steep drop. LOL Feeding eachother morsels off from our plates when we are out to dinner and we have an excellent meal we want the other to taste....... Simple things...memorable things.... After all, that is what this life is all about, making memories to carry with us. So I can honestly say ALL of that is truthful and open and honest. Right down to being a very small bbw. Still reading? As you can see I am VERY VERY direct. I write as if I am sitting accross from you having coffee or a drink. ( So if a direct mannor is going to constantly be mistaken for mean, angry, or ****y? This could be problematic. I am none of those, I am simply DIRECT.) Side NOTE: If you are married or have a girl friend, pass me by. I don't like to hurt others, I am not into causing problems, and I don't need drama in my life. Although some of it eventually finds us all, I try to avoid drama if I can help it. I am looking for harmony, peace, delightful adventure, fun and games (that pleasure both people), new experiences, and quality in all things over quantity.I am mainly seeking friendship. I believe you can't have anything if you don't have the friendship first.I tend to like men who are younger then I am. However it depends on the man. I don't really have a certain TYPE of man.Life is too short not to LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH and PLAY! Want to come and play wiff me??Or a bowl of popcorn at home watching Sci Fi or Animal Planet or the latest action, horror, or scifi movie!Light hikingGo to the drive in (and actually WATCH the movie)maybe camping (I haven't done a LOT of this)zip lining!NEW Places and culturesAir HockeyAnd I LOVE to travel!I am up to try most anything. Twice if I liked it!Life is all about experiences and creating memories. It isn't a dress rehersal, "so Let's get it started!"Me: affection, respect, and yeah I do dare to say it "honesty"! Lot's of WARMTH and FUN! (and oh so VERY direct)Looking for the same in another. (If you can dance and or give a real massage (or truly want to learn) please at least drop me a note. I am employed full time, and would welcome platonic friends who just want to hang out sometimes.I want to TAKE IT SLOW. THIS means NOT jumping into ANYTHING. If you are seeking something VERY short term ..as in all you want is to *** *** Please just keep rolling on by. I am not looking for anything short term unless we don't get along... then it can be VERY short and I am good with that! :) (soft smile) I wish you the best in your search regardless of whether or not you decide to write to me. I DO try to return e-mails promptly although at times I am not online much. Something that would be comfortable for both people but allow us to interact and enjoy ourselves. A game of pool and a drink? Lunch or simply a cup of coffee. A long walk if it is warm enough. Sit on the Waterfront in a swing and chat? So many possibilities.

  • Alicia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a 44 mother of 3 wonderful kids...the oldest is 24 and is married the younger two are 13 and 9. If your not interested in a woman who is involved in their kids lives, keep on looking because they are my world. I'm looking to meet someone to enjoy life with...someone who wants to get out and do things together and as a family, someone who has family values. Not looking for a "quick fix" as I could get that anywhere I wanted but honestly guys.....there is WAY MUCH MORE to life than that. I have a huge heart and very passionate with the right person. I want the WHOLE package....As far as my "TYPE", I don't really have one BUT again, let's be honest, there has to be some attraction there and if there isn't a spark of any interest, nothing is gonna happen.If your not ready for a relationship, just be honest with people.....we are all adults and everyone is looking for something different but don't lead people on if your not looking for that.With all that being said, I'm very fun to be around and usually always have a smile on my face....life is too short not to enjoy but it would just be so much better to have a companion to enjoy it with.Good luck to you all in your fishing....I may check out your profile and be interested but may not shoot the first e-mail.....just like men hating rejection...I do to0 :D Wish you all the best!!!! ANYTHING FUN!!!!

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