SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Coleen
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I am happy. I have had a really rough year or so, but have found a way to get through it all and end up on top with my own two hands. Because of all that I have overcome, I feel that I have a greater understanding of not only what I am looking for, but also what I bring to the table, and where my boundaries are. I dont have alot of "favorites," I more often opt for the variety pack. I have my master's degree in education/school counseling and love working with children and families. After work I like to let my hair down, and either relax with my puppies or go meet up with friends and new people. My favorite color is orange, i listen to everything but country, metal, and techno. I have danced 22 years. I love animals. I love new things. I love the beach, tanning, boats, bbq's, and everything about summer. I am guided through life by my moral code, ethics, and principles. I will always try to take the higher road, despite the nagging voice in my head to take the easy way. I take a stand against injustice, because I am THAT girl. I am independent, I have always paid my own bills. I had my midlife crisis early, so I'm smooth sailing now. I have been accused of having a broken picker in the past, and I'm determined to make better choices this time around in a mate for myself. I want a nice, responsible guy, not to be mistaken with unattractive, and/or spineless. I have a big personality and it takes a special kind of man to not only keep up, but to reign me in from time to time. Se since I have a master's degree, you should have some degree of some kind.I have worked hard to become who I am, I am looking for someone to enhance my life. Life is about progression, don't contact me if you are going to be dead weight to me. This girl has to fly. Now, tell me who YOU are...I will not ask for more than I can give. I can accept having a past, I'm more concerned with what you have done with those learning opportunities. I want and deserve the whole package. I want intellectual stimulation, stability, emotional health, attraction, ambition, accomplishment, honesty, kindness, sincerity. I need a balance and dependability when life is knocked off center. I don't need or want anyone to fight my battles, but I do want someone in my corner to pick me up when I fall, or to cheer me on through my victory. I will not settle, but I will explore. I have an open mind and acceptance for adversity, but that doesn't mean that I will immerse myself in someone else's bullshit. I am a control freak's nightmare, and will shatter the ego of any jealous man. I will rise to the occasion, and don't always step down. I am also filled with as much compassion and generosity as I can hold. I'm a dichotomy and versatile. Sweats and nachos or wine tasting and opera, you may find me anywhere...ON A SUPERFICIAL NOTE: Foreign accents drive me crazy (in a bad way). Attached earlobes creep me out, sometimes I like to kiss ears, and just can't do it. Please have a car, I don't want to do all of the driving. I don't do active military, I can't deal with deployment. I'm okay with dads, but not if ur kids mom is crazy or gonna make any kind of hell, (I am none of her business). By good I mean that I may actually want to be inside your mouth one day, and those odds greatly diminish if you don't take care of your teeth. I am a picker. Behind closed doors I may want to pluck your eyebrows, ingrown hairs, or pick at that thing on your back. I'm OCD about bumps I guess. Don't talk about sex in regards to us until I have decided that they may be something I am considering, it is creepy. I would rather you tell me no than say nothing in attempt to spare my feelings. My feelings don't get hurt easily, especially in the beginning. If you snort when you laugh, I will point it out, and laugh harder. The more you try to CONVINCE me that you are different from every man I have ever met, the more you are just like the rest of them. How I feel about you is none of your business, so don't ask, I'll tell you if it becomes relevant. I will not meet you for coffee, that tells me ur not sure yet if you really want to meet me and you want something quick and easy to escape from. If ur not sure, then you need to put more time in figuring it out. Dinner is fine, but a walk or a movie is out. Id like to see someone that has a creative side, I have gone to more dinner dates than I can count. If you want me to remember you, then stand out and sell yourself! You are your best advocate! If there is a second date, I am full of ideas, but I'm not going to tell you. Surprise me, and be suprised ;)
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Shaquita
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Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
I could say a lot here, but that wouldn't leave much for a conversation. I work, have my own vehicle, love and have tattoos, love music and honesty.When I send a message I put some thought into it, so If you could do the same that would be great. I will not respond to "hi" or "how's it going?" Movies are never a good first date. Creativeness and imagination can go along way.
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Judith
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I'm very driven, motivated, and independent. I work hard towards my goals and have a great passion for the things I want to accomplish. I want to find someone who is motivated, driven, educated, and hard working like myself. Who shares the same morals and values. I can't stand lazy people who mooch off their significant other, been there done that. No thanks! I have been cheated on, the last by my former fiancé and I find myself to be very guarded. Trusting people does not come easily.I am currently working toward my Bachelors degree in business/marketing. I work 2 main jobs, one of which I volunteer for, teaching kids social skills, art, and helping with homework. The other I am an Administrative/Credentialing/Marketing specialist for a busy Ophthalmology practice. Working directly with the Administrator and Board of Directors. Then on top of that I have a couple side businesses of my own, making cakes, doing make-up/hair for events, event planning/catering, and photography. I don't have much free time, I work ***hours a week and attend school. Would like to find someone that would be supportive and won't hold me back. As I would be in return. I don't plan on putting my dreams and plans on hold again. If you are one to play games, I won't put up with it. I'm very upfront and open, I expect the same in return.When I do have downtime I enjoy baking, cooking, reading, traveling when I get the chance, road trips, spending time with friends, catering, taking my dog for walks, event planning, I love the beach and the sun.I mainly listen to Jazz, Classical, Swing, Big Band, and Hard Rock. I played the piano for many years, not so much any more. Still tinker with it at times.If you wanna talk just send me a message. If you don't have a picture don't bother messaging me I won't reply. If I don't respond to your message, I have read your profile and I'm not interested. Meeting for coffee