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IngridOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-58
What I like most about myself is that I'm authentic, and that I'm balanced. I am smart without being a know-it-all, I'm sarcastic without being mean or b*tchy, I'm passionate without being slutty, I'm strong without being hard, and I'm affectionate and loving without being clingy.I am a positive person who forgives easily, doesn't get bent over small stuff, never needs to be right at the expense of someone else's dignity, and who likes to move from one happy thing to the next happy thing. I am strong willed, irreverent, opinionated, fiery, passionate, kind, sweet,capable, forgetful, happy, fun, courteous, thoughtful, loyal to the core, blunt, outspoken, nurturing, affectionate and loving. What I’m doing with my life?I'm smelling the roses... soaking up the joy of my grandsons' belly laughs, rediscovering the world through the eyes of a curious toddler and pre-schooler, I've gotten my priorities in order and I don't miss any of the things I used to think mattered.I have the wisdom to know what happiness really is. Once, I looked for a bow wrapped package, but I've learned that happiness is made up of fleeting moments that can be easily missed... a certain smile, the unexpected smell of honeysuckle on a path in the woods, grass under bare toes, that new baby smell on an infants neck... I'm spending every moment I can relishing those little moments. I think that expectation is the greatest enemy of happiness, and I take one day at a time, living in the present moment rather than in the past or the future.You need to know that I'm a larger woman... queen size, ruebenesque, thick, curvy,chubby, pick your own euphemism. I don't say this to be self deprecating or apologetic.. I"m just being honest. I put on quite a bit of weight with a back injury, and I just got fixed up and back into old healthy habits. the extra weight is half off and I'm going strong (no couch potato here) ...I feel sexy as hell, I accept myself as is, and I demand that anyone who wants to share time with me feels the same way. I am fortunate enough to have good proportions despite the weight, , but I am fifty pounds overweight.Want a hiking, yoga, or gym partner? that would be a big plus....my gym membership allows me to bring a guest ! :) I'm not dieting, I'm resuming the active lifestyle I had before my accident and eating clean, and I plan to resume healthy living permanently....so if you are into drugs, or think of lying on the couch or drinking beer as activities, you probably aren't for me.What am I looking for? Ideally , I eventually want to meet that person who is my partner in life for the rest of my years. I'm ready to settle down and have a life with someone I love, albeit taking our time to arrive there to make sure it's the real deal. I am not interested in men who are dating for the sake of dating.... cool for you, but I'm ready for something more substantial at this point in my life. I am also not interested in dating long distance.I do need a basic physical attraction, but within that, kindness, awareness, intelligence and the ability to love deeply are more important to me than the size of your waistband, how much hair you have, or what you drive. I am impressed by what you are, not what you own.I truly do not care where we go or what we do, as long as it's public enough that I feel secure (I can't trust you 100percent until I've looked into your eyes), it's quiet enough to have real conversation, and we can both be comfortable.A walk by the river at sycamore shoals, or coffee at barnes and noble would do quite nicely :)
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SofiaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-60
I am a single female who is very independent and very content with my career. I am seeking a single male who has let go of past relationships and is serious about moving on to date and maybe possibly connect with. "TRUTHFUL" a must I take notice to details very well so I catch on very quickly so if you are not honest I have to say "MOVE" along.... I am a very relaxed lay back person who is always ready to be in good company and share a few laughs and smiles. I am very positive and look forward to each new day and what challenges I am faced with. I love the ocean and especially animals. We have a lot to learn from them. Only respectful positive and settled men in there present situation I am searching for . If you respond to my profile I will respond but only if you have moved on to meet that special person of course after a date and if there is a connection present. Good Luck in you're search. Look forward to hearing from you . Please take the time to read my profile first before replying so we have a clear understanding why I am here. Not here to waste you're time or mine No sexual encounter invites !!! Tks Happy Fishing :)I would enjoy meeting you for coffee/ tea and a walk by water or a Public Park
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JeanneOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-55
what i am looking for........oh goodness. that depends on the day. lol. i want someone to eat a dinner with. somebody that will make me laugh. a guy that knows a hug can make so many things feel better. a feller that doesn't look forward to happy hour every night. someone that can simply hold my hand while in the car or sitting on the couch. somebody with morals and standards. someone i can look at and be proud of the man he is. a guy that can just spend saturday morning just reading a book. must be able to steer a canoe. must want to feel appreciated for who you are. i want to find someone that wants to see a museum, take in a movie, laugh at a comic, site see, people watch, take in a local band, watch a royals game, take me to get funnel cake, i find the older i get the more i am willing to go out and try.about me.... i am usually funny, or at least i think i am. not shy, don't embarrass easily, like outdoors most of the time. camping, hiking, lake, etc. i am a craft geek, and proud of it. close to my mom, but not a mammas girl. have been told i need a music intervention (i seem to be stuck in the 80's or country) dream location is a beach with blue water. i enjoy reading. trying to get off the internet kick a bit. so, more readying and music on weekends. not clingy or needy, but i do appreciate cuddles. i am a women that knows only i can make my life "happy", the others i share it with are just icing on the cake. i am pretty independent. gotta admit i am not a big bar person. im pretty comfy in my jeans and shirt. i guess if you want to know more, just let me know. no secerts here. don't be shy. and i have now realized i am not a writer. maybe i should have done an outline first. darn itwhat type of animal would you be and why? (great start to conversation) i would be a monkey because they are silly and when else can you throw poopy at people and they still find you adorable?update ***lol...sadly the list below needs to be said...(yes really!!***if you have convictions for domestic battery...skip me..you will never have an excuse that i will understand2) i am not a betty crocker...not gonna mislead you on that one...lol...(but strange enough i love laundry***respect me..i respect you.."rules" go both ways...4) if you hide your beer in a glass so your family doesnt know your drinking...not interested..argh5) if you throw a fit like a toddler...call your momma...not me6) dont bs or pretend to be something your not...its exhausting really..if you have to pretend to be somebody else...look at your life and strive for it..7) women want to be wooed (explanation or clairfication below)*8) lying or cheating isnt tolerated...really? 9) if you have been on maury or jerry...kinda kewl actually...but probably not for me***if your way of communicating and working thru problems is the silent treatment...(insert dial tone***if all your major relationships were based on sperm meeting egg...(come on do i really need to explain this ***if your idea of great cinema is debbie does dallas..(your kidding right***if your idea of foreplay is opening the condom...(no way***if you have been married to two people at once...(get a lawyer) and yes i have ran into this***if you feel the need to ever say "i dont like you hanging out with so and so, cuz i havent met them",,,man last time i checked your name wasnt on my birth certificate***if i look at your pictures and i can see a pile of dishes in the background, your dirty drawers, a fish in every pic...chances are i wont respond, not to me mean...but pick up***dont bs...its exhausting and i have no tolerance for it...***first chances are resonable....second chances hardly happen...***no profile pic? dont bother....sorry, may sound shallow but i have to feel some sort of attraction just the same as you.....***if you *** times in four hours and i dont respond...get a hint...and calling me a **** for not responding is insane...not gonna waste my time or yours if there isnt something there....***and guys this is a hint for you....one pic of yourself and 5 of your bike, boat, fish, etc....i dont wanna date vehicles or animals...use this space to meet someone, not attract someone that is only attracted to material things...thats not what you want!!***if you dont have a picture....dont bother...i figure if a guy can make the request so can i....***sounds horrible...but i really only want to date someone with older kids....i like my freedom right now with my kids being grown and out of the house...***really please and pretty please fill out your profile...i will not respond if it isnt...your wasting my time and yours***if you are in the middle of a midlife crisis or some crap like that....i done my time with this one...not starting out with it again....this doesnt make me a hag..just a women that knows what i want and dont feel like i should settle and neither should you. *when i say wooed..its not money money money..it is the simple lil things...notes where i will find them...a text that says your thinking of me...my windows scraped in the winter time...my favorite ice cream..it really is the simple things...i do the same thing for you...so show me the same respect.relationships take effort..ill put the effort in if you do...sadly i feel i have to say this. if your user name some way describes you penis, then don't feel the need to *** you feel the need to tell me your hard or throbbing, uncool. and if you are on here, then i am guessing that line hasn't worked before and get a clue. if you feel the need to tell me i have boobs. really? you don't say? man i sure was wondering what the hell they were called. i mean come on guys. anyways, i guess i also have to say married, druggies, felons, etc need not *** understand totally that everyone needs love, but it won't be from me. if you are just a texter and don't follow thru, then you can skip me too. i have enough text friends. i want someone who actually wants to meet, hang out, and do stuff. disclaimer>i reserve the right to adjust this at any time. the statement is my opinion only, and isn't that of other women.some place casual..but a good place to talk..got to get to know each other right?