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Melba, 45

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About Me

Hello. Looking for someone to enjoy and share life with. I want to be happy, feel loved in a relationship and reciprocate the same. Looking to start out as friends and see where things lead. I'm on this site because I am ready to be in a relationship with that right person if we hit it off. You, should be open to the possiblity that a connection may lead to romance. When I put on my profile that I am "few extra pounds" it's because I am. I am a curvy, or thick, or whatever they call it these days body type. I feel I wear it well as reflected in my pics. If this is not your type, thats cool. I'm comfortable with who I am. Moving on...To keep things realistic, I would like to meet people close enough to my area that if we hit it off there wouldn't be spontaneity issues to meet anytime, anyday. I'm not interested in a mainly texting/IM'ing/emailing, see you twice a month scenario. If you are not familiar with my area or have to cross several counties to get to me...well, HELLO...that's what I mean. Within half an hour is ideal. I have had a rewarding career as a corporate travel consultant for the last eighteen years. My favorite type of vacation is going on a cruise or staying at an all-inclusive beach resort somewhere in the Caribbean. I have two wonderful children who are my world....my family is important. I am independent, work hard, have a good sense of humor and personality. I am loving, enjoy laughing, being romantic, non-dramatic, love to cook, love to travel. Enjoy a great kiss & good conversation. I love to be happy and smile. Looking for someone real and who can bring positive qualities to the table.I enjoy going out every once in awhile but have no problem kicking back at home. I would like to go forward with someone with similar goals and interests. Is that you? If you want to learn more about me contact me and let's see what happens. :) Let's meet for a drink, chat and have fun....no pressure or "job interview" scenerios. Let's just see if we are compatible and have chemistry. If we don't, no hard feelings. I've been turned down too. If we do...a real first date perhaps? :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Katharine

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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  • Lena

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    The simplest way to describe myself is to say I am a little of everything wrapped into one. My versatility allows me to shine in most situations. I love being adventurous, and thrive on new and novel experiences. I am independent, passionate, caring, open, directed and innovative. I tend to seek the road less traveled and play outside the boundaries of the typical.I love traveling, the arts, exercising, the outdoors, intellectual banter,****ails and fine wine, phenomenal food, and the company of those that I respect. I love my friends and family! We have fun, sometimes too much. But best of all we love to laugh and enjoy our time together.Like many women, I enjoy a true gentleman...the chivalrous type who opens your door and pulls out the chair...but nothing is more attractive to me than a smart, sexy, articulate, confident man with an edge who is brave enough to always choose honesty and integrity.I enjoy being in the company of those who exudes genuine warmth. People with depth. Anyone who can enjoy the good life and still be a good person. Nature lovers. Animal lovers. And those who can teach me something new. I love being around people who create the opportunities they seek. I am looking for someone who doesnt always believe in playing it safe by todays standards, *** on the excitement of calculated risk managed by logic and reason. Someone who tends towards optimism tempered with a healthy dose of realism.I admire and respect people who are strong enough to be honest (because it sucks sometimes). I am deeply attracted to a man who possesses a high level of personal integrity and strong character. And a man who doesnt spend all his free time trying to get laid. See, I've found an emotional connection should probably precede physical intimacy for the best results in both areas. Don't you agree?I’m a real sweet girl with a big heart. I have always been an overly giving person without the expectation of anything in return. I see the good in people. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance, yet I am not naive or easily influenced. I was raised with great morals and treat everyone as I would want to be treated. I am by no means *** anyone for their religion, race or gender preference. I believe we all contribute a distinct piece of something that makes the world what it is today.I am a classy girl, however, I still like to have fun with whatever is thrown at me. I think that I can pretty much adapt to any social setting and find myself to be very diverse and cultured. I am an equal mix of a tom boy and vixen! As far as my perfect match, well I don't think there is such thing. I do know that when I meet someone that I feel comfortable with that anything is possible! I tend to be a realist when it comes to dating. I see it as 2 people, being in the right place at the right time, and wanting the same things as you. I think people spend too much time trying to change someone or something rather than taking it slow to see if it’s right in the first place! It seems that many people are together for the wrong reasons, and what they don’t realize is that love alone does NOT make a relationship work. Being a family girl—my family is #1 in my life. I also find it appealing and alluring to be with someone who is the same. I see myself with someone who is whole heartedly a good person. I want him to be mature and experienced in a sense that he knows who he is and will stand up for what he believes; someone who will be my supporter, my best friend, and my lover. I want him to ‘get me’ and understand my quirks. I see myself learning from him because I’m always eager to be taught new things. I want to learn from him and gain knowledge on things that excites HIM rather than being the girlfriend who could care less about his interests.Ask yourself. Can I give more? Mans choice... make a decision, let me know and I'll be there!

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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