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Abby, 52

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About Me

So this is where I am expected to sell myself hmmmm....I guess I should say that my friends would most likely describe me as being friendly, out going,spontaneous , warm, direct, honest, adventurous, loyal, trust worthy, passionate. I know this how? .....Simple I asked a friend :-)....lolAs for myself I would say that I prefer to laugh rather then having loads of drama around me.. One of my greatest passions is travel....once the travel bug bites you , you either love it or hate it...I adore it!I was born and raised in the United States, in fact I was raised in the South...while I have worked hard over the years to hide the southern accent...its still there a bit and does come out at times...Being raised in the South also means I still have the values that were *** me .....And I am use to men with manners....... I returned stateside at the end of ***....After having spent the last 6 months back in the states.. Im so excited and truly thrilled to be back in the country I love for at least the next 9 months if not permanently...I have no issue taking side trips when ever the urge strikes :)I can be very out going in a group setting there are times that I can be a tad shy at first when it comes to one on one...While I am not in a huge rush , I would like sometime in my future to have my last " First " kiss...Also I'm not looking for someone to sleep with ...Im looking for the man I CANT sleep without.....Can you tell I'm a bit if a hopeless romantic?I believe that a kiss can tell so much and if "its" not there when you kiss someone...that speaks volumes.Im looking for a man who knows what he wants and realizes when he's found it.I tend to be attracted to humorously witty men who doesn't back away from an occasional challenge...( Not to worry as a challenge would ONLY be in a good way)I enjoy tee-shirt and jeans or formals...Im comfortable in both..but have learned that often its not so much what you do rather than WHO it is you do it with that matters.I am not a smoker and not being rude,but I don't care to be around smokers or date a smoker...sorry but this is one thing I will not budge on...Im not being judgmental...it comes from experience as in the past I dated smokers...two very different life styles .I hope you can understand.NOTE: I understand that everyone would like to protect your privacy...However Im asking that you please have a current photo as its just a risky for me to post my photo...its nice to know who's contacting you.....Thanks :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marlene

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Wow, you'd think this would be such a easy thing to do, write about the person you know the best, yourself, but its hard. Anyway, here goes.I am growing more and more evolved as a person, confidante, friend, lover, sister, mother. I have been blessed with two amazing children (most of the time) lol.My desires are simple. I am a woman that would hope to easily earn your respect, and honor, have a have degree of integrity, and wants true commitment. I would like to find someone that has an awesome sense of humor, can keep me laughing during challenging times( as all couples occasionally have) loves the outdoors and nature, and respects and values thoughts and opinions of others even if You and or I may not resonate with that opinion. I have a real desire to connect with people of other cultures, and enjoy great conversations and experiences. I do not "date around", so if you are a serial dater, or are just interested in an occasional fun night out without looking any further into the future, please do not respond to me. I am a one man woman.... like my mom used to say, " you never know when you kiss that frog you may just fall in love". Those pheromones can be pretty strong!But believe me, I've been divorced over 10 years and it hasn't happened yet, but I am the eternal optimist.... and I do believe I'll find " my" perfect one.Additionally I have known people that feel that they needed to drink every day to "feel good, relax, and enjoy themselves". I have dated people that do this, and realize fully that this is not a habit I feel is healthy and beneficial. Do I drink socially, yes, but only socially. I love outdoor sports, especially water skiing, snow skiing, swimming, fishing, mountain biking, soccer, basketball, and rock climbing (before rotator cuff tear repair). I love to try new things, and typically don't shy away from challenges, unless the result could be dangerous ( I love my kids too much)! As for travel and nature, there is nothing better than spending time in the sun, and taking in all that nature has to offer. I love the mountains, (camping also) especially in the fall, but also have a real affinity for the ocean. I also am a real fisherwoman, therefore I try to spend as much time around any body of water. It brings great calm and serenity over me, and makes me feel one with the earth.My profession is slightly atypical, as I am in the naturopathic healing field. I am VERY happy with my life, feel blessed that I too spend my life in a field that I am helping other people to improve their lives, and am at a great place. I have many clients, and want to continue a more natural, healthy lifestyle. Unfortunately I have had a couple of sports injuries in the past couple of years, but am getting ready to get that taken care of as well. LIFE!! It's all good!Animals are a huge part of my life, always have been, and I have shih tzh puppies and young persian cats. I believe they are truly a valuable addition to one's psyche. Some I simply can't pull from my hat right now.Travel and culture is also a passion of mine. I have had the opportunity to visit Europe several times, have taken my 2 children for extensive periods of time, and believe this is one of the best forms of education you can provide to children.I hope this gives you some insight into me, and my desires for my a continued healthy, happy life. Want to become acquainted if for no other reason a new friendship with a native Charlottean? Please, please know though if you only feel that sending a note with a "hi" it says to me you don't think taking the time to right a more personal note is worth your time. Additionally, I don't date anyone that are separated or recently divorced. I do feel it takes time to get through several ( at least 2 years) to work through necessary angst, pain, and ex issues to become ready for a real, happy and non comparison relationship. I've seen it too often hurt too many people, as well as myself and don't choose to walk that path again. I'm a realist, and want to bring and experience pure joy with the person I have a relationship with, without being compared.I wish you all happiness, peace, and blessings of finding the next forever "love" that will rock your world!Natural Carpe Diem Something casual that allows for great conversation and activity.

  • Danielle

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    While I am happy and content as I am, I really prefer to share my day-to-day life with someone to love, admire and pamper. Like acting goofy sometimes and love to laugh. I expect mutual respect, Prefer summer over winter. Always look forward to the summer and many opportunties to do various activities outdoors. Love hot tubs during a snowfall. I love to cater any event! I'm always up for new adventures, can often be spontaneous and enjoy well-planned activities as well. In the summer, I try to get in as many local festivals as I can and would like to attend a few Polish festivals. I have a few favorite local lounge bands from the late 70's and early 80's. I do not frequent bars. Typically would only go to see friends perform.For many years, I have been an active supporter of the American Cancer Society, have chaired and participated at many annual ACS events and am active in the women's club at church. I have traveled mostly within the U.S. but have had the opportunity to vacation in Guatemala. My profession is in the hospitality industry.I would like to meet someone who is mild tempered, non-judgemental of others and doesn't critisize. You would be a good conversationalist as well as a good listener. Someone who enjoys a variety of music, family orientated, passionate, sensual and loves to kiss. I'd like to find someone who would enjoy dancing just to have fun and doesn't care if were in front of ***people or by ourselves. I would enjoy hearing about your interests and passions! Coffee, drinks, music anywhere where we could have a pleasant conversation.

  • Gale

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am 100% Italian. I come from a big family. I'm fun loving and Jesus is my Lord and Savior. I believe the word of God from cover to cover. I believe Jesus is the same Yesterday , Today and Tomorrow. Jesus is my Lord, Father, Husband, friend and more. I work for a big Company known around the world and have been there 34 years now. I love traveling and seeing our beautiful Country. It took three weeks stopping along the way. I love the West and the beautiful mountains. I also have been all through the East Coast . I love horse back riding and riding snow mobiles and dog sledding . I also love the beaches. I love to snorkle, jet ski, boating ,swimming. I have travel through Europe and Australia. I love camping , sitting around campfire. BBQ and hanging out with family and friends. I love going to Concerts , comedy clubs, movies and going out to eat . I also like cooking and staying at home put on a good movie or watch a good tv show. I love playing board games and cards. I am a people person, I also love animals and nature . Meet for lunch and get to know each other.

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