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Bessie, 54

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About Me

Greetings and Salutations !!Where to start ? Well.....I'm a healthy, happy, responsible, fun loving, adventurous girl in a big, big, world...looking for a man that has the same description of himself. I'm active, I eat healthy, love to meet people, and stay busy. I have a really long, fun Bucket List, and I intend on crossing things off, one by one. If you like to travel we are going to get along just fine !!I spend alot of time with my family and friends, that's very important to me. I'm very easy going, go-with-the-flow kind of girl. I can chill and watch a movie, or dance the night away....I have wonderful children that are adults now, and I'm a grandmother of a beautiful little princess. I have learned as I have gotten older that time passes very quickly, and you don't really get do-overs, so... treat other's with kindness and patience, slow down, pick the flowers, and enjoy the coffee.... My first date would be something very casual and easy. Coffee dates are pretty good. It's a short, get the first impression kind of thing. You are not committed to doing anything, other than chatting and getting a feel for the other person. And who doesn't like coffee, or tea, or whatever else is usually on the menu...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello! I am employed and I enjoy my job..., most of the time. I try to keep things pretty simple with a positive attitude on life..., and always try to live by the Golden Rule. I am Spiritual and belong to a fellowship. In the summer you would find me on the beach with my girlfriends...in the winter I am happiest with snow on the ground...or looking for it in the mountains. I prefer being outdoors. Traveling is part of me, German Father and Guyanese Mother saw to that...now I would like to try for more of Europe, maybe Thailand. I have a cousin living there for the next few years. Life for me is simple and I avoid drama at all cost. I never had children but have been blessed to have had and have many of them as a constant in my life ... I'm not sure how it happened...but my life has been full because of them! I believe that I am perfectly imperfect and my friends tell me that I am a Good Listener, Respectful, Trustworthy, Understanding, Funny, Curious and Infectiously Happy. I believe a healthy relationship is being able to show your feelings, all of them..and..I believe in the three C's, Conversation, Compassion and Compromise. I'm adventurous and still a bit of a thrill seeker, I like to drive fast ;). Although, I am at the time of my life where it just takes takes a bit longer to recover. My search is about a desire, not a need. What is most important to me is about sharing our hopes and dreams together..., being supportive to each other & cherish our lives where we can achieve our goals with endless possibilities. A partner that can give freely of themselves, and appreciates the same in return. I believe we should be both students and teachers so we both can learn from each other and other's in our lives. I am looking for someone who is realistic and down to earth and wants to live a wonderful life. It's not about what you have or don't have, it's what is in your heart and how you treat others that will show who you really are. And yes, let's be honest, chemistry is important to everyone and we all have our taste..., prefer athletic average or a little husky types. I know what I appreciate and also know what I don't want. Life is to short for Games, and it just becomes to disheartening. It's not what we get out of the relationship that counts... it is what we bring into it that gives it life. I know we are not all perfect, we are human and desire that Special Someone. FAITH, HOPE and LOVE..., But The Greatest Of These Is LOVE. As for likes and dislikes...practically everything is in the like column except dancing...I was not blessed with rhythm...I will always give it a shot though, not to proud to give it a shake! I love most music, ...and I enjoy singing too...although, once again, was not blessed in that area either. As for movies, I love everything but Horror flicks.So my question is; Is there someone who will be willing to take a chance in a friendship to see where it may bring us?"Thank You" for taking your time out and reading my profile. And if you are interested , please feel free to contact me. "Courage is not the lack of fear..., courage is knowing there is a fear, but having the faith by taking the risk to go through it, knowing no matter what, it will be all right". We never know..., unless we try. It is all about the journey, not the destination. I will be upfront and answer anything you would or should want to know about me...please do the same. HugsUpdated ***I live between O.C. and A.C., NJ so there are many options!

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a very sweet, affectionate, and caring girl that is looking for the "right" relationship. Typically, I have a smile on my face, as I tend to see the humor in most situations. I married my first true love and it lasted 23 years. I am not a player or looking for someone to take me out to dinner each night -just seeking a long-term monogamous relationship with someone who is fun, loving, and affectionate. I'm an independent, normal, and sane lady looking for the same in a gentleman. Surely, there are a few of those out there. :) I am a very logical and level-headed person, so I'm pretty low maintenance. My ex and I get along and we work well together when dealing with issues that affect the kids. My children are 17 and 22, so perhaps I should have just said my daughter. She's a senior in high school and pretty self-sufficient. I enjoy just about anything with the right person. I grew up 15 minutes from the beach, so that's a favorite, but I love exploring the mountains as well. I lead a pretty active life and like it that way, so if you're a total couch potato, I don't think we'll make a good match. I'm a very young 52 year old - from the way I look to the way I act. My faith is important to me and I hope your faith is important to you. It's the basis for any good relationship. I faithfully attend 12 Stone Church and usher each week. Country and Contemporary Christian music are my favorites, but I enjoy rock and other types of music as well. If you drink to excess or are a drug user, please pass me by. I've watched that train wreck before and it is heartbreaking.If you think we may be a match, I would love to hear from you, but if not, I truly hope you find what you're looking for. :) A walk in a well populated park is always nice. Best case scenario is that there is great conversation and chemistry. It's a win-win because even if it doesn't work out, we'll get some fresh air and exercise. -or-Lunch or coffee (or dinner if we're feeling it) in a quaint location

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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