SIMILAR PEOPLE
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MirandaOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
***Update:I first joined this site a few years back while I was separated; I think mainly because I was lonely and wanted new people to talk to. Then my husband and I worked things out and I stopped logging in. Sadly, he passed away about 6 months ago, but at least the sparks in our marriage had come back and we had some special times before I lost him. I've only been back on here for a week or so. Not even sure I should be here, but I know he would want me to have male companionship of some kind. So here I am.The diversity of those on this site fascinates me to no end. There are so many differences in personalities and interests, yet all sharing at least this one thing in common by being on here. People sure are interesting. :-) I hope to make some new friends while here. If I initiate contact with you through the site’s ***, I have read your profile and something you’ve written has caught my attention. I do, on occasion, write to someone that I already know will not be interested in me as a potential match (some of you fellas are more specific than others when describing what you’re looking for), or vice versa. Don’t assume my intentions are anything other than an appreciation of some part of you. Chances are, I honed in on your great sense of humor and thought I’d enjoy chatting with you, want to compliment you on your excellent profile-making skills, or am curious and/or interested to learn more about some content in your profile.Now on to an attempt to describe myself……I hold back opening up to someone until I feel comfortable with them…sometimes that happens quickly, sometimes it takes awhile and sometimes it’s just not gonna happen.I am not outgoing, but I’m not an introvert either. I love meeting and listening to people, yet until someone gets to know me, they usually think I’m shy. I tend to be one of the more quiet ones in a group setting. That’s because I’m trying to hear what everyone else has to say. If you’re looking for “the life of the party” type of gal…I’m not her. More likely, I’m one of her dearest friends though.I love music…just about any kind. Always have. Always will. I can’t imagine a life without it. I have a deep respect and admiration for musicians (and a bit of envy). I will listen to anything at least once.I love animals…especially the furry kind.If I’m with friends…I’m usually having fun, regardless of what we are doing or where we are at. I enjoy both indoor and outdoor events/excursions/whatever else you care to call them. If you’re with the right person ANYTHING can be fun!I love road trips, preferably unhurried. I like taking time to stop and see the little things that aren’t necessarily mentioned in any tour guide and watching people along the way, and hopefully hearing their stories. I’ve never been able to work any world traveling into my budget, but if my sister ever wins the lottery (because I don’t play, and she promised to share if she ever wins big LOL), there are so many places I’d love to see!Some of my turn-offs:LiarsCrueltyMeaniesFakesFreeloadersRacistsClosed MindsCheatersControl FreaksHatersHomophobesInsecurityTo find the key to my heart you will need to be genuine, young at heart, well-mannered, loving, self-sufficient (I won’t be your maid, mommy or bank), honest, kind, have smiling eyes and a sense of humor (if you make me laugh, you’re halfway there).I don’t understand the concept of people “looking for a long-term relationship”. That is not something you find…IT finds you. If it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen, whether you want it to or not, AND not on your own personal preplanned timeline, but when it’s the right time for IT. I think some people get so caught up in the ‘looking’ that they forget to cultivate the friendships that could have been growing. One, of which, may have eventually blossomed into the exact thing they were looking for all along, but never end up finding due to their own haste and lack of patience. Look, if you feel the need to, but don’t throw away the friends you meet along the way.May you find joy in your life, Peace of mind, and laughter in your heart. Thanks for stopping by. xoxo I have not had a first date in years. No, make that decades!Open to suggestions. It seems obvious that it should be someplace we'd be able to talk and see if we're connecting at all. I suppose it would also depend on how much we had already talked on the phone or *** and forth. This is too generalized....to many unknowns for a definitive answer.
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LadonnaOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I feel that I am at my best spiritually, emotionally, intellectually and physically when I am in a committed relationship. I don't feel that we were put on earth to go through life's many journeys alone. I decided to move here in 87 to give my daughter more opportunities in life. I am not really fond of the weather in the summer months. The humidity can be a bit much. I like baseball, football, walking, bowling, boating, hiking, biking, museums, plays, art shows, local events, wine tastings and many things that can be discussed. I like most foods. I enjoy most music but am not fond of country or Rap. Sorry guys but I am a women that is not really fond of your motorcycle. A man can have his toys, but I really don't enjoy riding them in Pinellas County.. I am looking for a man that is not afraid to exercise. (You don't have to be muscle bound) I feel that it is important to stay fit and eat healthy, although I am not opposed to falling off the wagon occasionally. I'm looking for someone that can communicate freely. When we do come to an impasse I feel that it is OK to agree to disagree. I feel that mutual respect is of the up most importance. It can be what makes or brakes a relationship. I like occasional banter. I like to go out but feel just as comfortable staying in and enjoying one anther's company. I enjoy cooking together over a bottle of wine and also cuddling on the couch watching some TV. I also enjoy playing a game of cards, cribbage or a board game occasionally.I have a problem with men (as well as women) that lie about their age. I don't feel that any friendship/relationship can be built on lies. It is not a good way to start any friendship. I also feel there has to be some type of physical chemistry in the beginning . If I had gotten to know you through mutual friends or working together then the physical chemistry would not be as important. Unfortunately on this site we didn't have that opportunity, therefore its based more so on physical attraction first. (just being honest) I can not tell what you look like with one head shot wearing sunglasses. I also appreciate current photos, for when we hit fifty, "sadly enough" we do change rapidly..(All though I do try my best to fight it). Besides what have we got to hide? I would be seeing it when I meet you so why not now. Lets not waste time. **I am learning that on this site men, (as well as women) feel secure in pen pal situations.. I don't... I would like to meet as soon as possible, not to waste anyone's time. I don't feel like telling you my life long journey and then finding that there isn't any chemistry.** Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read my profile! Best wishes fishing! Let's meet up for a drink or maybe lunch, converse and enjoy. We could also play a game of miniature golf or bowl a string.. Sometimes it helps to laugh first and talk after.. It's whatever we decide to do.. I will not go to the beach or on your boat on a first meet sorry.
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VictoriaOffline
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
To start out with if you would get to know me that would be awsome! I have an amazing personality and a blast to be around. Never a dull moment! Im always up for anything and willing to try things that are new. i wanna continue living life to the fullest but i need someone to share it with. On the first date i would like to keep it simple so the two of us can get to know each other! So im saying an evening of talk and a nice lovely dinner!