PJ, 55
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About Me
I'm a 52 yrs young, female looking for someone that I can start a long lasting, caring, respectful, loving, honest, an loyal Friendship an relationship with Someone that wants the samething as I do. Not just say they do!!
Or they just want 1st nite of sex, nothing more!
Most men take me out, but realize after, I was very honest about it. IT WONT HAPPEN!!!
They get MAD AS HELL, saying u wasted their time! An They truely believe u owe them for taken u out!!!
Believe me, this happens more often then u think to woman!!
Or men think woman have a rule list for dating..... They believe the 3rd date is sex!! And NOW expect it!!! WRONG!!!!!
If your that type of man who is trying to figuring out how many times u must be taken out, b4 I put out!!!
Well I'll save u time an money, I wont put out, tell theirs a relationship that is working out!!
Unless I'm sure of actually intent, an both agree to work on an see if a long term committed relationship will work.
Only then does sex come in the game, it's a pleasure u enjoy with your partner to show an feel their love... not just SEX!! I'm not that person!!
Not seeing anyone else, a true healthy relationship..
Sex is important, but only in a committed relationship, that has meaning other then SEX!!
It is a very important part of a loving committed relationship, Theres not a rush for sex, until we no if theres a chance for a real loving relationship.
Both need to enjoy talking to each other. Need to see if u both have the same beliefs, an plans, an wants!!!!
Then must have some physical attraction, anyone that says it dont matter r lying, I'm honest, it isnt all about that, but must be attracted to the person your with!!!!!
I am honest, a relationship can not be built solely on looks!! There has to be so much more then that..
Before I move onto a sexual relationship with anyone, I need to no that things r working an we have started a true relationship...
Otherwise I am getting to no people, an I wont sleep with anyone I no it will never go any further, we will just b friends!!!
I do not believe in sleeping with my friends, that doesnt work out ever..
Only tells someone, they will always cheat, it's just a friend, it meant nothing!!! It was just sex... rite?
I have 1 child, he us now 22 yrs old, moved back home 2 yrs ago, with his long time girlfriend.
I love her as if she actually was my child..
When I speak of her or them, I refer to them both as my kids!!
I introduce her as my daughter, someone actually thought they were brother an sis, letting them date an sleep togather under my roof....LOL!!
Now I'm careful on how I introduce them.. Certain people, I let them think WTF!!!!, I have a pretty good laugh, when they get that look!!!! LOL...
I refuse to fight or aurgue with anyone, I walk a away for a moment an then come back to calmly discuss it, those who refuse to let up, an pick an pick, trying to get me mad, I just leave, an never look back... it is not worth the time, nor anger..
I am very honest, very forward, about everything.
I have noticed on date sites, theres fake accounts, there's married men not single, younger men thinking older women r hard up, an will take care of u, I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR SCAMMERS AN SCUM... I turn in those type of people I come across!! So save yourself the time, an keep scrolling by...
If your photos are over 3 yrs old, trust me others can see the difference, u may not others can, weight we really can tell, 20 LBS is very noticeable an more then that, ur fooling only u, if u think they wont notice....
So unless the photos of u are less then 1 yr, and are actually of u not someone completely different, I google search everyone's photos.. I find someone fake, I turn them in.. So save yourself some time...
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