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Lena, 41

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About Me

The simplest way to describe myself is to say I am a little of everything wrapped into one. My versatility allows me to shine in most situations. I love being adventurous, and thrive on new and novel experiences. I am independent, passionate, caring, open, directed and innovative. I tend to seek the road less traveled and play outside the boundaries of the typical.I love traveling, the arts, exercising, the outdoors, intellectual banter,****ails and fine wine, phenomenal food, and the company of those that I respect. I love my friends and family! We have fun, sometimes too much. But best of all we love to laugh and enjoy our time together.Like many women, I enjoy a true gentleman...the chivalrous type who opens your door and pulls out the chair...but nothing is more attractive to me than a smart, sexy, articulate, confident man with an edge who is brave enough to always choose honesty and integrity.I enjoy being in the company of those who exudes genuine warmth. People with depth. Anyone who can enjoy the good life and still be a good person. Nature lovers. Animal lovers. And those who can teach me something new. I love being around people who create the opportunities they seek. I am looking for someone who doesnt always believe in playing it safe by todays standards, *** on the excitement of calculated risk managed by logic and reason. Someone who tends towards optimism tempered with a healthy dose of realism.I admire and respect people who are strong enough to be honest (because it sucks sometimes). I am deeply attracted to a man who possesses a high level of personal integrity and strong character. And a man who doesnt spend all his free time trying to get laid. See, I've found an emotional connection should probably precede physical intimacy for the best results in both areas. Don't you agree?I’m a real sweet girl with a big heart. I have always been an overly giving person without the expectation of anything in return. I see the good in people. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance, yet I am not naive or easily influenced. I was raised with great morals and treat everyone as I would want to be treated. I am by no means *** anyone for their religion, race or gender preference. I believe we all contribute a distinct piece of something that makes the world what it is today.I am a classy girl, however, I still like to have fun with whatever is thrown at me. I think that I can pretty much adapt to any social setting and find myself to be very diverse and cultured. I am an equal mix of a tom boy and vixen! As far as my perfect match, well I don't think there is such thing. I do know that when I meet someone that I feel comfortable with that anything is possible! I tend to be a realist when it comes to dating. I see it as 2 people, being in the right place at the right time, and wanting the same things as you. I think people spend too much time trying to change someone or something rather than taking it slow to see if it’s right in the first place! It seems that many people are together for the wrong reasons, and what they don’t realize is that love alone does NOT make a relationship work. Being a family girl—my family is #1 in my life. I also find it appealing and alluring to be with someone who is the same. I see myself with someone who is whole heartedly a good person. I want him to be mature and experienced in a sense that he knows who he is and will stand up for what he believes; someone who will be my supporter, my best friend, and my lover. I want him to ‘get me’ and understand my quirks. I see myself learning from him because I’m always eager to be taught new things. I want to learn from him and gain knowledge on things that excites HIM rather than being the girlfriend who could care less about his interests.Ask yourself. Can I give more? Mans choice... make a decision, let me know and I'll be there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bonnie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a single professional looking for my soul mate. I am a very social person, and value my personal time, fun, time, as well as my career, but I am looking for someone to share life with. I have a lot to offer and a huge heart, and it's time to give it to someone worthy. I am selective, and I refuse to settle for anything but what is best for me.I am looking for a man that knows what he wants in life and then knows how to get it. coffee, a drink, and good conversation

  • Leann

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love to go on drives in the country, and maybe a stop at a winery. Spending time together is important to me, so therefore I am looking for someone fairly local. I have a job that was truly fit for me. My students make me laugh everyday, and I enjoy each of them. I am looking for the same in a guy.......we all like to laugh, right? I am happy, respectful, and I dont hold grudges. I live for now, and I let the past be the past. I cook, clean, and I am very organized. My ex n I get along just fine. I have have a sarcastic sense of humor........and I am looking for someone who can laugh at it!! If you are local, no tats, and don't smoke lets talk!! Tell me a joke, make me laugh, I am ready for happiness. I can come up with so many ideas!!! Come up with something unique, surprise me. I don't think dinner and a movie are a good 1st date option.......I am a talker!!!

  • Leila

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a very loving caring honest affectionate compassionate woman, that deserves to be treated with respect. And that’s pretty much all I ask for! I love to smile even if I’m having a bad day…it’s just habit! I believe “what comes around goes around”…so I wouldn’t do something that I would want to kick me in the a** later per say! I get along with everyone and I am a pleaser. Staying positive keeps me going on a straight path. I can be serious when needed and silly when the time is right.. I like all types of music except for that rap stuff! . I am looking for someone to share my free time with and yes I do have free time like most and I am looking for the “right one” to share it with! I will not settle…. I know what I want and what I’m looking for. For me its not all about the looks ...you could be King Hunk and be heartless...but I do of course need to have a physical attraction. After that its what is inside that I search for…..one who can communicate on an adult level…but can be silly too…one who will show his affection... sincere with their thoughts and feelings. If I don’t respond to your ***’t be offended…you are just not my type. I am particular in who I speak with. I do not play games in a relationship…when I make a decision I stick with it! So if interested send me an ***…and PLEASE write more than "hi".....if not good luck!Bob Marley says: “He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will NEVER be perfect. But if he can make you LAUGH at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s NOT thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don't hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. SMILE when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. LOVE hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.*” . Meet for a drink and see what happens...the sky is the limit

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